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how many kids..... *frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 3 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2832 posts
13th Oct '12

Do you have?
Do you want?
And how many kids does your so want?



My first son will be five when my second is born in dec. I would like at least one more within the.next 5 to ten years, but so says he is done and doesnt want anymore. :(



Has anybody else had to deal with this, and what solution did you come up with?

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5836 posts
13th Oct '12
Quoting *frisky2times*:" Do you have? Do you want? And how many kids does your so want? My first son will be five when my second ... [snip!] ... so says he is done and doesnt want anymore. :( Has anybody else had to deal with this, and what solution did you come up with?"

2... and I have 2.
I wanted a boy. but not anymore. :)

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 25825 posts
13th Oct '12

We have one, she is just about to turn 1. We want 3-4, we had our first in our early 20s, so we have lots of time to spread some out, and have some close in age:D. next one will be in around 2-3 years:D

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
13th Oct '12

I have given birth to 2. But only have one.
I dont know how many I want. I keep going back and forth from having more and being done.
I dont have an SO.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
13th Oct '12

I'm in the same boat. Dd will be five when this ones born. I am not ready to rule out the possibility of one more kid in another 5 yrs but he says he knows he's done :(

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
13th Oct '12

I want 2-3, as does my partner. If he refused to have more than 2, I would probably be okay w/ it... I can see why you're upset though

Momma x 2 18 kids; Whiskey d**k Mountain, WA, United States 1372 posts
13th Oct '12

2
2
and
2



Since we were lucky enough to have a son and a daughter, we're pretty much set :)

Mom3Boys1gurl 36 kids; Iowa 1889 posts
13th Oct '12

we have 3 kids now, a 4 year old, almost 3 year old and 8 month old.
i would like at least one more. which my husband is fine with.
we just cant agree on when is a good time for the next.

user banned Due September 14 (boy); 1 child; Rhode Island 6726 posts
13th Oct '12

I'm happy with my 1 (a 4 month old girl) but SO wants one more. I may reevaluate in a few years depending on our relationship/financials.

Florida Mommy Due August 21 (girl); 1 child; Florida 1105 posts
13th Oct '12

I have one son who is 4.
I've always wanted 3 but I'm wondering if I change my mind after I have one more.
My hubby claims he only wants one more.. but I think he would go along with me if I wanted a third.



We're going to start TTC this coming January, so my son will definitely be 5 by the time we have a baby. I think it's a good age span and he will definitely be able to help me out a lot. If we do decide we want 3, I don't think I would wait another 5 years though.. maybe 2-3.

BRowell 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Bristol, TN, United States 3729 posts
13th Oct '12

We have two. I wanted four and we were actually going to start TTC this month but DH changed his mind and we talked about it. I think we've decided that two is good. We may change our mind in the future though.

homes cool Due August 1; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61618 posts
13th Oct '12
Quoting *frisky2times*:" Do you have? Do you want? And how many kids does your so want? My first son will be five when my second ... [snip!] ... so says he is done and doesnt want anymore. :( Has anybody else had to deal with this, and what solution did you come up with?"


I'd like three, I have two. DH wanted 3, but only if we didn't already have a boy/girl. We have a boy/girl, so he says he's done. I still deeply desire one more. We'll see what happens.

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13935 posts
13th Oct '12

We always agreed on 3.
DD is 3 next month and this baby will be born in March.
Idk what it will be like having 2 kids, and if I'm going to want to throw another baby into it all. But DH thinks we will want one, even though he is terrified of having this 2nd one!! Idk.. lol

LaLaLa... Due January 18 (girl); 2 kids; 3 angel babies; New Zealand 237 posts
13th Oct '12

I have two girl's so im willing to go one more in the future.We both want a boy.:D

*frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 3 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2832 posts
13th Oct '12

I'm semi ok with just 2 but ive always really wanted like 3 or 4. He had 3 brothers and a sister so I think he thinks its better if there is less lol his life was a little hectic sometimes, but I was an only child and felt deprived from having no siblings :(



I was actually starting to become ok with one before I got pregnant and then this little guy surprised us, so now i'm deff thinking I want more, but it might just be i'm excited to meet this one :)