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I'm so over it Emma and Chloe's Momma 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Crawfordsville, IN, United States 12032 posts
11th Oct '12

My DH just stresses me out like crazy. In the past week or so he seems to have changed. He throws like these temper tantrums and he'll start slamming and stomping with this look on his face. It's like he has such an attitude lately. I've tried talking to him about it but refuses to see it or that he's doing anything wrong. The other day our 18 month jumped on my lap and was screaming at him when he did it. Of course she never did it. :roll: It's like I don't know who he is anymore. He has gotten so much more lazier then normal. I understand he is switching to days from nights but with his schedule he ends up with every other weekend off. He says I get mad at him for everything. It's that I'm frustrated on his days off he's on the computer when I get up and then goes in the bedroom to play on the playstation. While I'm busting my ass cleaning he just watches me. He says I don't do shit for him. Without me he wouldn't eat, wouldn't have clean clothes, and would be living with his mother. I came back from the store earlier and he walked outside. I sat my bottled water on the porch so he could bring it in. He walks right past it. Tonight when he got in bed the sheets were all messed up. So I asked him if he fixed and while he fixed his side. I know those things are small but he always try to say that he cares more then I do. Which is such a load of crap. I'm fed up with the attitude and the laziness. I try talking to him but it never does any good. I don't think we can last at this rate but I don't think he gets a damn thing.
Thank you to whoever reads. This ended up being a bit longer but I just needed to get it out.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
11th Oct '12

I feel the same way. It's like Dh half asses everything and if I say anything I'm the bad guy. Wtf?!

Porcelain 1 child; New Jersey 2088 posts
11th Oct '12

Wow, sounds familiar :roll:
My SO is such a lazy p.o.s most days and just expects me to take care of him as if hes a child.

Emma and Chloe's Momma 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Crawfordsville, IN, United States 12032 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I feel the same way. It's like Dh half asses everything and if I say anything I'm the bad guy. Wtf?!"


Yep like tonight I'm exhausted and my body hurts. He fall asleep on the couch. So I got to do everything before I could go to bed. He didn't finish making his tea. Will I finish it, hell no. I'm sure I'll hear it in the morning but it's not my fault.

Juliette 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Olive Branch, MS, United States 3015 posts
11th Oct '12

Are we married to the same man? Lol

Emma and Chloe's Momma 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Crawfordsville, IN, United States 12032 posts
11th Oct '12

I'm glad I'm not the only one. How do you ladies deal with it? I've dealt with the laziness so it's almost like nothing anymore. The attitude has to go though. I don't know how much longer I can do this.

Porcelain 1 child; New Jersey 2088 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Emma and Chloe's Momma:" I'm glad I'm not the only one. How do you ladies deal with it? I've dealt with the laziness so it's almost ... [snip!] ... the laziness so it's almost like nothing anymore. The attitude has to go though. I don't know how much longer I can do this."


I dont know why I deal with it. Honestly, I'm beginning to hate him, I dont hate many people. At least he sleeps on the couch and I dont have to sleep next to him. It's kind of like having a roommate.

Juliette 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Olive Branch, MS, United States 3015 posts
11th Oct '12

I get an attitude back lol.

Emma and Chloe's Momma 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Crawfordsville, IN, United States 12032 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Poяcelain:" I dont know why I deal with it. Honestly, I'm beginning to hate him, I dont hate many people. At least ... [snip!] ... hate many people. At least he sleeps on the couch and I dont have to sleep next to him. It's kind of like having a roommate."


I understand. It's getting to the point where tiny things that normally wouldn't bother me drive me bonkers. I'm crawling my butt in the recliner tonight and sleeping there.

Amber Waves 1 child; Charleston, South Carolina 596 posts
11th Oct '12
Quoting Emma and Chloe's Momma:" I understand. It's getting to the point where tiny things that normally wouldn't bother me drive me bonkers. I'm crawling my butt in the recliner tonight and sleeping there."


i give ultimatums.
"if you dont get your shit together then get out."
i get sick FAST of little bullshit like that, because it adds up and personally thats too much to sit through like its nothing.