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Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4156 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting Kenzie +
ashleeoh Due August 10; 1 child; Tucson, Arizona 2550 posts
status 10th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama MacGyver*:</b>" Am I really the only one who has this kind of a joking trusting relationship with my DH? lol... I went ... [snip!] ... be everywhere!" When in reality I know he was sitting on his ass eating pizza and playing video games. Maybe it's just us..."</blockquote>



I agree with you. I will be sad if my relationship comes to a point where we can't even joke with each other.

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4156 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting Mama MacGyver*:" Am I really the only one who has this kind of a joking trusting relationship with my DH? lol... I went ... [snip!] ... be everywhere!" When in reality I know he was sitting on his ass eating pizza and playing video games. Maybe it's just us..."


We have never joked like that. Neither of us think it's funny. Which is why this comment left me confused.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting Mama MacGyver*:" Am I really the only one who has this kind of a joking trusting relationship with my DH? lol... I went ... [snip!] ... be everywhere!" When in reality I know he was sitting on his ass eating pizza and playing video games. Maybe it's just us..."

That just sounds different than what OP said. I joke around like that with my SO all the time.

Mama MacGyver* 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 12190 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting ashleeoh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama MacGyver*:</b>" Am I really the only one who has this ... [snip!] ... I agree with you. I will be sad if my relationship comes to a point where we can't even joke with each other."


I just feel like, if a guy is saying that to you, he's definitely NOT serious. If you're cheating, you don't JOKE about cheating to your wife or girlfriend or whatever. You avoid the subject of ANY other woman like the plague!

Mama MacGyver* 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 12190 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting Co-Creator of Goobernut:" That just sounds different than what OP said. I joke around like that with my SO all the time."


But do you really think a guy who is cheating on his girl would say something like that? Unless it was in the heat of an argument, I really don't think ANY guy would say something like that if he were REALLY cheating.

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4156 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting Mama MacGyver*:" I just feel like, if a guy is saying that to you, he's definitely NOT serious. If you're cheating, ... [snip!] ... don't JOKE about cheating to your wife or girlfriend or whatever. You avoid the subject of ANY other woman like the plague! "


It was just the way he said it. DH is a really goofy person and turns everything into a joke, but he didn't sound like he was joking. And when I asked what he meant he just tried to brush it off .

Kenzie + TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; Grundy Center, Iowa 10663 posts
10th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama MacGyver*:</b>" Am I really the only one who has this kind of a joking trusting relationship with my DH? lol... I went ... [snip!] ... be everywhere!" When in reality I know he was sitting on his ass eating pizza and playing video games. Maybe it's just us..."</blockquote>




Eh to an extent. One time his phone alarm went off and he fake answered it saying "hey she's with me right now I'll have to call you later" look over and smile. Not you need dick I've been getting plenty of vag on the phone and then not talking to me at home and being weird about his cell phone....

Kenzie + TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; Grundy Center, Iowa 10663 posts
10th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama MacGyver*:</b>" I just feel like, if a guy is saying that to you, he's definitely NOT serious. If you're cheating, ... [snip!] ... don't JOKE about cheating to your wife or girlfriend or whatever. You avoid the subject of ANY other woman like the plague! "</blockquote>




My ex boyfriend used to alwayyyyys joke with me about screwing other girls...turned out to be manyyyyyyyy other girls.

Mama MacGyver* 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 12190 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting jordan.ℓeigh✿:" It was just the way he said it. DH is a really goofy person and turns everything into a joke, but he didn't sound like he was joking. And when I asked what he meant he just tried to brush it off ."


I'm not trying to say that you don't have a trusting relationship, because combined with the phone stuff, and then a joke like that when you obviously didn't think it was funny, or he said it in bad timing... I can understand it making you feel uncomfortable. BUT nobody wants to make a mountain out of a mole hill, because men are stupid. I just think it's plausible that he said it genuinely making a joke and when he realized you took it the wrong way he tried to brush it off so it didn't turn into a fight. That's what my DH does sometimes. Like I said, men are stupid and they think everything they say is hilarious. I just happen to have a stupid sense of humor too. lol...

Mama MacGyver* 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 12190 posts
10th Oct '12
Quoting Kenzie +
Kenzie + TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; Grundy Center, Iowa 10663 posts
10th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama MacGyver*:</b>" Ass! My ex used to threaten that he was banging tons of other chicks during arguments, but then would ... [snip!] ... because I never believed him. Didn't have the heart to point out how ridiculously small his little bitty p***s was. Poor guy."</blockquote>




Haha yeah my ex had a huge one and knew how to use it! I used it to my advantage...as did other woman. What a prick.

Kenzie + TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; Grundy Center, Iowa 10663 posts
10th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama MacGyver*:</b>" Ass! My ex used to threaten that he was banging tons of other chicks during arguments, but then would ... [snip!] ... because I never believed him. Didn't have the heart to point out how ridiculously small his little bitty p***s was. Poor guy."</blockquote>




Haha yeah my ex had a huge one and knew how to use it! I used it to my advantage...as did other woman. What a prick.

Layla's Momma ♥ 17 kids; California 4457 posts
10th Oct '12

Totally disrespectful! If he's acting shady then he probably is doing something shady.

Kenzie + TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; Grundy Center, Iowa 10663 posts
10th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Layla's Momma ♥:</b>" Totally disrespectful! If he's acting shady then he probably is doing something shady."</blockquote>




If it looks,acts, and smells like a rabbit...it's probably a rabbit.