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Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" ...then leave this thread."</blockquote>




Interested now..oh well. do hope the OP get any help she needs the emotional issues seem to be there

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" OK then I assume your kid(s) are under 10 years old. Where will the be when you're off on these lavish ... [snip!] ... down to early and have a glimpse of life without children. I just can't see how they factor into all of this you have going on."</blockquote>




That's one of the things I haven't figured out. I got married way too young and we got married because I was pregnant and his father told him it was the right thing to do. I love LO, but sometimes I want to be that carefree woman I've never had a chance to be. I hate admitting it to myself, but sometimes I feel like my life would have been completely different if I didn't have children.

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Better person than I am, my respect was gone right after reading the OP. Her nonchalant attitude about it all makes me sick."</blockquote>




yeah, well I think it was goods she was being honest about it all butseems to get worse.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" OK then I assume your kid(s) are under 10 years ... [snip!] ... hate admitting it to myself, but sometimes I feel like my life would have been completely different if I didn't have children."

everyone's life would be.

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8737 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" OK then I assume your kid(s) are under 10 years ... [snip!] ... hate admitting it to myself, but sometimes I feel like my life would have been completely different if I didn't have children."


Well, duh. That goes for all of us. Nothing to be ashamed of.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Better person than I am, my respect was gone right after reading the OP. Her nonchalant attitude about it all makes me sick."</blockquote>




I have been to counseling before and was diagnosed late onset Aspergers because I truly do not show emotion and most of the time do not have true emotions.



It might be time to call my therapist back up.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting Just Ames:" I honestly don't know why you girls torture yourself. If you can't set personal feelings aside why partake ... [snip!] ... anything positive or helpful. She doesn't care if you or anyone else doesn't respect her. That's not why she is reaching out."


Torture? :lol:
Dramatic. My feelings aren't hurt. But to see someone can do this and feel guilty about nothing, makes me sick. Just the realization of how much some people really suck.
And, I don't care if she cares at all. Or if you do for that matter.

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Better person than I am, my respect ... [snip!] ... I truly do not show emotion and most of the time do not have true emotions. It might be time to call my therapist back up."</blockquote>




I would definitely call. You as a person deserve better for yourself. Do you beeline you have self esteem issues with the aspergers? Honest question, not being a smart Ass.

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8737 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting Just Ames:" I can appreciate that. We all think "what if" in all regards of our life. I mean, I didn't marry until ... [snip!] ... healthy balance and enjoy all aspects of your life. You can be a Mother by day and a carefree woman by night. It's possible..."


Hear, hear!

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting Just Ames:" OK, so carry on posting useless BS looking like the immature little asshole that you really are :)"


Aw, wah wah. I gave advice, too. :lol:

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Better person than I am, my respect ... [snip!] ... I truly do not show emotion and most of the time do not have true emotions. It might be time to call my therapist back up."


That's a good idea. Hopefully it'll help you out.
Do you think maybe you did it so you COULD show some emotion? If that makes sense.



If your life with your husband is so blah, maybe you ventured out as a way of self medicating almost?

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar ... [snip!] ... better for yourself. Do you beeline you have self esteem issues with the aspergers? Honest question, not being a smart Ass."</blockquote>




Self esteem isn't really an issue. I know I'm pretty and book smart. Common sense smart? No. I can read emotions only through facial expressions and not through inflection in voice or body language. I don't understand sarcasm or when people express themselves.

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" That's a good idea. Hopefully it'll help you out. Do you think maybe you did it so you COULD show some ... [snip!] ... If that makes sense. If your life with your husband is so blah, maybe you ventured out as a way of self medicating almost?"</blockquote>




People with aspergers have issue period with a lot of emotions...even with help.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
1st Oct '12
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" That's a good idea. Hopefully it'll ... [snip!] ... medicating almost?"</blockquote> People with aspergers have issue period with a lot of emotions...even with help."


Therapy helps a lot though. Ignoring it won't do anything.
My mom works with a lot of autistic/aspergers children. I get it's different with an adult, but it will still help.



Hell, something as small as cutting gluten out of your diet can help with aspergers.
Idk, I just think it's worth a shot.

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
1st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... expressions and not through inflection in voice or body language. I don't understand sarcasm or when people express themselves."</blockquote>



Well I really think you should see your therapist. She might help you sort things out when things get confusing. Mr x doesn't sound like the right path. I think you need to find happiness alone before with anyone else. Definitely with out DH cuz he isn't helping for sure.