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♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5821 posts
20th Oct '12
Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:" I kind of feel like he can just go fuck himself then. Good luck finding someone else like me!"

He'll find plenty of other pieces of ass, I'm sure.
Sorry.

S♡J=Malachi 1 child; 3 angel babies; Florida 3278 posts
20th Oct '12

If y'all is just sleePing then no he don't own you a thing.

Iyahna :^P Southern California, CA, United States 13488 posts
status 20th Oct '12

Sounds like a guy i dont want to mess with...he sounds like a loser who does.not know what he wants and playing games.red flag if hes going to you then his ex and back to you.

Aribean 1 child; California 11400 posts
20th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" So is that how it works then... you're either with someone completely or you're just some pussy? Legit ... [snip!] ... agree with you where I feel like he is just using me, and trying to do all of that to make me keep hooking up with him."</blockquote>




Exactly just that..



There really is no healthy in between.....it's clear as day that you can not handle "friends with benefits". You secretly want to just have a real relationship with him...
As far as not making things complicated..FwB is prob the messiest thing you can do.

That girl Amber +2 2 kids; California 6981 posts
20th Oct '12

Not rude at all. And if you guys are just fuck buddies youre either gonna hafta get over the feelings youre catching or level with the dude

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
20th Oct '12
Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:" So is that how it works then... you're either with someone completely or you're just some pussy? Legit ... [snip!] ... agree with you where I feel like he is just using me, and trying to do all of that to make me keep hooking up with him."


Honey, if you were more than sex, he wouldn't leave for 3 days and not tell you, he'd actually CARE about your feelings. Its just sex, thats all. If it was more, he'd be your boyfriend, not your playmate.

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
20th Oct '12
Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:" This question is to the mamas who have/are dating or have had a friends with benefits in the past... ... [snip!] ... talk almost everyday. Would you all consider that rude of him or psycho of me? Somewhere in between, like we're both wrong?"


I think you're a psycho for being interested in a man who dumped you for a month, lol he would have to be something fucking special, and it doesn't sound like that.

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11483 posts
status 20th Oct '12

He has no obligation to you because you are not dating. For you to even be mad is kinda insane IMO.

Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
20th Oct '12
Quoting Katie ♥ Eli:" If you're not in a relationship, I don't really feel either of you owe each other any explanations for ... [snip!] ... what you do. With that being said, I would be upset as well... Which is why I never do friends with benefits relationships."


Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest way to go about being intimate with someone. I think for me, I just don't want anything official because I'm moving in about 6 months far away, and I don't want my child getting involved with anyone. He's been kind to my child when he's seem them, but generally just stays completely behind the scenes and sneaks out, which was perfect for me. Plus, I don't want to be a mother to anyone else's kids. I thought he wanted to be more or less unlabeled, not in a relationship, for the same reason, but maybe it's so he can have guilt free sex with whoever he wants while lying to my face about. Bastard.

Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
20th Oct '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" So is that how it works then... you're ... [snip!] ... lays in your bed and says that he loves you but what he really means is that he loves laying in your bed and sleeping with you."


Agreed.



Unfortunately OP its pretty black and white in situations like this..



You either want it, or you don't.



If he wants a relationship he would have committed by now.. you guys are just friends with benefits & you are complicating things by getting attached.



Thats the problem with some women when it comes to having 'bed buddies'..
You make them orgasm and then they fall in love with you or get attached & complicate things :lol:8)

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
20th Oct '12
Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:" So is that how it works then... you're either with someone completely or you're just some pussy? Legit ... [snip!] ... agree with you where I feel like he is just using me, and trying to do all of that to make me keep hooking up with him."


If he leaves you for a month to get with his ex and doesn't contact you for three days, he's just using you for pussy.

Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
20th Oct '12
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Thalamus Nut Sack Japan 22 posts
20th Oct '12
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" He'll find plenty of other pieces of ass, I'm sure. Sorry. "


Lol sure

Katie ♥ Eli 1 child; California 2259 posts
20th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest way to go about being intimate with someone. I think for me, I ... [snip!] ... for the same reason, but maybe it's so he can have guilt free sex with whoever he wants while lying to my face about. Bastard."</blockquote>



Some women can do it, some can't and there is nothing wrong with it.



But there is something wrong with pretending you're okay with a FWB situation when you're clearly not cut out for it.



End it. You'll just be hurting yourself by continuing it.

The One You've Missed 16 kids; Texas 32426 posts
20th Oct '12

you're like the booty call he keeps extra nice to so you will keep being the booty call...

you can't freak out when you said it yourself you don't want anything complicated.