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Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Does the fact that he yo-yos between contacting her and cutting off all contact with her not throwing ... [snip!] ... at one point. And when she said she was pregnant, he asked if she was going to abort and got mad at her. What else do you need?"
Thanks Blair Waldorf!!
Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

This is my first and last post on this website. If I wanted criticism and rude remarks I could have posted this somewhere like Babybumpapp.com! I thought the ladies here were a little more mature.
To the ladies who commented with great advice...thank you so much. It has really helped lift my spirits. I know in my heart and my mind he will not be in my son's life. I was in love and made some foolish choices, but WHO HASN'T?
And to the ladies making the rude comments (that I clearly have no time for) evaluate your own situation and life before you try to down someone else! I posted this for advice...I know what mistakes I made and what I could have done differently. But what's done is done. And at the end of the day everything happens for a reason!

Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" He's an epic c**t. Wait til the baby is born an see how he reacts ten. File for child support but if you do expect visitation. Get on birth control and trust your gut from now on."
I totally plan on filing for child support. But I am willing to wait a while after the baby is born to see what he does and doesn't do.
speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45005 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Does the fact that he yo-yos between contacting her and cutting off all contact with her not throwing ... [snip!] ... at one point. And when she said she was pregnant, he asked if she was going to abort and got mad at her. What else do you need?"


Sounds like he was looking for sex and she was more than willing to comply. She also took the "advice" of a veritable stranger to not go on birth control and she continued to have sex with him.



Just because he is a shitty "boyfriend" doesn't mean he'll be a shitty father. They barely knew each other which is evidenced by the fact that she didn't know a thing about him.



She is just as much to blame for not meeting his family and friends...and he said that he is separated, perhaps in his mind that meant that he was no longer married.



He has every right to question paternity and even ask for a DNA test once the child is born before paying child support. He also has the right to ask if she was going to have an abortion and be upset that his "girlfriend" got knocked up so quickly into the relationship.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Sounds like he was looking for sex and she was more than willing to comply. She also took the "advice" ... [snip!] ... ask if she was going to have an abortion and be upset that his "girlfriend" got knocked up so quickly into the relationship. "


So he's not to be blamed at all for his actions and for telling her a whole pack of lies. So only the female is responsible for getting knocked up. She was the only one present for this and therefore she is the only one who should shoulder all of the blame? Nobody said the OP was blameless, but I think it's completely ignorant and irresponsible to sit back and say that the guy is not to be blamed for how he acted.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45005 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" So he's not to be blamed at all for his actions and for telling her a whole pack of lies. So only the ... [snip!] ... but I think it's completely ignorant and irresponsible to sit back and say that the guy is not to be blamed for how he acted."


What exactly is he supposed to do for the child right now? She is still pregnant...



He is no longer in a relationship with her, he has no obligation to her at all.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" So he's not to be blamed at all for his actions and for telling her a whole pack of lies. So only the ... [snip!] ... but I think it's completely ignorant and irresponsible to sit back and say that the guy is not to be blamed for how he acted."


:!:



Seriously, the guy lied to her and tricked her. Sure, taking his advice on BC wasn't the smartest thing to do, but it sounds like he was a real douche.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45005 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" :!: Seriously, the guy lied to her and tricked her. Sure, taking his advice on BC wasn't the smartest thing to do, but it sounds like he was a real douche. "


And she still chose to sleep with him, get pregnant and keep the baby.....

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" And she still chose to sleep with him, get pregnant and keep the baby....."


She "still" chose to sleep with him... she didn't know he was lying...



And pregnancy happens, come on!

Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" And she still chose to sleep with him, get pregnant and keep the baby....."
Are you having a bad night or something? I do not know you at all so why are you so opinionated about my post and my situation? I asked for advice. So you can take your comments and shove em! And since you are so interested in my post I suggest that you read it again. Did you not read the part where I said he changed AFTER I told him I was pregnant? And as for me keeping my baby...no man will ever make me chose to kill my unborn child. I do not care if he is ever a part of my son's life. As I stated in my post I will be a single mother and provide for my babies!
speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45005 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" She "still" chose to sleep with him... she didn't know he was lying... And pregnancy happens, come on! "


You guys all discussed all these "red flags"....she chose to ignore those and still slept with him without birth control.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You guys all discussed all these "red flags"....she chose to ignore those and still slept with him without birth control."



:roll: Yes.... only hindsight is 20/20 though.



I'm sure you're perfect. :roll:

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45005 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" :roll: Yes.... only hindsight is 20/20 though. I'm sure you're perfect. :roll: "


Never once said I was perfect, but I wouldn't let an almost stranger dictate my birth control choices....that is just common sense.

Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Sounds like he was looking for sex and she was more than willing to comply. She also took the "advice" ... [snip!] ... ask if she was going to have an abortion and be upset that his "girlfriend" got knocked up so quickly into the relationship. "
You sound so ignorant! Do not think you know my entire me after reading a couple of paragraphs. I doo not know why I'm even wasting my time replying to you..it makes me just as ignorant as you!
Can't delete Account Georgia 15 posts
11th Oct '12

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Never once said I was perfect, but I wouldn't let an almost stranger dictate my birth control choices....that is just common sense."
In my post did I ever say how long I knew him? Glad to know my post interested you this much...you keep taking time out of your night to comment! Thanks.
And let me clarify something HE WASN'T A STRANGER...HE WAS SOMEONE WHO LIED A LOT.