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☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting baking my bun:" Lol, I have the best Mother in the god damn world but she hasn't a CLUE what I got up to as a kid - Jeez, she would have a heart attack if she did!"


Hah, same here.
My mom did every single thing imaginable to keep me from doing the things I did. Drinking, drugs, having sex, and disappearing for who knows how long.
I gave that woman hell, and feel terrible now. But again, nothing she could have done. I was sneaky.

Liana Galbraith Due February 25; Japan 6 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Mermaid Hathor Elaina-Wed:" No. Not butthurt, just astounded that someone chose to breed with you. Then again......My kids can't play with your kids. I don't want moron to rub off on them. "

Ahh another proud parent that is acting like a child... why degrade some one when you can accept what they say as their opinion and not get derogatory or flustered about it? In other words... if statements trully bother you this much stay away from posting on articles about OTHER PEOPLE'S PROBLEMS would be my suggestion..... to everyone else bickering back and forth why not attack the true culprits here? Where were parents? Teachers? any other mature person in this girl's life... including the father of the child and his responsible parties? Not defending this girl in what she did... mental health or not... you know what's right from wrong if you know where to stick it. Peace be to all... let's try to focus on the real problems in society.

Emmybean 1 child; Plymouth, United Kingdom 1649 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Liana Galbraith:" Ahh another proud parent that is acting like a child... why degrade some one when you can accept what ... [snip!] ... what's right from wrong if you know where to stick it. Peace be to all... let's try to focus on the real problems in society."


One of the real problems in society is people being judgmental - 'you know right from wrong if you know where to stick it'. No, this is not true. I was educated about sex from the age of 5 - sure I didn't do anything about this knowledge until I was 13 but that isn't the point. Just because a teen is curious doesn't mean she knows what she is doing. I really feel for this little girl - she will never be the same again - she will never regain her innocence and the fact that she has done what she has done will be punishment enough for the rest of her life. Now, she needs love and compassion to help her understand. She'll need therapy for the rest of her life I presume.

Liana Galbraith Due February 25; Japan 6 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting baking my bun:" One of the real problems in society is people being judgmental - 'you know right from wrong if you know ... [snip!] ... of her life. Now, she needs love and compassion to help her understand. She'll need therapy for the rest of her life I presume."


Yes, I agree with you for the most part... we are educated early about sex... but at the younger ages did you know what hole to go into? I'm sure your parents were very mature about the while " birds and bees talk" but what about the girls that learned in health class and not from their parents? every one has a general idea,yea? But do they have an actual concept until it comes down to it? I do agree she needs TLC now... I just also want to make sure that people understand that even if you have mental health problems 9 times out of 10 you still have a certain awareness..... even if I didn't phrase it properly ... *my bad* :)

Emmybean 1 child; Plymouth, United Kingdom 1649 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Liana Galbraith:" Yes, I agree with you for the most part... we are educated early about sex... but at the younger ages ... [snip!] ... health problems 9 times out of 10 you still have a certain awareness..... even if I didn't phrase it properly ... *my bad* :)"


Of course what she did was wrong - but people saying she needs to be put away for life or given the DEATH penalty is ludicrous. I'm sure she knew what she was doing was bad but I really think she didn't know to what extent. I couldn't imagine being in her shoes... I'd hope I wouldn't have reacted like her but I can't rule that out. It must have been truly terrifying.

Liana Galbraith Due February 25; Japan 6 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting baking my bun:" Of course what she did was wrong - but people saying she needs to be put away for life or given the ... [snip!] ... being in her shoes... I'd hope I wouldn't have reacted like her but I can't rule that out. It must have been truly terrifying."

Heck yea... no death penalty... perhaps some therapy and placement in another home may be appropriate? What's your veiw?

Logan and Noah's Momma 18 kids; North Carolina 982 posts
3rd Oct '12

So sick..

Hathor + A Due December 23; 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Liana Galbraith:" Ahh another proud parent that is acting like a child... why degrade some one when you can accept what ... [snip!] ... what's right from wrong if you know where to stick it. Peace be to all... let's try to focus on the real problems in society."


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Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Radame N Angela Robles:" I honestly think thats letting her off a little bit to lightly."


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If she has a mental illness she needs to placed in a hospital where they can help her. If she is sane then she deserves prison time.

Emmybean 1 child; Plymouth, United Kingdom 1649 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" :!: If she has a mental illness she needs to placed in a hospital where they can help her. If she is sane then she deserves prison time. "


I don't think she has mental issues I think she was f**king terrified! She needs love and compassion and life time of therapy. Her entire life will be punishment now.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting baking my bun:" I don't think she has mental issues I think she was f**king terrified! She needs love and compassion and life time of therapy. Her entire life will be punishment now."


Not necessarily. If she is a sociopath, for example, she won't give it another thought. It does depend on her mental well-being. She needs to be removed from society, either in a mental facility or prison.

Emmybean 1 child; Plymouth, United Kingdom 1649 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Not necessarily. If she is a sociopath, for example, she won't give it another thought. It does depend ... [snip!] ... It does depend on her mental well-being. She needs to be removed from society, either in a mental facility or prison. "


No, she needs therapy and a hug.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting baking my bun:" No, she needs therapy and a hug."


:shock: You're being funny right?




Look, I'm all for not ripping someone a new one till you know all the details, but she murdered someone and should be punished. Also, if she is a threat to herself or others (which, by the fact she killed someone she is) she needs to be removed from society.



A hug isn't going to do much for her, I'm afraid.

Emmybean 1 child; Plymouth, United Kingdom 1649 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" :shock: You're being funny right? Look, I'm all for not ripping someone a new one till you know ... [snip!] ... the fact she killed someone she is) she needs to be removed from society. A hug isn't going to do much for her, I'm afraid. "


Nope, not being funny at all - the girl fucked up because of fear. If she is punished (other than the pure fact that she is going to punished for the rest of her life due to what she has done) and not helped then society could make a monster. She is a baby herself.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
3rd Oct '12
Quoting baking my bun:" Nope, not being funny at all - the girl fucked up because of fear. If she is punished (other than the ... [snip!] ... for the rest of her life due to what she has done) and not helped then society could make a monster. She is a baby herself."


14 is not a baby. I understand that she was scared, I honestly believe something is wrong with her, but she cannot just say "I was scared so I killed my baby" and everything be okay.