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Trisha Beck 1 child; Pennsylvania 303 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" You're stupid and so is your doctor. Considering a greater number of csections are done on women who've been induced vs who haven't proves that. Numbers don't lie."</blockquote>




Don't call me stupid, you don't know me, that is one of the meanest things to say to sometime, shows what kind of character you are! you have to call people names to try and prove a point, smh...and no my doctors are not stupid...they all go to school for a long time I'm pretty sure they know what they are talking about!!

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Oct 8th '12
Quoting Cynthia Stevenson:" I would really like to go into labor on my own just because from what I've experienced and what I've ... [snip!] ... want an epi. But who knows I just don't want to go over 41 cause I don't want to go through why I did with my daughter...."


Even with my induction, the only reason I took the epi was because I couldnt relax enough to let myself progress. I was stuck at 4 cm. lol Those things are a life saver. lol

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" Even with my induction, the only reason I took the epi was because I couldnt relax enough to let myself progress. I was stuck at 4 cm. lol Those things are a life saver. lol"</blockquote>




My husband doesn't want me to get one with this baby. He doesn't like them just because of the chances they carry along with em. But I guess it just depends on what happens

Trisha Beck 1 child; Pennsylvania 303 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" No one said they indefinitely lead to c sections, we said getting and induction ups the risk of needing ... [snip!] ... labor and delivery? hell, ive seen a few women excited about getting inductions because they got to pick their kid's birthday."</blockquote>




Well when its you're first baby and you have to trust your doctor iy can get confusing...I hear bad things can happen if you go too late, i don't want an induction cause "im tired of being pregnant" because frankly ink not tired of being pregnant! I want to let things happen naturally but also if the doctor really does indeed show proof or real concern that in should get a c-section or induction, then I feel i need to put trust in them because like i said this is my first and I just want the best for my baby and my doctor should know these things...sure i can suggest what i want to happen but I'm not a doctor and i just want my baby here safely whatever that way may be

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Oct 8th '12
Quoting Cynthia Stevenson:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" Even with my induction, the only reason ... [snip!] ... baby. He doesn't like them just because of the chances they carry along with em. But I guess it just depends on what happens"


If you can do it without one, go for it, but aint no damn way a man understands the pain a woman goes through during labor. lol

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Oct 8th '12
Quoting Trisha Beck:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" No one said they indefinitely lead to c ... [snip!] ... i can suggest what i want to happen but I'm not a doctor and i just want my baby here safely whatever that way may be"


Of course you should trust your doctor, but that doesnt mean you shouldnt do research of your own.

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" If you can do it without one, go for it, but aint no damn way a man understands the pain a woman goes through during labor. lol"</blockquote>




Lol no shit!!! Gotta love em tho. I would deffinetly love to do it with out one, I just have a fear of feeling mysel tear. Not sure why just do but I guess if you want that baby out then it won't matter at the moment right!! I really hope I go into labor on my pwn!!!!

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" Trust your doctors, but educate YOURSELF as well. Doctors, despite their best intentions at times, ARE ... [snip!] ... up on the drugs they push in L&D, and you'll see how hospitals and doctors work now. It's all about the almighty dollar."</blockquote>




Which I find just sad. It used to be different:(

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" It's why I'm a strong advocate for midwives when they're available. They focus more on the mother and ... [snip!] ... pain RELIEF/drugs. I labored for HOURS before my C-Section with no drugs at all, and the techniques they teach really do help!"</blockquote>




They have a midwife where I live but she wasnt taking any one new and they toss you to other docs in her office, that's why I decided to go to the town I lived in before.

Trisha Beck 1 child; Pennsylvania 303 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" Of course you should trust your doctor, but that doesnt mean you shouldnt do research of your own. "</blockquote>




Yea that's true...but then at the same time I have my husband, family, and friends telling me to stop reading things online because as we all know you can't believe everything you read especially online, and because in hear something and start dwelling on it or looking too far into it, then the doctor tells me you can't believe all that stuff too! Ahhh so freaking confusing but i know especially my husband just wants me to remain calm and stress free with everything:-) well we're so close to our son being here in just wasn't to hear some good news today from the doctor:)

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trisha Beck:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" Of course you should trust your doctor, ... [snip!] ... free with everything:-) well we're so close to our son being here in just wasn't to hear some good news today from the doctor:)"</blockquote>




I hope you do!!! Good luck:)

Trisha Beck 1 child; Pennsylvania 303 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cynthia Stevenson:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Trisha Beck:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes.so.vain:</b>" ... [snip!] ... being here in just wasn't to hear some good news today from the doctor:)"</blockquote> I hope you do!!! Good luck:)"</blockquote>




Thank you!!:-) its going to be a long day my appt isn't until 4:40!! Lol

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trisha Beck:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cynthia Stevenson:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Trisha ... [snip!] ... I hope you do!!! Good luck:)"</blockquote> Thank you!!:-) its going to be a long day my appt isn't until 4:40!! Lol"</blockquote>




Oh my... Well stay busy and itll fly by lok

Williams and Owen's Mommy 2 kids; Augusta, Georgia 88 posts
Oct 8th '12
Quoting Cynthia Stevenson:" So because my body won't put itself into labor I'm unnatural?"

i guess we both are...i was induced with my first early(38 weeks) because i have a small pelvic outlet..i ended up needing a c-section anyway but my Dr. told me from the start that was probably going to happen...i can understand wanting to have a chemical free labor but for some people it is just unavoidable

Cynthia Stevenson Due October 18 (girl); 2 kids; Elko, Nevada 184 posts
Oct 8th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Williams and Owen's Mommy:</b>" i guess we both are...i was induced with my first early(38 weeks) because i have a small pelvic outlet..i ... [snip!] ... probably going to happen...i can understand wanting to have a chemical free labor but for some people it is just unavoidable"</blockquote>




So very very true. Every ones body is different, so every ones body will react to a certain drug like pitocin different....