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CrapBag. 3 kids; Minnesota 7921 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting boobook:" Yay for you waiting until your kids could talk clear enough to tell you they had to go. My son is SN ... [snip!] ... your kid, making them feel ashamed they went in a diaper, making it seem like a gross act. Those things will cause damage."


My son's teachers put him on the potty twice a day. they have for 2 years. He still screams as though he is in pain. I won't be forcing the issue, kwim?

CrapBag. 3 kids; Minnesota 7921 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting proudlypreggers:" Actually i just looked at your post tbh. I was asking myself bc my SOs "daughter" will be four in December ... [snip!] ... in December can walk and talk and is not potty trained and him and i were discussing it. Dont make stuff about you that isnt."


so you admit... you saw her thread and made your judgy thread right after.

user banned 3 kids; Florence, South Carolina 39499 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" See, that's why people shouldn't be so judgmental when it comes to things like this. You don't know ... [snip!] ... 6 years old. My 2 year old keeps playing around. One minute he wants to use the potty then the next, he wants a diaper :lol:"


It's the competitive mom thing I think. They are the same ones who brag about how advanced their children are. Why can't kids just do things at their own pace?

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20867 posts
7th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting proudlypreggers:</b>" Actually i just looked at your post tbh. I was asking myself bc my SOs "daughter" will be four in December ... [snip!] ... in December can walk and talk and is not potty trained and him and i were discussing it. Dont make stuff about you that isnt."</blockquote>




Why is daughter in quotations?

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
7th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting proudlypreggers:</b>" Really im not judging anyone or their kids. I asked a question as i have seen moms post about their children ... [snip!] ... not being potty trained maybe a little later and i expressed my opinion. No one had to comment again it was just a question."</blockquote>



Yes, you were judging. Even now you are saying no one had to comment. But, I'm sure if a bunch of women agreed with you, you'd be singing a different tune.



I hope you learned something from this thread.

You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4121 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting CrapBag [VBA2C]:" so you admit... you saw her thread and made your judgy thread right after."


Ummm no meaning i posted and when she said something about her post is when i went and looked....

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting Epic Big Head:" It's the competitive mom thing I think. They are the same ones who brag about how advanced their children are. Why can't kids just do things at their own pace? "


I think half the time, moms are just making shit up or exaggerating. I don't need my kid to be a genius, they are freaking 2 and almost 4 years old. An advanced kid isn't any better than mine. In fact, I tend to think more highly of those children who had set backs and struggles but came out on top.

Addi's Momma TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 4987 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I would probably use a good nights pull up or a good nights bed mat"


What is a goodnights bed mat? We were using pull ups for a while but it got to be so expensive. The diaper comes off as soon as she gets up and we praise her like crazy if she doesn't wet herself.

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20867 posts
7th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Epic Big Head:</b>" It's the competitive mom thing I think. They are the same ones who brag about how advanced their children are. Why can't kids just do things at their own pace? "</blockquote>




Mine definitely is not in some areas. Sure he waa fully PTed at 2.5 but he has a severe speech delay. It's just something I'm proud of :oops: (the PTing) I feel like people judge when I'm out in public w/ him. People should realize every kid is different.

ashleeoh Due August 10 (girl); 1 child; Tucson, Arizona 2556 posts
7th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addi's Momma:</b>" What is a goodnights bed mat? We were using pull ups for a while but it got to be so expensive. The diaper comes off as soon as she gets up and we praise her like crazy if she doesn't wet herself."</blockquote>




You can just use diapers as well. Whether you praise her or not wont have effect if she just can't wake up or doesn't notice.

user banned 3 kids; Florence, South Carolina 39499 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting proudlypreggers:" Actually i just looked at your post tbh. I was asking myself bc my SOs "daughter" will be four in December ... [snip!] ... in December can walk and talk and is not potty trained and him and i were discussing it. Dont make stuff about you that isnt."


His "daughter"? what does that mean?



i think you didn't get the response you anticipated and you are backtracking

You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4121 posts
7th Oct '12
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You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4121 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting Epic Big Head:" His "daughter"? what does that mean? i think you didn't get the response you anticipated and you are backtracking"


The response i was expecting were people opinions that vary. and yes his "daughter"

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
7th Oct '12
Quoting proudlypreggers:" The response i was expecting were people opinions that vary. and yes his "daughter""


Well you wanted a debate so what's the problem? We're debating your opinion.

user banned 3 kids; Florence, South Carolina 39499 posts
7th Oct '12
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