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TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 23152 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" org. it was 350.. but with the funding that I found it was 98. But I also had a son that kept getting ... [snip!] ... money because he knew that we were going to court so he didnt feel it nessisary to give me any money until he was required to. "

I dont know what to say to someone who thinks $350 is a lot to charge for taking a life. I dont know what to say to someone who cant come up with $350 in an emergency.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting TheNuge:" I dont know what to say to someone who thinks $350 is a lot to charge for taking a life. I dont know what to say to someone who cant come up with $350 in an emergency."


I can't. if something happened right now that cost 350, I'd be SOL

TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 23152 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" I can't. if something happened right now that cost 350, I'd be SOL"


That's really sad.
I'm sure you are trying to fix that. everyone needs an emergency fund.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27781 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" I agree and thats crap..Why?? I have heard some states wont do it unless there is a man willing to adopt. A good friend of mine her ex husband signed over his rights. In TX..with no issues at all"


Yeah, that's the ONLY way his rights can be taken away... is if I had someone adopt her. Seriously, I wanted to go on a cruise with Lily and I cant because I cant get her passport without his permission. It's bullshit.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting TheNuge:" That's really sad. I'm sure you are trying to fix that. everyone needs an emergency fund."


I'd love to have an emergency fund, but it's just not possible. I live on SSD and every single dollar I have is earmarked for bills and groceries with a few "luxeries" (like going to a museum or for an occasional pizza)

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36693 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Yeah, that's the ONLY way his rights can be taken away... is if I had someone adopt her. Seriously, ... [snip!] ... I wanted to go on a cruise with Lily and I cant because I cant get her passport without his permission. It's bullshit."


I just wanna say I hate controlling dicks like that.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" LOL Okay, you think that. I was doing what was best for my child, and my unborn child. When you are ... [snip!] ... that, you still have the choice to say no. Just like I have the choice to say no and not have a child in me that I don't want."


I have never said I'm pro life, I've been saying I'm pro choice all along so your point is moot.
It is MY OPINION that abortion is disgusting and I MYSELF would not do it for almost any reason, but I don't think the right should be taken away just because I don't agree with it.
This is a D&D and you're being a little ridiculous in here.
I have also stated previously that if I was in serious danger of dying, and leaving my children motherless, I would consider aborting but that would be the only reason. You didn't read that, and you also didn't state that was the reason when you simply stated, "I have an 8 yr old and I still aborted".

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Yeah, that's the ONLY way his rights can be taken away... is if I had someone adopt her. Seriously, ... [snip!] ... I wanted to go on a cruise with Lily and I cant because I cant get her passport without his permission. It's bullshit."


Oh wow thats BS..Is he not a good father or do you guys just not get along? He needs to know its so his daughter can have fun and one day she will grow up and know the truth

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27781 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting Becky☮Will:" I have never said I'm pro life, I've been saying I'm pro choice all along so your point is moot. ... [snip!] ... read that, and you also didn't state that was the reason when you simply stated, "I have an 8 yr old and I still aborted"."


Yeah, because it's not really anyones business, lol. And again, if you selectively pick which abortions are ok, that's sad. What if people selectively picked whether or not you should be allowed to have your kid, and if they didnt think the sitaution was ideal they'd say "That's disgusting." You would probably think "Its not your reason to judge anyways."

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27781 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Oh wow thats BS..Is he not a good father or do you guys just not get along? He needs to know its so his daughter can have fun and one day she will grow up and know the truth"


He tried to kidnap her... yeah he's a piece of shit that deserves to have his ass 10 feet under. I dont ever want him around. He hasnt been around in 8 years anyways. So yeah... Im glad he isnt around! Lily deserves better. She was finally told last year the kid version of what happened, and she was fine with it.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Yeah, because it's not really anyones business, lol. And again, if you selectively pick which abortions ... [snip!] ... think the sitaution was ideal they'd say "That's disgusting." You would probably think "Its not your reason to judge anyways.""


For the 20 millionth time I AM PRO CHOICE.
I am stating what I would do. How much clearer do I have to be? I can have my own opinion and judge whoever the fuck I want, I'm not trying to tell anyone to do anything.
People judge me all the time just for being a good mom! Cosleeping, extended breastfeeding, cobathing etc. That's all well and good, I just take it as an opportunity to educate them on the benefits and if that doesnt work(which it usually doesnt) I just move on.

And also, don't tell me it's none of my business and then get pissy with me because I didn't know the circumstances, and use them in your argument against me like I just should have known all along. That's crazy.

I have ALWAYS said that I think abortions should only be done for medical reasons, but it's unfair to pick and choose who can and can't have them therefore they should just stay legal period. I can't believe you're arguing with me when we have the same exact opinion on them being legal or not, you just don't like the fact that I think abortions are disgusting. Are they not? I mean can you seriously say the actual act of abortion is not a disgusting thing to happen to a mom and baby?

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
4th Oct '12

I will judge..I think those who terminate cause their unborn child is/may be disabled are selfish jerks..but hey whatever floats their boat LOL

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27781 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting Becky☮Will:" For the 20 millionth time I AM PRO CHOICE. I am stating what I would do. How much clearer do I have ... [snip!] ... Are they not? I mean can you seriously say the actual act of abortion is not a disgusting thing to happen to a mom and baby?"


When you say that what I did was disgusting, hell yeah I'll call you out. And again, the reasoning doesnt matter. That's what I'm getting at. Whether it be medical or just "Damn I want to party!" it shouldn't matter.



And no, I don't think they are disgusting. What I DO think is disgusting is having an unwanted child... thrusting the baby into the arms of a family that may hate it. I think its disgusting that adoptive families wait for newborns that are "perfect" and won't look at a child that is older and already here and can be in their arms practically the next week. Instead, they wait on a list for that baby. I think that is horridly disgusting. I think it's disgusting that girls do drugs when pregnant and drink... they should just abort. That is what I truly think is disgusting. Oh, I also find abortion picketers disgusting, especially when they bring their children to picket too (and yes I experienced this).



Someone having an abortion because it is better for them or the child? Nope, I don't find it disgusting at all. And believe it or not, I did love the child I aborted. I do have remorse over it... but do I regret it? Nope.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" I will judge..I think those who terminate cause their unborn child is/may be disabled are selfish jerks..but hey whatever floats their boat LOL"


:!:
That too, only reason I would understand someone getting an abortion is if their lives are in serious danger from being pregnant, and they could die and leave their children motherless.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
4th Oct '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" When you say that what I did was disgusting, hell yeah I'll call you out. And again, the reasoning doesnt ... [snip!] ... at all. And believe it or not, I did love the child I aborted. I do have remorse over it... but do I regret it? Nope."


So you dont think a baby being sucked from the mother is disgusting? At all?

I'm not talking about the idea of it, I'm talking about the action of it.