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MrsSinatra 1 child; 1 angel baby; Phoenix, Arizona 990 posts
6th Oct '12

My favorite is when people tell me that I shouldn't eat this or that. Or drink this or that. Ive gotten to the point where I say in response of their ashollyness, lol... "Well its better than the heroine ive been shooting up". Shuts them right up.



I seriously am so sick of being told what I can and cannot do. b***h, please, I will do as I please. When you're pregnant you can do it however the f**k you want. :)



I get every f**king day, "God you're huge!" "Are you sure there is just 1". "Omg! You're having twins?!" "How are the twins doing" "how do you stand there all day?"... that one is my favorite. I tell them, "with my feet". I don't have much of a choice. That's the only position I can have while pregnant... unless I was put on bedrest... which I'm not. So stfu. I hate everyone while pregnant. Wanna kick them all in the face. :D

April L Chapman 3 kids; Oklahoma 196 posts
6th Oct '12

I get comments all the time. This was just yesterday from concerned co-workers of my husband. The first comments start out "girl you are huge you look ready to pop any second." I start telling them that I still have a little over 8 wks. and that I am big because I am having twins. Next comment "omg are they doing ok, you're way too small to be having twins, are you sure they are both growing. I hope both of the babies are healthy." I just want to slap them. My husband just tells them that both are growing great and that I am doing an amazing job of taking care of myself. So after my husband steps in the comments get like this "well she is going to have them before 37 wks. there is no way she and those two babies can stay healthy till then." It has gotten so bad that I now am rarely seen in public anymore. I am tired of these comments. They are hurtful.

Katie Jepson Due January 19 (boy); 3 kids; Early, Iowa 632 posts
6th Oct '12

You're due when?!? or another baby? Trying for a football team? Or already? Ok, first don't compare me to anyone else,bi will probably be bigger than someone who started out smaller or has lrss kids. It's my 4th and i'm nit a small girl. Second, he wasn't planned, but even if he was, if we want ten, we'll have ten! And my kids are all spaced out pretty good...21 months between the first two, 3 months shy of 3 years between #2 & #3, and 2 and a half years between #3 & #4. Grrrr...

xJazx Due February 20 (girl); Germany 248 posts
6th Oct '12

Honestly the only comment(s) that have bothered me personally being pregnant... Is if I'm talking to a specific friend of mine, (whom I love to pieces!)... About something pregnancy related... And she compares it to her pregnancy. Well, she was only up to 6 +/- weeks pregnant, twice, and both were aborted. I don't judge her for those that is her decision... But I'm 20 weeks pregnant, and if I'm talking about something I'm dealing with, not even complaining or anything specific, shell be like oh I know what you mean! Or, that happened to me too! It's just irritated me the few times it's happened because being 6 weeks pregnant is not the same as being 12 or 14 or 16 or 20. Yeah, you have some symptoms at that point, but at 6/8 weeks I was not feeling at all similar to what I feel now!

**mummy** Doncaster, United Kingdom 149 posts
6th Oct '12

I hated when i told people I was contracting they felt the need to come and visit me at home and constantly txt and phone me when you just want everyone to be quite and leave you alone. Also hated other mothers telling me their birth horror stories, now I can tell other pregnant women its not that bad! I also hated people saying you cant drink coke, i drank it the whole way through and she was 5 days early and 8pound 6ib and perfect! and people telling me not to microwave chicken!

*Bella's Mommy* Due October 29; 16 kids; New York 484 posts
6th Oct '12

I was at tge store earlier and the cashier said you look like your due anyday so I told her todays my due date (which it is) and she said omg and they haven't induced you! No b***h my daughter isnt ready to come out I'm not going to force her out unless its absolutly necessary. Ugggggg

Nighthawk 2 kids; Hinesville, Georgia 242 posts
6th Oct '12

I'm sick and tired of my mother sending text messages asking if I'm having regular contractions yet, my dad going it's not hear yet, and SO's family going while you better have that baby before his mom leaves...............my DD is tomorrow. I'm just tired of it all already. Especially these irregular contractions that I've had for DAYS now

ChubbyCheekers 2 kids; New York 3117 posts
6th Oct '12

Another one that bothers me, and I'm shocked how often I get this...When I tell people I'm having a girl, and they know I already have a boy, they go, "Oh, great! Are you gonna get your tubes tied then?" or, "then you can be done!" If I tell them hubby and I may want to have one or two more, they act like I'm crazy. I'm 24 years old, I don't want to get my tubes tied! Am I the only one who thinks that's really rude?



Also the people at work who won't let me lift a finger and comment on how hard it must be for me to be on my feet all day...I'm not disabled! Pregnancy does not equal lying down all day with your feet up...exercise is good!

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
7th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gabrielle - Mumma to be !:</b>" I hate more then anything being told what to do by women that aren't pregnant or have never had children... ... [snip!] ... cravings, and besides I will eat like two and then be completely over them. (It's only JUST become mango season where I live)."</blockquote>




I know exactly how you feel!!! My sister in law is the same way! Only she is now 12 weeks and well I'm on my third kid. It's like I know hat I'm doing so shut the hell up!!!

Excited1stBubba** Due October 3 (girl); Waterlooville, United Kingdom 23 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting Nighthawk:" I'm sick and tired of my mother sending text messages asking if I'm having regular contractions yet, ... [snip!] ... DD is tomorrow. I'm just tired of it all already. Especially these irregular contractions that I've had for DAYS now"

I get this all the time and I was due the other day it has got to the point I turn my phone off and keep the numbers I need on my partners phone haha :) xx

Alice Carrington 2 kids; Blackburn, United Kingdom 142 posts
7th Oct '12

people keep telling me how quick its gone which annoys me cause i know, im carrying the baby & am quite honestly crappin myself about him arriving haha.



(we announced i was pregnant at about 4 weeks gone)

aymee.elaine Due April 14; 1 child; Indiana 85 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting *KatieBug*:" I really hate it when people tell me I'm having a boy, when an ultrasound has CLEARLY proved my baby ... [snip!] ... supposed to drink that!" "You'll stunt your baby's growth!" Oh please. SHUTTUP! One coke is not going to hurt my daughter."


Haha, that's funny. Not the stunt your growth, I wish I didn't... but with my first pregnancy, I drank ALOT of soda... My daughter has rolls (she's not fat, just cute rolls) and perfectly healthy!

aymee.elaine Due April 14; 1 child; Indiana 85 posts
7th Oct '12

Oh also, Idk if it's because i get asked it alot or what...
I hate being asked how I'm doing. I'm pregnant... Do you think I'm peachy?

can111 1 child; Michigan 1005 posts
8th Oct '12
Quoting MrsSinatra:" My favorite is when people tell me that I shouldn't eat this or that. Or drink this or that. Ive gotten ... [snip!] ... unless I was put on bedrest... which I'm not. So stfu. I hate everyone while pregnant. Wanna kick them all in the face. :D"


I HATE when people tell me what I can/cannot do/eat/drink while pregnant. It's annoying! & then when I tell them my midwife says it's OK, they're like, well I would never do that if/when I was pregnant. Good for you! I hate a ton of people while pregnant also.

Irish Mammy*J,R&A* 19 kids; London, United Kingdom 6068 posts
8th Oct '12
Quoting can111:" I HATE when people tell me what I can/cannot do/eat/drink while pregnant. It's annoying! & then ... [snip!] ... OK, they're like, well I would never do that if/when I was pregnant. Good for you! I hate a ton of people while pregnant also."


I hate that too, especially when my stepmum would tell me what I can and cant do and how she went on and on about how shed never get an epidural this is the women whos never been pregnant and lies in bed complaining of how bad it hurts when she on her period....yeh sure you wouldnt love