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Advice. MamaTay[Kennedi] 1 child; Greenville, Texas 4229 posts
status 26th Sep '12

I'm not exactly a single mom, LO's dad and I are still together, but we don't live together. I feel like a single mom because I do everything but buy diapers. He sees LO once or twice a week. And when he does see her he falls asleep or hands her off to me. Then he will pick a fight with me in front of LO and then she will cry and scream for an hour after. And then he blames the formula.
Also, he's refusing to look for work. He roofs but its sporadic. He will be homeless in a matter of weeks, and seems to do NOTHING to try and prevent it.
I love him so much but I'm at my wits end. He tells me I need to sell blood/plasma so I can buy diapers.
I just got a job and start soon, so I need him to watch LO and he tells me that I need to pay him gas money.
He also tells me that he should get her over night even though there's no where for LO to sleep and no power at .
What the heck should I do?

Little Monster Mummy 30+ 51 kids; 3 angel babies; Tyngsboro, MA, United States 1926 posts
26th Sep '12

not to sound like a b***h...but he sounds like an ass I'd leave...and definatly not let LO stay overnight where there's no where for her to sleep or power where he's at...take him to court for c.s. it's his baby too he should be helping you not telling you that you have to go sell blood/plasma to buy diapers with.

MamaTay[Kennedi] 1 child; Greenville, Texas 4229 posts
status 26th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Little Monster Mummy 30+:</b>" not to sound like a b***h...but he sounds like an ass I'd leave...and definatly not let LO stay overnight ... [snip!] ... for c.s. it's his baby too he should be helping you not telling you that you have to go sell blood/plasma to buy diapers with."</blockquote>



Right. He's been an ass. And it'd be over my dead body if she stayed there. He wants so much for us, a home, nice ish cars, a good life, but refuses to try and go for it. You don't sound like a b***h at all.