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Snow Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting mamaof3_ 2009:" I know our relationship is nowhere near perfect. In 7 years we have broken up 2 times. Once cause I ... [snip!] ... out on him and then when we were long distance. Which was mostly cause we were both so stessed out over the situation."


Honestly, 2 times in 7 years isn't awful. DH and his ex were "together" for two years and broke up no less than 8 times.

mamaof3_ 2009 Japan 8 posts
5th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *MommyLove*:</b>" You could be right. IMO it does sound like hes guilty or trying to get her to dump him....."</blockquote>




He thinks he doesn't deserve me and my love and that I deserve better then him....I honestly am scared that he does want me to leave him and is not man enough to say it. But I don't know cause he won't talk about his feelings yesterday.

Snow Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting mamaof3_ 2009:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *MommyLove*:</b>" You could be right. IMO it does sound like ... [snip!] ... does want me to leave him and is not man enough to say it. But I don't know cause he won't talk about his feelings yesterday."


Then I think it's safe to say he won't agree to counseling. I don't know, that sounds more than shitty, I'm sorry.

mamaof3_ 2009 Japan 8 posts
5th Oct '12

I love him. I know he loves me. I just want us to be together and happy and move on from this. I know it ment nothing to him and he feels bad. But, I don't know what he wants.

mamaof3_ 2009 Japan 8 posts
5th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" Then I think it's safe to say he won't agree to counseling. I don't know, that sounds more than shitty, I'm sorry. "</blockquote>




I think he would we have talked about it before but finding the money and time is hard but it's even more hard when wants space when I want answers

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
5th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaof3_ 2009:</b>" He says that I see it as cheating cause he should have just let our fight blow over. I think he is more mad at himself then I am. And I know it does sound like one and I hate that it is. :("</blockquote>




Well that is true. It's good that he feels guilty. You guys shouldn't be "broken up" over very little fight. You guys need to tabs together and work through issues instead of running off and being on again off again.