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Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15769 posts
6th Oct '12
Quoting KNZ.:" Me toooo. Dude is 9 years older than me, and has to get up at 4:30 am for work, but i'm always like, ... [snip!] ... young, to be too tired for sex". haha, i'm used to being with someone who uses every possible opportunity to be doing it :P "


Yeah. SO is wayyy older than me, so that plays a BIG part. I dont want to give him a heart attack either. lmao

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
6th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" I'm bad. like, since he has an early bedtime during the week, come friday/saturday, my head is geared ... [snip!] ... freak out and he'll have no clue why, ha. whenever we have sex, he's like, 'well, that should hold you off for 10 minutes'. "</blockquote>




Get him some Spanish fly for men or something. Maybe order some Viagra online from Mexico and put it in his food. He'll have a permaboner he'll have to deal with somehow.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
6th Oct '12
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" I'm bad. like, since he has an early bedtime during ... [snip!] ... Maybe order some Viagra online from Mexico and put it in his food. He'll have a permaboner he'll have to deal with somehow."


hahah oh god, i would love that :D

Mrs. Potato Dick Madagascar 20356 posts
6th Oct '12

Mine was SUPER high whenever we were dating up until I had Layla. I would've done nothing but have sex all day if it were up to me. DH rarely wanted it. That was so frustrating. I used to cry about it.



Now, I could have sex once per month and be okay with it. I'm so stressed out with the kids, sex is the last thing I want. And now, of course, DH wants to have sex everyday. I really would've loved for him to have this sex drive back whenever I was horny all the time.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
6th Oct '12
Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:" Mine was SUPER high whenever we were dating up until I had Layla. I would've done nothing but have sex ... [snip!] ... DH wants to have sex everyday. I really would've loved for him to have this sex drive back whenever I was horny all the time."


See, for me when i'm stressed, i NEED sex. Like, it's my #1 way to relieve stress. and if for some reason we can't do it, i just start harboring this semi-unfair anger towards jason :oops:



i'm so used to being with someone who has the same sex drive as me that sometimes it makes me sad to think that the rest of my life i wont have someone as sex crazy as me :(



i hope you get your sex drive back!

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40235 posts
6th Oct '12

No, not at all.
:(

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
6th Oct '12
Quoting Meg ♥:" No, not at all. :( "


i hate it :( being with jason is more important to me than being with someone with a matching sex drive, but when i wasn't with him, knowing i could end up with someone as horny as me, :P was a plus.

B&R + J 1 child; 2 angel babies; Germantown, Ohio 3745 posts
6th Oct '12
Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:" Mine was SUPER high whenever we were dating up until I had Layla. I would've done nothing but have sex ... [snip!] ... DH wants to have sex everyday. I really would've loved for him to have this sex drive back whenever I was horny all the time."

:!:

justagirlntheworld Due April 3; Arkansas 222 posts
6th Oct '12

We haave about the same which lucky for us is high...then I got pregnant and completely lost it to the point of not wanting to b touched...but now that I'm out of my first trimester I think its higher then before my pregnancy lol...he got pretty frustrated but is loving it now

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
6th Oct '12

I love sex and he dreads it. lol

Honey&E 6 kids; Connecticut 3752 posts
6th Oct '12

gah- I'm living this right now. DH is turning into a chick with the "I'm tired" BS. He leaves for work at 4:30am. Meanwhile we're trying to TTC and it hurts my feelings!

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
6th Oct '12
Quoting Honey&E:" gah- I'm living this right now. DH is turning into a chick with the "I'm tired" BS. He leaves for work at 4:30am. Meanwhile we're trying to TTC and it hurts my feelings!"


okay so we're semi-in the same boat! haha, dude gets up to go at 4:30 too so is always tired/going to bed early. We're not TTCing cos we've already got baby three baking, but seriously, it hurts my feelings/annoys/infuriates/frustrates me! haha

NeverGiveUpHope 1 child; Orem, Utah 136 posts
6th Oct '12

We used to be the same! Lol We both used to want it all the time! My poor husband still wants it all the time. But me not so much lately! I hate sex! I just don't want it much of all. Some days I need it like I crave it, then I don't want it for weeks or months. HAHA he always jokes because before we could do it 8times in a day. Or twice. Now its once maybe a week. LOL

[[Breezy]] 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 12803 posts
status 6th Oct '12

Yep! We do. We can take it or leave it...have moderate sex drives...I guess low compared to a lot of people. They're high for each other though. :D But lowish in general.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
6th Oct '12
Quoting [[Breezy]]:" Yep! We do. We can take it or leave it...have moderate sex drives...I guess low compared to a lot of people. They're high for each other though. :D But lowish in general."


see-- i can't even process that mind set, haha. i try to, cos it's jason's mind set and i wanna understand it, vs thinking he just doesn't wanna do me :D but i can't!