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It seriously makes me want to vomit SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
16th Oct '12

Knowing all the girls out there willing to date a deadbeat father.... ESPECIALLY when they HAVE kid.... the immorality of the world never ceases to amaze me.

Think Bαby 17 kids; Nevada 3635 posts
16th Oct '12

Is it possible that they don't know he is a deadbeat?

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45013 posts
16th Oct '12

You never know the line they are being fed...



People lie.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Think Bαby:" Is it possible that they don't know he is a deadbeat? "


:!:



Women dated my ex stepfather and had kids. He's a paedophile. They refused to believe my mum and us, thinking that she was just a jealous ex.

mamas❤ 2 kids; California 9602 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You never know the line they are being fed... People lie."


:!:

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Think Bαby:" Is it possible that they don't know he is a deadbeat? "


Well, he is SUCH and INCREDIBLE liar who knows what shit he's put in their minds... but there is NO excuse.. they LIVE together... we've only been seperated for two months AND SHE HAS A KID. So of course she knows he never sees her. The sad thing is, I think his mom took her to him without telling me a word. So now I can't trust her with my daughter... so all these casualities are happening because he a p***e o* s**t

♥MamaToSilas♥ 1 child; Illinois 9288 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You never know the line they are being fed... People lie."


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My BD fed me all kinds of lies making me think his BM was the one always in the wrong. It wasn't until I was pregnant that I saw the truth.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You never know the line they are being fed... People lie."


This.



They're probably being told the baby's mom is "crazy" or keeping the kid's from him or whatever BS he needs to pull to keep a girl around.
I've sadly been on both sides of this type of situation & had to learn the hard way.

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Sami&Baby Silas:" :!: My BD fed me all kinds of lies making me think his BM was the one always in the wrong. It wasn't until I was pregnant that I saw the truth."


And that is exactly what will happen. I wish I could control him because I feel helpless to my daughter...

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting KNZ.:" This. They're probably being told the baby's mom is "crazy" or keeping the kid's from him or whatever ... [snip!] ... needs to pull to keep a girl around. I've sadly been on both sides of this type of situation & had to learn the hard way. "


They always use that line... women are STUPID enough to believe it. There is NO EXCUSE ON EARTH for abandoning your children.... no person can keep someone away from their daughter. I KNOW He is telling her lies that I'm keeping him from her.... I have done NOTHING until now to give that opinion... I told him long ago, if he dates someone before he fixes himself, he will not see her... not like I need to because he never tries anyway

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Is that still my name?:" Knowing all the girls out there willing to date a deadbeat father.... ESPECIALLY when they HAVE kid.... the immorality of the world never ceases to amaze me. "


Or... better yet. MARRY ONE and then have another kid with them.

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Or... better yet. MARRY ONE and then have another kid with them. "


YUP! My son's dad's wife did that.

Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
16th Oct '12

Eh can't judge someone for loving another person deadbeat dad or not...



If all dead beat fathers could never find love then many men and women would be single.



It's like those crazy women getting married to murders in jail! Insane!

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59191 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Is that still my name?:" They always use that line... women are STUPID enough to believe it. There is NO EXCUSE ON EARTH for ... [snip!] ... long ago, if he dates someone before he fixes himself, he will not see her... not like I need to because he never tries anyway"


Not trying to be a b***h, just trying to understand- but by "her" in "he will not see her", that's your daughter? So if he dates someone before he 'fixes himself' he won't see his daughter, so, you could keep him from seeing her- so, that could be a semi-valid excuse. not a good one, but a valid one. REALLY not trying to upset you, promise, just trying to fully understand when you said that no one can keep you from seeing your kid.



I mean, when i was 18, and had a 2 year old, i was fed that bullshit from a 24 year old with a 2 year old and i believed it, cos i didn't understand why a person would lie about that. Also, in 7 years, my son's never had his bio-dad in the picture, so i've seen how parents can leave.



If you're a woman and fully know the situation, then ya, you're dumb. But i mean, that's not usually the full story.

P@m3L@!! 20 kids; De Land, Florida 3716 posts
16th Oct '12

oh my dear, i feel ya.



my ex hasnt paid his child support in almost 2 years.
he was with a gril who knew about me and his 3 kids....
she knew he never paid child support, and she actually made him pay for her and her SON,
i was like "really?, your really gonna be with someone who dosent take care of HIS kids, what if they same happens to you? then what?, oh i know, I TOLD YA SO"
gets under my skin too when a female is with a deadbeat who 'knows' he is one, and who has kids of her own on top of it.
its like, dont you see he could and probably would do the same to you...... w/e, your life. have fun with that.... ......... .... ughhh