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Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting ♡Noah.:" I said that I was close to because of all the messages, etc. "


has he ever respected you??

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting ♡Noah.:" I said that I was close to because of all the messages, etc. "


you pretty much ask him to treat you like shit. you are an enabler.

account is deleted Maine 3500 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting Addi's Momma:" Not even the half of it. Some of these girls were 16. He was 21 at the time. He ended up getting some 17 year old girl pregnant twice after we broke up."


Shit. :/ Sorry you had to deal with all of that. My BD cheated on me while I was pregnant, but it wasnt actually physical. Men suck. lol

Fusselinchen 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Fort Bragg, NC, United States 16176 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting ♡Noah.:" I said that I was close to because of all the messages, etc. "



what else do you NEED to make it final?
you have messages on black and white, he has beaten you WHILE pregnant, he has left you multiple times over nothing. what more do you need?!
do you HAVE to catch him with his dick inside someone else?
or would you just complain about that too and still stay with him?
what about if he hits or shakes your baby and seriously injures him?!
would that be enough then?



i understand you are young, but there ARE resources for you if that was an issue. just google domestic violence help and woman shelters. all of those will help you get on your feet.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting Fusselinchen:" what else do you NEED to make it final? you have messages on black and white, he has beaten you WHILE ... [snip!] ... you if that was an issue. just google domestic violence help and woman shelters. all of those will help you get on your feet."


don't waste your breath, hun.



we've all been trying to help her for months and months. it's all her topics are about.

Addi's Momma TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 4961 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting shes.so.vain:" Shit. :/ Sorry you had to deal with all of that. My BD cheated on me while I was pregnant, but it wasnt actually physical. Men suck. lol"


Ehh I am over it. I use to wish I could seriously mame his so he couldn't hurt anyone else but it wasn't worth the jail time. I do wish he would go away for good though. I have blocked him and changed my phone number. He finds me every so often to ask for a DNA test for my daughter. DH and I keep denying him. DD was conceived 10 months after he and I broke up so I know he is just doing it to start shit.

O ♥ G 2 kids; Pride, Louisiana 10723 posts
5th Oct '12

Honestly, excuse me for my harshness, but at this point you put yourself in the position to be disrespected by him so I don't understand how you can even complain about it.



It's YOUR fault that you are so insecure that you feel like you need to stay with a man who beats you, wants other women, and blatantly disrespects you in front of your own eyes. If YOU don't think you deserve respect, then why should he or anyone for that matter???

Fusselinchen 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Fort Bragg, NC, United States 16176 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" don't waste your breath, hun. we've all been trying to help her for months and months. it's all her topics are about."


i know, i remember the blow out in the DD thread.



i just find it so...frustrating?!
i mean, if it really is as bad as posted and she isnt leaving nor planning on it, then she shouldnt post about it. plain and simple.
she isnt even getting the whole pity party thing anymore... so what is the whole point of posting at all?
whats the point of asking all these questions if she isnt going to take ANY of the advice and/or help given?!?!



i am sure if she ASKED for it there would be PLENTY of people on here willing to ask, but she doesnt even have the intention on leaving, she just wants to hear how much her SO hates her and how she is a doormat and what not. smh

O ♥ G 2 kids; Pride, Louisiana 10723 posts
5th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Fusselinchen:</b>" what else do you NEED to make it final? you have messages on black and white, he has beaten you WHILE ... [snip!] ... you if that was an issue. just google domestic violence help and woman shelters. all of those will help you get on your feet."</blockquote>




I don't think she would leave even if she watched him f**k three other women simultaneously in front of her face.



Everyone has tried to help her and give her advice to get out of this shitty situation.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53489 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting O ♥ G:" Honestly, excuse me for my harshness, but at this point you put yourself in the position to be disrespected ... [snip!] ... you in front of your own eyes. If YOU don't think you deserve respect, then why should he or anyone for that matter???"


Like I always say, If you knowingly keep yourself in a shitty situation, you lose every right to complain about it.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting Fusselinchen:" i know, i remember the blow out in the DD thread. i just find it so...frustrating?! i mean, if it really ... [snip!] ... even have the intention on leaving, she just wants to hear how much her SO hates her and how she is a doormat and what not. smh"


exactly! that's why i don't hold back anymore, and i'm just brutally honest and tell her exactly how i see it. so it either isn't as bad as she claims, or she just doesn't care that much.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" exactly! that's why i don't hold back anymore, and i'm just brutally honest and tell her exactly how i see it. so it either isn't as bad as she claims, or she just doesn't care that much."


I think she doesnt care that much. Didnt the cops even tell her that they shouldnt be together?

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I think she doesnt care that much. Didnt the cops even tell her that they shouldnt be together? "



yep.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53489 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I think she doesnt care that much. Didnt the cops even tell her that they shouldnt be together? "


Yup.



Nothing is going to be enough for her to leave.

✰ johnna ✰ 3 kids; Michigan 6065 posts
5th Oct '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" exactly! that's why i don't hold back anymore, and i'm just brutally honest and tell her exactly how i see it. so it either isn't as bad as she claims, or she just doesn't care that much."


lol.. I don't even bother commenting on the relationship itself anymore.. These days I focus more on the general idiocy of OP. :lol: