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Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
17th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *-PoisonIvysMama-*:</b>" No, I talking about people that go out and get wasted and abuse the situation. "</blockquote>



and you made it very clear you believe all parents who go out every weekend are "abusive" regardless of how the people watching the kid feel.



Again... What the f**k ever, dude :lol:

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
17th Oct '12

Welp...<<< Bad Mama right hurrr!



Saturday night I went out and got WASTED! It was the 2nd time I have went out and got drunk(1st time I was with my DH and it was a few yrs ago). I got verrry drunk, the kinda drunk where you'll say hello to EVERYONE, lol :) I had me a awesome time with my bff. DH was at home with the kiddos. Yelp, I def needed that.



If the fact that I went out and got WASTED makes me terrible, Ohhhhhhhh Well!

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27046 posts
17th Oct '12
Quoting MyPurrrtyBabies:" Welp...<<< Bad Mama right hurrr! Saturday night I went out and got WASTED! It was the 2nd time ... [snip!] ... home with the kiddos. Yelp, I def needed that. If the fact that I went out and got WASTED makes me terrible, Ohhhhhhhh Well!"


This weekend Im getting a hotel room and drinking a ton with my SO. Why? Because we f**king deserve it.



hell. Yes.



We are oh so terrible ;)

Derp Due January 10; 1 child; Camp Lejeune, NC, United States 11596 posts
17th Oct '12

I would just like to say I went out for a girls night for the first time in a long time and it was f**king fabulous. I should go out more often. I'm jealous of these b***hes who go out every weekend.

Kimber's Mommy 1 child; South Carolina 4272 posts
17th Oct '12
Quoting Raptor Jesus (TTC):" I would just like to say I went out for a girls night for the first time in a long time and it was f**king fabulous. I should go out more often. I'm jealous of these b***hes who go out every weekend. "


i am too. lol. if my mom didn't work on the weekends, i'd DEFINITELY go out every weekend. well... not even necessarily go out. SO and i could just chill and watch movies and have a few drinks. that's what we used to do. lol. go have some sushi, have some beer (him) and wine (me), watch a movie, have some sex, wake up super early, have some more sex, get something to eat, go back to bed for hours. ahhh, that was the life. LOL.

Ryloonjimama Australia 18851 posts
18th Oct '12
Quoting JoAnna &hearts's Jett:" I do. Especially this one girl I know that leaves her 5 year old at home by herself while she goes out and drinks all night."


Now that's fucked up and something to angry about.



I don't want to go out every weekend, but if someone else does and they have someone responsible giving care to their child/ren then whatever.

кinga Due February 18 (girl); 1 child; Ontario 4606 posts
18th Oct '12

Meh, my parents partied every weekend when they had us. They were amazing parents and still are. If I could party believe me I would. But I can't. I just sit here out of jealousy when I think of the parents who do have fun.

☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆ Due September 18 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Washington 45402 posts
status 18th Oct '12

I go out every weekend but my youngest goes to dads and the 2 oldest go to their grandmother's because my 2 oldest dad lives in another state their grandmother like to see them as much as possible so I don't feel bad at all because they get to see family

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 585 posts
18th Oct '12

i really dont go out at all like some people on here my husband also thinks its wrong for a mother and father to go out alot 3 times a year is ok tho but thats it..it does suck cause i get so lonely

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 585 posts
18th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" How is it wrong?? If the resources are available for child care, then why is it such a big deal?"</blockquote>




thats what i keep telling him but to him once you become a parent thats your job forget about anything else..lose your friends..part of your family everything..

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 585 posts
18th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" No offense, but he's out of his gourd... "</blockquote>




oh believe me it sucks im allowed to go out once a week if my stuff is done and thats only to my aunts from 9pm-11:15 pm cause i have to be home at 11:30 if hes nice i get out to midnight but thats maybe 1 time a month

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27046 posts
18th Oct '12
Quoting Alicia Holz:" i really dont go out at all like some people on here my husband also thinks its wrong for a mother and father to go out alot 3 times a year is ok tho but thats it..it does suck cause i get so lonely"


You can go out once your stuff is done? WTF? So he tells you "Oh the housework isnt done, cant go out!" And only to your aunts, for a couple hours?



Seriously, Id be divorcing that shit.

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 585 posts
18th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" ...That's a little controlling... What happens if you aren't home in time?"</blockquote>




cant go out for a week or two

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
18th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Alicia Holz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" No offense, but he's out of his ... [snip!] ... to my aunts from 9pm-11:15 pm cause i have to be home at 11:30 if hes nice i get out to midnight but thats maybe 1 time a month"</blockquote>




:? Hello abusive red flags.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27046 posts
18th Oct '12
Quoting Alicia Holz:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:</b>" ...That's a little controlling... What happens if you aren't home in time?"</blockquote> cant go out for a week or two"


He "grounds" you?



What happens if he doesn't like what you are wearing? What happens if he doesnt like the things you are into or want to go out and do? Do you have to stop your whole life for him?



What if you dont agree with him, do you speak up????