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This will probably sound mean eriinmariie 18 kids; Anchorage, Alaska 47 posts
19th Oct '12

I know I have no right to say who should and should not have a child, but does anyone else know someone who just keeps trying and trying to get pregnant and you just wish they would stop. I know this sounds horrible, but I know this girl who keeps trying to have a baby, and it bothers me so much. She smokes (which i dont have an issue with smoking, but yes I have a issue with pregnant woman smoking), she does not have the resources to have a child, she doesnt live in a clean home (i know thats judgemental, but I really feel if your house is dirty, not messy, just plain right dirty, its bad for a child) Her daughter she has now has no concept of rules or anything, and thats not a child acting out sort of thing, its a full blown she just doesnt give a crap sort of thing. Like I said I know this is horrible to post about, because I have no right to tell someone if they should have a baby or not. It just really bothers me knowing that she thinkgs all a baby needs is love, yes that is extreamly important, but a child also needs someone to care for it, take care of them. Anyone else dealing with a friend, or in my case a girl i cant freaking stand. ??

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
19th Oct '12

different circumstances, but it makes sad that my SIL keeps having kids because they really want a boy....She can't care of the brood she has...

Chef Sarah ♥ Due May 11; 1 child; Hollywood, FL, United States 10566 posts
19th Oct '12

I know someone like that. She's only 17 and has been "pregnant" by every single guy that she's been with.

Kali'sMommy♥ 1 child; California 13723 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" I know someone like that. She's only 17 and has been "pregnant" by every single guy that she's been with."


I know someone like that too.. So annoying.

Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 20756 posts
19th Oct '12

Well she could possibly stop smoking when she gets pregnant. Really though, who cares.. I know a lot of girls who I think shouldn't have kids, but they do anyways. Not much you can do.

Chef Sarah ♥ Due May 11; 1 child; Hollywood, FL, United States 10566 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Kali'sMommy:" I know someone like that too.. So annoying."


She lives in a dirty trailer with her current boyfriend (who she's "hoping" that she's pregnant by, posts on fb about missing her period and all) and has admitted to prostituting herself. :roll:

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
19th Oct '12

Its her life, and it really has no effect on your life at all.

Kali'sMommy♥ 1 child; California 13723 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Regina George ♡:" Well she could possibly stop smoking when she gets pregnant. Really though, who cares.. I know a lot of girls who I think shouldn't have kids, but they do anyways. Not much you can do."


I stopped smoking when I got pregnant.. I don't get why that was pointed out. lol

Kali'sMommy♥ 1 child; California 13723 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" She lives in a dirty trailer with her current boyfriend (who she's "hoping" that she's pregnant by, posts on fb about missing her period and all) and has admitted to prostituting herself. :roll:"


Wow, it shocks me to what lengths teens will go to get pregnant, probably because she wants to keep her man around. When I was 17 I would have died if I got pregnant, even if I did have a solid relationship. Shit I cried and knew I found out I was pregnant with DD, I was scared shitless.

Chef Sarah ♥ Due May 11; 1 child; Hollywood, FL, United States 10566 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Kali'sMommy:" Wow, it shocks me to what lengths teens will go to get pregnant, probably because she wants to keep ... [snip!] ... even if I did have a solid relationship. Shit I cried and knew I found out I was pregnant with DD, I was scared shitless. "


Yeah I honestly believe it's to keep the guys.. but it never does.

eriinmariie 18 kids; Anchorage, Alaska 47 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" Its her life, and it really has no effect on your life at all. "


i doesnt effect it because of her having a kid, but in a weird way to me it does. I am a baby lover. seriously i love kids sooooo much. I have two of my own, but when I see people, not even just her, people who are not in the right setting for a child, it kills me to know this poor child doesnt have a better life is all. I mean I feel bad for her daughter now. I just want to take that little girl in so bad. Not to mention she had CPS called because she left her daughter in the car, in very hot weather. She got away with it due to a connection she has. =(

Abi Lynn 1 child; Tullahoma, Tennessee 91 posts
19th Oct '12

My cousin and his wife are like that. He finally got fixed after their fourth, but I totally understand. They're living with my dad because they can't keep a roof over their heads, due to plain monetary stupidity. I babysit the girls, and they keep an extremely filthy house. This morning when he left the youngest with me all she had was a pair of panties on that she had peed in, and there's no telling how long she'd sat in them before I got her into the bath.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" Yeah I honestly believe it's to keep the guys.. but it never does."


I have never seen a "keep a man baby" work out!

Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 20756 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Kali'sMommy:" Wow, it shocks me to what lengths teens will go to get pregnant, probably because she wants to keep ... [snip!] ... even if I did have a solid relationship. Shit I cried and knew I found out I was pregnant with DD, I was scared shitless. "


Seriously, getting pregnant at 16 was the LAST thing I wanted. 99% of the time the guys don't even stick around anyways, sucks some people have to learn that the hard way lol

Chef Sarah ♥ Due May 11; 1 child; Hollywood, FL, United States 10566 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" I have never seen a "keep a man baby" work out!"


Me either!