Cast Your Vote:
- yes -- Votes: 6
- no -- Votes: 18
- never thought about it -- Votes: 2
I like a confident guy. Like the kind that ooze cockiness and are very high on themselves. KWIM?
And I love to boost it even higher. My best girl friends have told me for years that I pick these kind of guys and then make them even more full of themselves...but its just me. I find it so sexy when a man has great self esteem.
**not saying the man is and ass....just loves himself and isnt afraid to let anyone know it.
What about you?
Confidence is good, cockiness is unattractive.
I love confidence. But I hate a guy who is cocky and has a huge ego.
I love a man who is comfortable in his own skin and with himself as a person. I find that to be ridiculously sexy.
I put yes, but like the other girls said, it's really just confidence, not cockiness. I DO NOT want a weeping emo dude that cries on my shoulder all the time, not cool at all.
Denzel swagger? Hell yes.
but cockiness I can have any female I want? NO
I would say there's a big difference between a man who is truly confident and a man who likes to stroke his own ego.
My SO is confident in himself, it doesn't mean he thinks he is superior, or that his shit doesn't stink. It just means he's confident in himself.
I dated and dumped a guy who had a huge ego. All he ever wanted to do was talk about himself. He used to randomly say things while we were out eating like "If I wanted to I could just leave you here" just because he liked to feel like he was more powerful than me.
I got over the whole boastful guy thing really fast after him.
So this is where I was going with this question
If any of you have ideas on what I can
I don't like ego really. I like a man who is comfortable. As in, "I am who I am and if you don't like it fuck off," rather then "I'm hot and I know!" I find cockiness horribly unattractive. I hate the whole "I'm so great," attitude. Like I said, I like men who are okay with who they are, but I do not like men who think they're gods gift to women.
Quoting she nan igans:" I don't like ego really. I like a man who is comfortable. As in, "I am who I am and if you don't like ... [snip!] ... attitude. Like I said, I like men who are okay with who they are, but I do not like men who think they're gods gift to women."