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Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15785 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" YEah, I'm typing slow today,.... I did read it after I posted my last post. Well, OP has to decide ... [snip!] ... a relationship with his kid, though, he needs to pay CS and have freedom to take pictures. If not, don't let the kid go..... "


I agree.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" There is a difference in respecting each other and just being controlling because you think their family ... [snip!] ... doesnt have one of those crazy BMs either that try to control your relationship. I don't understand the "real man" remark..."


Oh shut up, psycho.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15785 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" Exactly what he does! I let him do that because I rather my son know his dad. I would never take a picture ... [snip!] ... never take a picture with a guy saying we're family unless we were taking family pics with our own child or we were married."


So you wouldnt consider your future step child family?

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" Exactly what he does! I let him do that because I rather my son know his dad. I would never take a picture ... [snip!] ... never take a picture with a guy saying we're family unless we were taking family pics with our own child or we were married."


I agree. I would never take family pictures with just a boyfriend. Especially one that I have only been with for a year. And you say your BD cheats on her? Their relationship is a joke, they aren't family.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15785 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" Oh shut up, psycho."


:roll:



Is someone PMSing?

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" :roll: Is someone PMSing?"


Not at all.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" I agree. I would never take family pictures with just a boyfriend. Especially one that I have only been ... [snip!] ... one that I have only been with for a year. And you say your BD cheats on her? Their relationship is a joke, they aren't family."


He'll probably just rip the picture up as soon as they break up....

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" So you wouldnt consider your future step child family? "


UNLESS THEY WERE MARRIED. If they are STEP CHILDREN, then they would be MARRIED, so they would be family :roll:

Mommy2Kay 1 child; Florida 4211 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" YEah, I'm typing slow today,.... I did read it after I posted my last post. Well, OP has to decide ... [snip!] ... a relationship with his kid, though, he needs to pay CS and have freedom to take pictures. If not, don't let the kid go..... "


He doesn't pay child support. I took him off when he owed $20,000 because he promised to pay once he had a job that was offered to him but that he need his license. it was good for a few weeks and it ended quickly.

♥Mj&Daryl♥ 2 kids; Spokane, Washington 2392 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" ! This. I would also be happy that she loved my son enough to include him a family picture of them. ... [snip!] ... his life right now and she is obviously fond of him. Would you rather have that or a woman that wants nothing to do with him? "

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Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15785 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" I agree. I would never take family pictures with just a boyfriend. Especially one that I have only been ... [snip!] ... one that I have only been with for a year. And you say your BD cheats on her? Their relationship is a joke, they aren't family."


Again, that isnt any of your business how their relationship is.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" Because he doesnt do shit for HER son. He may have fathered him, but he ISNT a father figure unless its convenient for HIM."

Couldn't have said it better. Some people don't seem to understand that just because you helped create the kid doesn't mean you're a real father/mother.

Curlyheadedfck 2 kids; Illinois 45661 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" Couldn't have said it better. Some people don't seem to understand that just because you helped create the kid doesn't mean you're a real father/mother."


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Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15785 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" UNLESS THEY WERE MARRIED. If they are STEP CHILDREN, then they would be MARRIED, so they would be family :roll:"


I said future step children...even if they didnt get married. You don't have to be married to be a family.



If I were to date anyone, they better be treating my child like their own. Married or not.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
2nd Oct '12
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" He doesn't pay child support. I took him off when he owed $20,000 because he promised to pay once he ... [snip!] ... pay once he had a job that was offered to him but that he need his license. it was good for a few weeks and it ended quickly."


Why do you let your kid go? I think no dad would be better than that a*****e.