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I don't know where to begin Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
16th Oct '12

I haven't been on here in months, so I am out of the loop. My husband has made me feel like my feelings, my anything doesn't matter because I don't bring in a paycheck. Which was OUR decision. I have been so sad and depressed since July when my dog, which next to my son, kept the lonely at bay. Now, when I try to talk to him about it, it turns into how I am such an awful person and wife. Tomorrow, I want to leave him, but don't know where to begin other then taking my kid, my cat, my truck, me and all our stuff. Please help.

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8934 posts
16th Oct '12

Im sorry you're going through that :( Do you have any idea where you're going to go?

Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Marbles.:" Im sorry you're going through that :( Do you have any idea where you're going to go?"


home. (sounds so pathetic I know) to my mom and dad, where we are are wanted and loved. I just dont know what to do after that.

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8934 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Corissa Christensen:" home. (sounds so pathetic I know) to my mom and dad, where we are are wanted and loved. I just dont know what to do after that. "

Thats not pathetic, if anything happened between me and SO id have to do the same till I got on my feet. Are you going to leave a note or something?

Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Marbles.:" Thats not pathetic, if anything happened between me and SO id have to do the same till I got on my feet. Are you going to leave a note or something?"


he'll probably be home when I leave tomorrow. idk what to do. he knows i'm done though. i think we've both been done because our son as held him back from his "activities" which only include drinking and who ever's body print is on the hood of our car

Claire Traynor Due December 22 (girl); 19 kids; Mayfield, United Kingdom 123 posts
16th Oct '12

Go back home. Ask your family to help u get ur life back on track by gettin friends, a job n when your feet are back on the ground. Your in a good place find home for u's all. It's unfair on your child n yourself not to do somethin about it. Good luck mama n just remember it's about u n wat is best for u. Whatever u decided to do will always be best for your child x*x

Proud mommy106 Due March 6 (girl); 1 child; Hammond, Indiana 10 posts
16th Oct '12

I'm sorry you're going through this. It can make you feel down. I'm considering going back to mom and dad's too.

Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Claire Traynor:" Go back home. Ask your family to help u get ur life back on track by gettin friends, a job n when your ... [snip!] ... luck mama n just remember it's about u n wat is best for u. Whatever u decided to do will always be best for your child x*x"


you are right. my son is 5.5 months old and from the time we found out we were having a baby, over a year ago, he has said it's "inconvienenced" him. i just dont want to go back to my old job, bartending, but really thats the only thing i know how to do. and made very good money

Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Proud mommy106:" I'm sorry you're going through this. It can make you feel down. I'm considering going back to mom and dad's too."


yeah? why for you?

Proud mommy106 Due March 6 (girl); 1 child; Hammond, Indiana 10 posts
16th Oct '12

Things haven't been right since my fiance had a baby on me last year. I'm just tired of trying to make it work.

Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Proud mommy106:" Things haven't been right since my fiance had a baby on me last year. I'm just tired of trying to make it work."


my husband cheated on me too, but unfortunately, she died before i could talk to her about it. and he was so anxious to wash the car even though it was goin to rain, i finally realized that it was because there was a body print on the hood. my dog died in july and since then, not even a hug or anything, tonight i tried talking to him but he turned it into "you're a b***h cuz WE decided for you not to work"

Proud mommy106 Due March 6 (girl); 1 child; Hammond, Indiana 10 posts
16th Oct '12

It sounds like he has some issues. I bet he will try to get you back once you're gone.

Rock Springs, Wyoming 1850 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Proud mommy106:" It sounds like he has some issues. I bet he will try to get you back once you're gone."


i left in january when i was 6 month prego cuz of his drinking and he did the whole "i'll change" blah blah blah shit and i fell for it. but not this time. im done. my son needs a mommy and daddy that loves him, even if i have to be mommy and daddy.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36509 posts
16th Oct '12
Quoting Corissa Christensen:" you are right. my son is 5.5 months old and from the time we found out we were having a baby, over a ... [snip!] ... just dont want to go back to my old job, bartending, but really thats the only thing i know how to do. and made very good money"


There is no shame in going back to it. Why dont you want to go back to that job?

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8934 posts
17th Oct '12
Quoting Corissa Christensen:" my husband cheated on me too, but unfortunately, she died before i could talk to her about it. and he ... [snip!] ... a hug or anything, tonight i tried talking to him but he turned it into "you're a b***h cuz WE decided for you not to work" "

There was a body print on the hood... did he run her over?!