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Mrs. Nesbitt Due November 3 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Kansas 1894 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" A little mistake? are you kidding me?? that's a human being.That's a pretty big fricking mistake."


and your daughter would be a human being as well..
lets hope you never encounter such an ordeal. jesus..

♛Queen Boo♛ 2 kids; United Kingdom 2529 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" A little mistake? are you kidding me?? that's a human being.That's a pretty big fricking mistake."

But it happens. That is life. You don't just turn your back on your kids!

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Mrs. Nesbitt:" and your daughter would be a human being as well.. lets hope you never encounter such an ordeal. jesus.."


well there wouldn't be a little human being if she aborted, which would be the right choice. What would make a 13, 14, 15, 16 year old think it's 'okay' to have a child?... Life isn't some fricking tea party.

Layla-and-Faith 2 kids; Nova Scotia 656 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting sapherequeen:" So, I came across a debate not too long ago that kind of stuck with me,and I just wanted to see what ... [snip!] ... you consider this a situation where someone was Pro-Choice with exceptions, as some Pro-Lifers may think of themselves as?"


They are hypocrites. It's their choice what they do with their own uterus, it's their choice what they do with their son's penis and it's their choice what they do with their daughter's uterus.. it's always THEIR choice even though it's not their body they are messing with. The baby being aborted, the son have his penis chopped, the 13 year old being forced into abortion... they don't get a choice.. Those mom's are not really pro-choice for everyone.. they are pro-do-whatever-the-f-I-want. Very selfish because it's all about them and what's best for them.. they never take into consideration the other person involved.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Layla-and-Faith:" They are hypocrites. It's their choice what they do with their own uterus, it's their choice what they ... [snip!] ... selfish because it's all about them and what's best for them.. they never take into consideration the other person involved."


Hit the nail on the head!!!
I think these women like playing God

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Layla-and-Faith:" They are hypocrites. It's their choice what they do with their own uterus, it's their choice what they ... [snip!] ... selfish because it's all about them and what's best for them.. they never take into consideration the other person involved."


True story, making my YOUNG child abort because I don't want to raise another child is selfish and I am 100% okay with that.

DisneyMommy 34 kids; Florida 6301 posts
24th Sep '12

I completely agree! I dont understand that logic.



I too said once in a thread that I, being pro-choice, would not force my child to get an abortion, and I was basically told that that equates to me condoning teen pregnancy. :shock:



Ummm....NO.



I hope to God my Daughter does not come home pregnant anytime soon (she is already in her teen years), or that my son gets a girl pregnant in his teens, or even early 20's for that matter.



But IF it happens, despite me hoping it does not and educating them best I can, and parenting them well? I would NEVER turn my back on my Children and Grandchildren.
I find it appalling that anyone could.



If they chose abortion as their own choice, fine, i support that.
But I would never make them, get once or feel as if they have to simply because they have no other way.

Mrs. Nesbitt Due November 3 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Kansas 1894 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" well there wouldn't be a little human being if she aborted, which would be the right choice. What would ... [snip!] ... choice. What would make a 13, 14, 15, 16 year old think it's 'okay' to have a child?... Life isn't some fricking tea party."

I had said your child would be a human being. so kicking them out for getting pregnant??



I got pregnant at 15. had my son at 16. my mother fully supported ANY decision I made. told me if abortion was what I chose, she would support it, but said she didn't want me doing so unless I felt it was the best decision.
and if that I kept the baby, if i stayed in school and graduated, focused solely on my child and school, she would support it. I wasn't allowed to have a job, because I was to go to school, and come straight home and take care of my responsibility. my son.



either way, my mother was there for me thru it all. and I would be the exact same way.
maybe not push for them to not have a job like my mother did, but I would certainly help them where they needed it.

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3034 posts
24th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-Lily:</b>" A little mistake? are you kidding me?? that's a human being.That's a pretty big fricking mistake."</blockquote>




If your daughter got pregnant as a teen that doesn't mean your parenting with her is over and you can "abort" her and it defiantly doesn't legally make her an adult.
If she was 14-15 you'd still have 3-4 years of parenting left and you'd still have to support her and ONLY her.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
24th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Layla-and-Faith:</b>" They are hypocrites. It's their choice what they do with their own uterus, it's their choice what they ... [snip!] ... selfish because it's all about them and what's best for them.. they never take into consideration the other person involved."</blockquote>




I would be making the choice with my child's best interest in mind. Not mine.

* Kat * 2 kids; Okinawa, Japan 373 posts
24th Sep '12

oops, read it to fast :)



I'm pro-life for me. That doesn't mean I want to force that stance on other women (especially my daughter). She would have to chose what was best for her. I am a stay at home mom, which means that if she decided to have a baby, I would be there and support her the whole time. I respect every other woman's right to choose what's best for HER. My pro-life stance goes as far as my little personal bubble encompasses. If my daughter felt that an abortion was what was right for her, I would support that.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
24th Sep '12

Unless she was, like nine, then no, I wouldn't "force" my daughter to abort. But at sixteen, her ass is getting a job and supporting what is hers.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I don't think you should force your high school student to work, yet... (this is just my opinion), they should focus on school first so they have some chance of a future, KWIM? "


I'm not saying she needs to get a full-time job, but she is going to work part-time to help support the kid. I wouldn't kick her out and she'd have a free place to stay. But financially, she decided to be a big girl, now she has to start acting like one.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Oh I agree!! I really do... I'm trying to use logic though, KWIM? "


I see what you're saying, but I just would not feel comfortable with her not working and having me do all the financial supporting, especially since it is her kid. Plenty of BG mamas have worked and gone to school and raised kids w/out the help of their parents. Even just working ten hours a week would be enough to pay for diapers. She would get someone watching her kid so she could do homework, but I think making her work would help her understand the severity of the situation and, hopefully, will deter her from having a second or, heaven forbid, a third baby.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Yeah, I get that. But the BD of that kid better be helping out too! "


I would hope so! I would have a sit down with his parents to discuss how the situation will be handled and off to the OB/GYN for some BC!