Quoting jackie0608:" i lost my son when i was 5 months pregnant, so i was so scared this last pregnancy that no one but me ... [snip!] ... i knew i was having a girl before anyone knew. i have no idea how i hid it. it was winter here so i wore such baggy clothes."
That would be so hard to keep a secret, I have a feeling I will be keeping it between me & my SO for awhile. Sorry to hear that, but congratulations on your daughter. :)
Only my boyfriend & I knew til about 10ish weeks. Then we told our folks. And around 16 weeks, told everyone else. Casually though, we didn't make a big announcement or anything. We were extra cautious b/c of 2 previous losses.