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Finally giving up she's here 11/5/10 2 kids; Ladson, South Carolina 1914 posts
13th Oct '12

Well I've been with my husband for 5 yrs an married almost 2 yrs,
Well after noticing he's never going to change his ways
I think it's time to move on! He's a constant douchebag.
He criticizes everything I do! The way I take care of our kids he talks shit about
I clean an he b***hes about that too! An then he talks shit to me an puts me town all the time! An in a very sensitive person I take things to heart!
I'm over it already!. I just want to go back home an get away from all this I don't want my kids to think its ok for them to talk the way he does to me !
We've gotten into fights an its just enough already! I love him but he's pushing me away! Any advice?

Mommatini. 1 child; 1 angel baby; Alabama 1236 posts
13th Oct '12

Sounds just like my life...
If I wasn't so afraid he'd try to take DD I'd be outta' here.

let it be California 41018 posts
13th Oct '12

I think you're right. It's not fair to be treated that way.

Sweetheart...* Due July 30; 1 child; Florida 1290 posts
13th Oct '12
Quoting she's here 11/5/10:" Well I've been with my husband for 5 yrs an married almost 2 yrs, Well after noticing he's never going ... [snip!] ... the way he does to me ! We've gotten into fights an its just enough already! I love him but he's pushing me away! Any advice?"


that's the same way my SO is to me. he always says that i never clean the house.... well i would like to know who he thinks does it?! it doesn't f**king clean itself. he is always so negative and constantly complaining and bitching. he loves to pick fights and talk shit about me all the time. a lot of the time i ignore it, but i'm not a very sensitive person. it used to affect me a lot more.

she's here 11/5/10 2 kids; Ladson, South Carolina 1914 posts
13th Oct '12

I'm afraid of that too, but he's military to he's gone a lot!
I'm just tired of it! It's the same thing all the time. An I'm too the point were I'm like wtf? There's days were he wakes up bitching at me an in like wtf did I do now! He got mad at me cuz I'm leaving in two weeks! But I don't care! In doing what's best for me an my kids

GONE. PZ OUT. 2 kids; California 1278 posts
13th Oct '12

If you love him try counseling first

she's here 11/5/10 2 kids; Ladson, South Carolina 1914 posts
13th Oct '12

He doesn't believe in consueling . I've tried to ask him but he always says no

Damien*Dex*Jaidyn's Momma 18 kids; Pennsylvania 1535 posts
13th Oct '12

Take your kids and run! They don't need brought up in that shit and you don't need it either.

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
13th Oct '12

If he doesnt want do consualing then I'd pack my stuff up and my kids. And leave I wouldnt stay there just listen to him degrade me day in and day out. It isnt good for kids to hear him talk to you that way and think its ok to talk to others that because they saw daddy doing it growing up.

GONE. PZ OUT. 2 kids; California 1278 posts
13th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Moody Momma:</b>" Take your kids and run! They don't need brought up in that shit and you don't need it either. "</blockquote>




As long as its not abusive she shouldn't have to " run ". Back in the day women took alot of shit from their husbands but they stayed with them, marriage Is a vow for life those kids need a family . I think they can work it through she just needs to get to the root of his a*****e behavior . There's two sides to every story

GONE. PZ OUT. 2 kids; California 1278 posts
13th Oct '12

You have a beautiful family mama I know it's hard but don't give up on your family yet!!

let it be California 41018 posts
13th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moody Momma:</b>" Take your kids and run! They don't need brought ... [snip!] ... . I think they can work it through she just needs to get to the root of his a*****e behavior . There's two sides to every story"</blockquote>



He is verbally abusive which is just as bad if not worse.

Mommatini. 1 child; 1 angel baby; Alabama 1236 posts
13th Oct '12
Quoting Chuck Finley.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... behavior . There's two sides to every story"</blockquote> He is verbally abusive which is just as bad if not worse."


:!:



This!



She doesn't know about OP's real relationship, none of us do. Try walking in her shoes before making judgement. It's obvious that she's put up with this, and had tried numerous things. "Marriage is for life, and women put up with a lot" blah blah blah. It's apparent she can't do anything else for the marriage. I'd leave too at that point.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
13th Oct '12
Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moody Momma:</b>" Take your kids and run! They don't need brought ... [snip!] ... . I think they can work it through she just needs to get to the root of his a*****e behavior . There's two sides to every story"


Im sorry but you may be able to put up with that abuse.. but NOBODY SHOULD BE PUT THROUGHT VERBAL ABUSE!

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
13th Oct '12
Quoting Chuck Finley.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... behavior . There's two sides to every story"</blockquote> He is verbally abusive which is just as bad if not worse."


I totally agree...