Quoting thewarmth:" I don't know why everyone is shocked she is a manager, like restaurant managers make bank or something... ... [snip!] ... make bank or something... they don't! People can work at a restaurant for a couple of months and be offered a manager job."
My mom is a general manager of a Jason's Deli, and she doesn't make much more than she did when she started.
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" My mom is a general manager of a Jason's Deli, and she doesn't make much more than she did when she started. "
They don't make but a few more an hour than minimum wage.
Quoting thewarmth:" She hasn't "turned down" any option. She wants an abortion, and is asking how to go about getting one, ... [snip!] ... much fun being mean to someone. I remember not too long ago your parenting sucked big time, so don't feel so quick to judge."
Bwaha, too true! :wink:
<blockquote><b>Quoting Diamond Ma.:</b>" he dnt work alot i hve to use some of my child support to help and i kno thts not good bt we need it ... [snip!] ... thts not good bt we need it i hve a interview comin up 4 a job nxt week bt i mite nt get it cuz plenty ppl r gettin interview 2"</blockquote>
If you have to use the child support use it. It's better in the long run. Do what you need to do to get the abortion.
Why are you receiving the money if the kids don't live with you?
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" can you go pawn or sell some things? if i were you, id be finding the biggest jar of vitamin c tablets ... [snip!] ... kids now? why would you have more. I think you should try to come up with as much money and if your still early take the pills"
From what ive heard excess vitamin c will just cause diahrrea. Natural health people suggest taking it to "bowel tolerance" for certain things. It was actually suggested to me (not for abortion) but since i also heard it *may* cause abortion i felt a little weird about it.
Ive also read that its not really effective in causing an abortion, though it has been done.
"there is absolutely no scientific evidence that supports the theories of Vitamin C and abortion. In fact, health experts state that using Vitamin C as one of the natural miscarriage methods could be a mistake as Vitamin C does not always cause a miscarriage, but it can lead to several growth & development defects in the unborn baby."
BUT you can go to the county public health department in the city you live and have abortions free as part of the reproductive services that they provide. As long as you are under a certain income, which OP it sounds like you deffinitely are, they offer free pregnancy tests, condoms, birth control, std checks, pap tests, abortions, prenatal care, the works. (At least in California, but im sure every state has something similar)
<blockquote><b>Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:</b>" Whaaaaat? I suggest getting your tubes tied. If you can't spell simple words you don't need mOre babies."</blockquote>
<blockquote><b>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:</b>" what's a next baby? And how do I get pregnant wid one?"</blockquote>
Lmao too funny!
<blockquote><b>Quoting AmberTastic!:</b>" A baby would NOT be best for you with that kind of grammar. What you need is a chastity belt."</blockquote>
I agree and an English lesson!
Looks like you might have the answers for the abortion-now I would like to offer some advise-BIRTH CONTROL. Look-we ALL have sex-some want babies and some not-but jesus you JUST had a baby earlier in the year and you're already pregnant again? It's NOT that difficult to take a pill, get a shot, there are tons of options for BC out there...how about spending that $90 after your abortion to save the headache and heartache next time. Grow up!
After Reading what others had to say I truly believe an abortion is a better choice. You have 2 kids that don't live with you I don think you having a 3rd is a good idea. You don't sound fit to be a mother if your worrying about your bf. I'm not the perfect mom but your kids are suppose to come first they didn't ask to be born. My best advice is have an abortion get on some birth control. If you have health insurance you get the iud. Also go back to school. Educate yourself. At this point you should know unprotected sex means a pregnancy on the way. Try to get your life together for the other 2 kids. Don't be depending on a man's money from child support to make a living. If your mom has your kids work full time and save your money. If anything you should be payin your mother child support for taking care of your kids... Good luck to you!!!!
Quoting Diamond Ma.:" i cant believe i fucked up agin i was very careful wid my bf dis time. i jus got my baby money last week ... [snip!] ... my bf and he dnt kno yet. my son n daugter live wid my mom and ill get the money bck for her by nxt week if i get the abortion."
I'm from NJ too, there is definitely a planned parenthood in Newark. Go get the help and protection you need.
Number one I am having trouble believing this is real. But if so I would do adoption instead of abortion. Its not like your going to keep it. It should not be up to your boyfriend. Its your body thats going through this not yours. And the child support is still going to her probably bc her mother does not legally have the children therefor the money still goes to her.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Brendens Mommy:</b>" Number one I am having trouble believing this is real. But if so I would do adoption instead of abortion. ... [snip!] ... support is still going to her probably bc her mother does not legally have the children therefor the money still goes to her."</blockquote>
Have you given a baby up for adoption? It's not simple. Also, if her bf doesn't want her to get an abortion, why on earth would he sign for an adoption?