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Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" And I still have choices and rights too. If she had her own apartment, and was working, and then asked ... [snip!] ... for 50 bucks for some groceries because she had a bad pay cheque, sure I'd help her out.. But I would refuse to raise the kid."


If she is 14 or 15 she is still a kid and you cannot legally kick her out...

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" She can go into foster care then :S I don't care."


Talk about love :?

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" She can go into foster care then :S I don't care."



:shock: thats pretty sad.. So her two choices would be either abortion or GTFO? What about adoption?

Mrs. Nesbitt Due November 3 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Kansas 1894 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" She can go into foster care then :S I don't care."


wow..
kicking out your own child because she made one little mistake, resulting in YOUR grandchild...

♛Queen Boo♛ 2 kids; United Kingdom 2526 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" She can go into foster care then :S I don't care."


You don't care? That's messed up. I understand the not wanting to raise the kid but to kick them out in foster care and to say you do not care? I'm all for people standing on their own two feet when wanting to make adult choices but they'd still need some guidance, in some form or another.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" :shock: thats pretty sad.. So her two choices would be either abortion or GTFO? What about adoption?"


Adoption would be fine.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Mrs. Nesbitt:" wow.. kicking out your own child because she made one little mistake, resulting in YOUR grandchild..."


A little mistake? are you kidding me?? that's a human being.That's a pretty big fricking mistake.

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42577 posts
24th Sep '12

Because a child does not have the mental or physical capacity to understand all encompassing consequences of her choice. As her mother it is my duty to step in and make decisions for her on potentially life-threatening medical issues.

Mrs. Nesbitt Due November 3 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Kansas 1894 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" A little mistake? are you kidding me?? that's a human being.That's a pretty big fricking mistake."


and your daughter would be a human being as well..
lets hope you never encounter such an ordeal. jesus..

♛Queen Boo♛ 2 kids; United Kingdom 2526 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" A little mistake? are you kidding me?? that's a human being.That's a pretty big fricking mistake."

But it happens. That is life. You don't just turn your back on your kids!

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Mrs. Nesbitt:" and your daughter would be a human being as well.. lets hope you never encounter such an ordeal. jesus.."


well there wouldn't be a little human being if she aborted, which would be the right choice. What would make a 13, 14, 15, 16 year old think it's 'okay' to have a child?... Life isn't some fricking tea party.

Layla-and-Faith 2 kids; Nova Scotia 656 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting sapherequeen:" So, I came across a debate not too long ago that kind of stuck with me,and I just wanted to see what ... [snip!] ... you consider this a situation where someone was Pro-Choice with exceptions, as some Pro-Lifers may think of themselves as?"


They are hypocrites. It's their choice what they do with their own uterus, it's their choice what they do with their son's p***s and it's their choice what they do with their daughter's uterus.. it's always THEIR choice even though it's not their body they are messing with. The baby being aborted, the son have his p***s chopped, the 13 year old being forced into abortion... they don't get a choice.. Those mom's are not really pro-choice for everyone.. they are pro-do-whatever-the-f-I-want. Very selfish because it's all about them and what's best for them.. they never take into consideration the other person involved.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Layla-and-Faith:" They are hypocrites. It's their choice what they do with their own uterus, it's their choice what they ... [snip!] ... selfish because it's all about them and what's best for them.. they never take into consideration the other person involved."


Hit the nail on the head!!!
I think these women like playing God

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
24th Sep '12
Quoting Layla-and-Faith:" They are hypocrites. It's their choice what they do with their own uterus, it's their choice what they ... [snip!] ... selfish because it's all about them and what's best for them.. they never take into consideration the other person involved."


True story, making my YOUNG child abort because I don't want to raise another child is selfish and I am 100% okay with that.

DisneyMommy 34 kids; Florida 6301 posts
24th Sep '12

I completely agree! I dont understand that logic.



I too said once in a thread that I, being pro-choice, would not force my child to get an abortion, and I was basically told that that equates to me condoning teen pregnancy. :shock:



Ummm....NO.



I hope to God my Daughter does not come home pregnant anytime soon (she is already in her teen years), or that my son gets a girl pregnant in his teens, or even early 20's for that matter.



But IF it happens, despite me hoping it does not and educating them best I can, and parenting them well? I would NEVER turn my back on my Children and Grandchildren.
I find it appalling that anyone could.



If they chose abortion as their own choice, fine, i support that.
But I would never make them, get once or feel as if they have to simply because they have no other way.