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*-PoisonIvysMama-* 2 kids; Alaska 6593 posts
15th Oct '12
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☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆ Due September 18 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Washington 45152 posts
15th Oct '12
Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:" Re-read the post. "


i read it just fine

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 573 posts
15th Oct '12

as long as you can pay the bills and food with your own money have fun and go out as much as you like

......... nowhere, NW, United States 25972 posts
15th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:</b>" I've seen it. A child gets pawned off to mom or dad (grandpa/grandma), and the mom goes out and gets ... [snip!] ... away. Once a week, maybe, but not every night. This is what I am referring to. Your child looks up to you in all you do. "</blockquote>




Idk what kind of relationship u have with your parents or whoever but when I go out to drink my mom/grandma know that's what I'm doing. Plus there's always two adults there and they wouldn't call me simply because my kids wanted them to. They let me have "me" time.

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
15th Oct '12
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:</b>" I've seen it. A child gets pawned ... [snip!] ... there's always two adults there and they wouldn't call me simply because my kids wanted them to. They let me have "me" time."


this. !

Kimber's Mommy 1 child; South Carolina 4272 posts
15th Oct '12
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:</b>" I've seen it. A child gets pawned ... [snip!] ... there's always two adults there and they wouldn't call me simply because my kids wanted them to. They let me have "me" time."


um, yep!



:)

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
15th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:</b>" Good for you. I just see it differently. I am very cautious and if for some reason my LOs needed me while I was out, I better be able to come to their rescue. "</blockquote>




I'm sad that you don't have the kind of relationship with your family that I do, where you can trust them to "rescue" your kid just as well as you would.

uəəๅๅoƆ fuknutz, NM, Togo 105350 posts
15th Oct '12
Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:" Yes!! I am very annoyed by this behavior. It is also the grandparents fault for saying yes to watching ... [snip!] ... sacrificed time and their life for you, it is only right you do the same for your child. Otherwise, what are you teaching them?"


I think you're being ridiculous.

Parents that go out are not necessarily 'pawning their kids off".

I dropped my kids off and went home.
and enjoyed the QUIET.

I sincerely hope you reexamine your thought process behind attempting to call cps for babysitting your grandkids

*-PoisonIvysMama-* 2 kids; Alaska 6593 posts
15th Oct '12
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*-PoisonIvysMama-* 2 kids; Alaska 6593 posts
15th Oct '12
Quoting ~Ice Princess~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:</b>" I've seen it. A child gets pawned ... [snip!] ... there's always two adults there and they wouldn't call me simply because my kids wanted them to. They let me have "me" time."


That's great. "Me" time is important, but so are the kids. I don't see what the relationship with my parents has to do with it.



*-PoisonIvysMama-* 2 kids; Alaska 6593 posts
15th Oct '12
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*-PoisonIvysMama-* 2 kids; Alaska 6593 posts
15th Oct '12
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think you're being ridiculous. Parents that go out are not necessarily 'pawning their kids off". ... [snip!] ... the QUIET. I sincerely hope you reexamine your thought process behind attempting to call cps for babysitting your grandkids"


Then, I was not referring to you.

I will not call CPS for simple babysitting, but I will report if he/she neglect or abandoned them to my care repeatingly. I don't think you understood me.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
15th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:</b>" Some people are not lucky like you are. It is nice that you can fall on someone to rescue your child. ... [snip!] ... don't neglect them. Once a week, I think it is nice to have a date or outting, but partying is certainly foolish IMO. "</blockquote>




Sucks your mom sucks. I have an awesome one who adores my daughter and loves her weekends with her.



I don't recall my mother telling me I had to get YOUR permission before she could watch my daughter. I don't approve of mothers being stuck up, judgmental b***hes, but you dont see me threatening you with CPS or calling you a shitty mom.

Kimber's Mommy 1 child; South Carolina 4272 posts
15th Oct '12
Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:" Some people are not lucky like you are. It is nice that you can fall on someone to rescue your child. ... [snip!] ... don't neglect them. Once a week, I think it is nice to have a date or outting, but partying is certainly foolish IMO. "


that's absolutely retarded. i LIVED with my grandparents with my mom when i was little until i was about two. my grandma kept me every single day while my mom was at school, all day every day. both my younger brothers and i stayed with my grandparents VERY often. (at least once a week we'd stay the night, usually the WEEKEND! GASP!)
i knew my mother was my mother and she is one of my best friends. she's been one of my best friends my entire life. my parents would also go on VACATIONS without us! holy shit what terrible parents! i wonder why my grandparents didn't call CPS and tell them that my parents were ALONE, WITHOUT THEIR KIDS, AND DRINKING! cause um, yeah, my parents liked to drink. still do if they get a chance. they didn't get sloppy drunk around us, because they were responsible and went out to have adult time. i honestly cannot believe you said you'd call CPS on your kids for leaving your grandkids with you while they go out. you know they wouldn't do a f**king thing, right? LOL. you're ridiculous.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
15th Oct '12

And I sure as shit am not neglecting my daughter :roll: I am with her all afternoon when she's home from school, all night every weekday, and all day Saturday and all day or most of the afternoon Sunday.



i'm surprised she remembers my name with how little I see her :roll: