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Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58277 posts
status 25th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenn{+2}:</b>" I'll do it!"</blockquote>




Yes!!

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Cool! Well I need some extra hormone release. I avoid sex so much I've actually considered medications. It's really no good for my relationship. "


it doesnt have to start out w/''sex'' right away...some sexual talking/touching to build things up is great.....when you dont have time to get totally naked a h**d j*b under the table is always good (start wearing skirts or dresses for ''easy access) and oral is always a good alternative. After u few days you will find that all those things are foreplay instead of alternatives :)....i dont know how i am going to make it a few weeks pp when this baby pops out

O ♥ G 2 kids; Pride, Louisiana 10723 posts
25th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting O ♥ G:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary ... [snip!] ... think we could do it, I'm pregnant and dry as the Sahara down there"</blockquote> Well I don't think it could hurt!"</blockquote>



No it will hurt, literally. I'm 7 months and every time we do it, I feel raw down there and it burns. Plus he's out of town right now. I think it's a good idea though and maybe we could try it for the future. It will be difficult though because we have opposite schedules and he will have to go out of town sometimes

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58277 posts
status 25th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting O ♥ G:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting O ... [snip!] ... it for the future. It will be difficult though because we have opposite schedules and he will have to go out of town sometimes"</blockquote>



Lmao, I hear ya!

Proginoskes II 3 kids; North Carolina 1295 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" If I could make him, I would. Believe me, I have only ever turned him down one time in our entire relationship."

I've literally never turned my BF down. I get rejected twice a week. wtf, right?

O ♥ G 2 kids; Pride, Louisiana 10723 posts
25th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ProginoskesII (SuperKink):</b>" I've literally never turned my BF down. I get rejected twice a week. wtf, right?"</blockquote>




I would be f**king livid.

user banned California 36390 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting ProginoskesII (SuperKink):" I've literally never turned my BF down. I get rejected twice a week. wtf, right?"


It really sucks. :( I get rejected almost every single night. The one night I turned him down, our babysitter was here and staying the night and I was on my period.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58277 posts
status 25th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super k******r:</b>" It really sucks. :( I get rejected almost every single night. The one night I turned him down, our babysitter was here and staying the night and I was on my period."</blockquote>



So what do you say? That's no way to live :(

user banned California 36390 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super k******r:</b>" It really sucks. :( I get rejected ... [snip!] ... was here and staying the night and I was on my period."</blockquote> So what do you say? That's no way to live :("


It depends. Sometimes I just don't say anything and go to bed/clean up his dinner/whatever. Sometimes we get into fights. He's trying to do better though.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58277 posts
status 25th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super k******r:</b>" It depends. Sometimes I just don't say anything and go to bed/clean up his dinner/whatever. Sometimes we get into fights. He's trying to do better though. "</blockquote>




I'm sorry, although, if that's the only problem in the relationship, you're doing okay.



Still, rejection can get to the person even though I'm sure it's not you, it's hard not to feel undesireable I imagine.

user banned California 36390 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super k******r:</b>" It depends. Sometimes I just ... [snip!] ... okay. Still, rejection can get to the person even though I'm sure it's not you, it's hard not to feel undesireable I imagine."


It snowballs is the problem. It's like:
ask for sex > rejected > depressed > house doesn't get cleaned > don't want to cook > DH gets mad and doesn't want sex > try to get sex > rejected



So it's a cycle.

Cici :) Due June 9; 1 child; Cape Coral, Florida 103 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I didn't say save, I said it would better it. And I'm not saying it'll work, I'm saying I wanna try!"


Agree :D

Proginoskes II 3 kids; North Carolina 1295 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting O ♥ G:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ProginoskesII (SuperKink):</b>" I've literally never turned ... [snip!] ... literally never turned my BF down. I get rejected twice a week. wtf, right?"</blockquote> I would be f**king livid."

Trust me, I am.
I have the sex drive of 3 teenage boys. Right now, he has the sex drive of a corpse.
I'm breastfeeding twins. He gives 2-3 bottles at night and he naps during the afternoon (unless he plans other shit,) I'm on duty with twins + 2 year old from 7/8 am until 8p, when the 2 year old goes to bed, then until midnight or 2 am with the twins- and he's tired.
ETA: But he has the energy to j**k o*f once or twice a night- after I go to bed.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
25th Sep '12

Our marriage could use a boost.. especially since last night. Plus I would love to have sex every day for 30 days. It sounds awesome! Now to convince the man who won't touch me to have sex with me. >.<

Caddy ÷ nwark, NJ, United States 9325 posts
25th Sep '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" So I read that if you have sex for 30 days, everyday, regardless of your mood or if you're fighting, ... [snip!] ... finish the 30! And don't come in here and say you already have sex everyday because I'll hate you! :p What do you think?!"


Me and SO have done this... most of the time. We have sex pretty much every day, there were 3 times we went 2 days without sex... but that's uncommon.



Me and SO have an amazing relationship (outside the bedroom) so I guess it does work!



Good luck girl!! Get some lube if you aren't always in the mood lol have him go down on you... more foreplay.
SO discovered my weakness :evil: even if I'm not in the mood, if he goes down on me it always gets me in the mood!