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I am in dire need of advice Teen Mommy♥ Due November 27 (boy); New York 13 posts
19th Oct '12

Hi i am only 17 & I am 8 months pregnant. I am having a baby boy. I need advice from others teens or older women who have been in my position. I am honestly stuck between a rock and a hard place right now ; soon i will be going into labor & i am not quite sure who's my child's father. Its between two guys my ex-boyfriend and a friend of mines. I had sex with my friend 2 days before my ovulation and then had sex with my ex on the day i ovulated, I made a horrible mistake and now i am paying for it severely. Neither one of them wants anything to do with me which is understandable, but yet it is not fair that my son has to go through this because of my stupid mistakes. I told my ex boyfriend that there is a chance that he is the dad & as for the other guy he thinks he is the father. I have messed up really bad and i do not know what to do or how to deal with this situation. I just want to be able to give my son everything i never had & i never had my father so i really want him to have his. I do not want any family feuds between mines & neither families. I feel like i did the wrong thing by telling them about the baby, but i also feel like this is not fair , why should i have to go through this & be a single teen parent when i did not lay down and create this life by myself & my support system is not that large ( my mom ) and she does not quite understand the pressure i am under. Please some one help or give me some kind of advice because i cant take it anymore, i close to having a nervous break down .:cry:

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
19th Oct '12

Have a DNA test done when the baby is born. Good luck.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49057 posts
19th Oct '12

Get a dna test!

Pickle Due September 2 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 4205 posts
19th Oct '12

What is your situation?

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20139 posts
19th Oct '12

how do you know when you ovulated? did you take an ovulation test?

Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 20750 posts
19th Oct '12

Either I'm missing something or she deleted that really quick lol

Mary Stickles Due May 22; 4 kids; Virginia Beach, Virginia 978 posts
19th Oct '12

Get a dna test

Pickle Due September 2 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 4205 posts
19th Oct '12

I guess i can't see the post or i'm missing something because there doesn't seem to be anything to answer >.<

Hopeful and Optomistic! TTC since Aug 2013; 6 angel babies; Edgewood, Maryland 301 posts
19th Oct '12

Ask both to have a DNA done, they should know if its their baby and i agree the child deserves to know to. Don't put so much blame on your self, everyone is human and you are now bring a life into this world and it will be wonderful! Good luck with everything, I hope it all works out

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49057 posts
19th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Regina George ♡:</b>" Either I'm missing something or she deleted that really quick lol"</blockquote>




She deleted really fast

Mrs cree Due November 23; 33 kids; Ontario 1907 posts
19th Oct '12

Well I would ask both the guys for a DNA test the down side is if if they are determined to be the father does not mean they will be there for you or your son. You did the right thing by telling them about the baby they have right to a least know at least the guy who thinks he's the dad will most Likely take the DNA test

Teen Mommy♥ Due November 27 (boy); New York 13 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" how do you know when you ovulated? did you take an ovulation test?"

I have a period tracker and it tells me when my next period is coming and when i am fertile.

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" how do you know when you ovulated? did you take an ovulation test?"


That's something else I'm wondering. At 17, I had no idea when I ovulated.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" Have a DNA test done when the baby is born. Good luck. "


This!!!



Good luck mama!!!

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
19th Oct '12
Quoting Teen Mommy♥:" I have a period tracker and it tells me when my next period is coming and when i am fertile."



Were you TTC?