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Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" He's an epic c**t. Wait til the baby is born an see how he reacts ten. File for child support but if you do expect visitation. Get on birth control and trust your gut from now on."
I totally plan on filing for child support. But I am willing to wait a while after the baby is born to see what he does and doesn't do.
Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 47188 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Does the fact that he yo-yos between contacting her and cutting off all contact with her not throwing ... [snip!] ... at one point. And when she said she was pregnant, he asked if she was going to abort and got mad at her. What else do you need?"


Sounds like he was looking for sex and she was more than willing to comply. She also took the "advice" of a veritable stranger to not go on birth control and she continued to have sex with him.



Just because he is a shitty "boyfriend" doesn't mean he'll be a shitty father. They barely knew each other which is evidenced by the fact that she didn't know a thing about him.



She is just as much to blame for not meeting his family and friends...and he said that he is separated, perhaps in his mind that meant that he was no longer married.



He has every right to question paternity and even ask for a DNA test once the child is born before paying child support. He also has the right to ask if she was going to have an abortion and be upset that his "girlfriend" got knocked up so quickly into the relationship.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19214 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Sounds like he was looking for sex and she was more than willing to comply. She also took the "advice" ... [snip!] ... ask if she was going to have an abortion and be upset that his "girlfriend" got knocked up so quickly into the relationship. "


So he's not to be blamed at all for his actions and for telling her a whole pack of lies. So only the female is responsible for getting knocked up. She was the only one present for this and therefore she is the only one who should shoulder all of the blame? Nobody said the OP was blameless, but I think it's completely ignorant and irresponsible to sit back and say that the guy is not to be blamed for how he acted.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 47188 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" So he's not to be blamed at all for his actions and for telling her a whole pack of lies. So only the ... [snip!] ... but I think it's completely ignorant and irresponsible to sit back and say that the guy is not to be blamed for how he acted."


What exactly is he supposed to do for the child right now? She is still pregnant...



He is no longer in a relationship with her, he has no obligation to her at all.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 47188 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" :!: Seriously, the guy lied to her and tricked her. Sure, taking his advice on BC wasn't the smartest thing to do, but it sounds like he was a real douche. "


And she still chose to sleep with him, get pregnant and keep the baby.....

Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" And she still chose to sleep with him, get pregnant and keep the baby....."
Are you having a bad night or something? I do not know you at all so why are you so opinionated about my post and my situation? I asked for advice. So you can take your comments and shove em! And since you are so interested in my post I suggest that you read it again. Did you not read the part where I said he changed AFTER I told him I was pregnant? And as for me keeping my baby...no man will ever make me chose to kill my unborn child. I do not care if he is ever a part of my son's life. As I stated in my post I will be a single mother and provide for my babies!
Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 47188 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" She "still" chose to sleep with him... she didn't know he was lying... And pregnancy happens, come on! "


You guys all discussed all these "red flags"....she chose to ignore those and still slept with him without birth control.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 47188 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" :roll: Yes.... only hindsight is 20/20 though. I'm sure you're perfect. :roll: "


Never once said I was perfect, but I wouldn't let an almost stranger dictate my birth control choices....that is just common sense.

Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Sounds like he was looking for sex and she was more than willing to comply. She also took the "advice" ... [snip!] ... ask if she was going to have an abortion and be upset that his "girlfriend" got knocked up so quickly into the relationship. "
You sound so ignorant! Do not think you know my entire me after reading a couple of paragraphs. I doo not know why I'm even wasting my time replying to you..it makes me just as ignorant as you!
Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Never once said I was perfect, but I wouldn't let an almost stranger dictate my birth control choices....that is just common sense."
In my post did I ever say how long I knew him? Glad to know my post interested you this much...you keep taking time out of your night to comment! Thanks.
And let me clarify something HE WASN'T A STRANGER...HE WAS SOMEONE WHO LIED A LOT.
Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 47188 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Niyas_Mommi:" "


You stated that you started school at the beginning of the year
You stated that you met him after starting school
You are due February 2013 making your conception date in May 2012



You knew him less than 4 months before becoming pregnant.



4 months + never meeting his friends/family = almost stranger.

Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You stated that you started school at the beginning of the year You stated that you met him after starting ... [snip!] ... You knew him less than 4 months before becoming pregnant. 4 months + never meeting his friends/family = almost stranger."
Take your opinions and shove them up your ass...have a nice night! And next time you comment on someone's post try to live up to your username.
Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 47188 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Niyas_Mommi:" "


I am speaking the truth.



You were just as irresponsible as he was and he shouldn't be the only one to be painted in a negative light in this situation.

Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I am speaking the truth. You were just as irresponsible as he was and he shouldn't be the only one to be painted in a negative light in this situation."
Thank you for continuing to comment on MY post an hour after your first comment. Your profile says that you don't have time for stupidity...so if my post and my actions are so stupid to you...why are you still going back and forth with everyone after an hour?
Your profile also says that you have been in a custody battle, etc. with your child's father...sounds like you got knocked up by a guy who you ''thought'' would be there as well...but isn't!
Grow up...and most importantly get a life!
Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

To everyone who commented with positive advice...THANK YOU SO MUCH.
I am deleting this post because I don't have time to go back and forth with an obviously bitter woman!