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Babiee Miller Due April 29; 2 kids; Calgary, Alberta 69 posts
21st Oct '12

child services is involved with him and his kids, they have n idea I am regnant I am 5 weeks along tommorow I am just afraid if I tell them that I am pregant they will take my little angel away from me and ths is my first baby

Tavi 1 child; Washington 24412 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Babiee Miller:" Child services are involved with my man and his family and we just had a baby together"


Well, I'm not going to ask why they are onto him since if you wanted us to know that, you would've said something, but if you and him live in separate homes, it shouldn't be a problem. That's only if child services are onto him and not you.

Bonnie Beaver♥ Due April 8; 2 kids; North Pole, Alaska 18313 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Babiee Miller:" child services is involved with him and his kids, they have n idea I am regnant I am 5 weeks along tommorow ... [snip!] ... tommorow I am just afraid if I tell them that I am pregant they will take my little angel away from me and ths is my first baby"


Oh no hun. They won't. Honestly though, if you're that worried, I would tell him that because of the circumstances and because of your fears it's best that you all go separate ways for right now.

Babiee Miller Due April 29; 2 kids; Calgary, Alberta 69 posts
21st Oct '12

he is not jepordizing me and the baby its not his fault the family called him on neglect so no I will not leave him that is out of the questiom That is everyones solution well guess what its not mine I love him and his kids to death and he gets em back in november!

MommyingWithGrace Beverly Hills, California 2427 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Babiee Miller:" he is not jepordizing me and the baby its not his fault the family called him on neglect so no I will ... [snip!] ... That is everyones solution well guess what its not mine I love him and his kids to death and he gets em back in november!"


:shock:

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
21st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Babiee Miller:</b>" he is not jepordizing me and the baby its not his fault the family called him on neglect so no I will ... [snip!] ... That is everyones solution well guess what its not mine I love him and his kids to death and he gets em back in november!"</blockquote>




Wow. Relax drama mama. You asked advice, that's what you got. And it's not like we made up the idea of him jeopardizing things, that's the information you have us. And wether its true or not, if he's being investigated by CPS and your new baby lives with him, it WILL effect that baby as well. Period. You asked us and we told you.
Hopefully it all gets straightened out and he's cleared but if not I would get my pregnant butt out of his to avoid any trouble when my baby arrives. The end.

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3473 posts
21st Oct '12

if the guy lost them in the first place... obviously they found the claims to be somehow true then about neglect. but since it's him and not you under review I'd say they really can't take your kid, but they could make it difficult and order him to stay away from your kid or to live separately.

Babiee Miller Due April 29; 2 kids; Calgary, Alberta 69 posts
21st Oct '12

he gets his boys back in november and I am due in june.

MommyingWithGrace Beverly Hills, California 2427 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Babiee Miller:" he gets his boys back in november and I am due in june."


If he is clear in November, then I am confused how that was relevant to a child born in June? But okay.....

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3473 posts
21st Oct '12

well good luck with that sounds like you're gonna need it. his case won't be closed just bc he gets his kids back.. and when they find out you're preggo and living with him and the kids or w/e... you'll be added to the case file I'd be willing to bet.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
21st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting DifferentDay:</b>" well good luck with that sounds like you're gonna need it. his case won't be closed just bc he gets his ... [snip!] ... they find out you're preggo and living with him and the kids or w/e... you'll be added to the case file I'd be willing to bet."</blockquote>



Absolutely, if they all live together in one house, they will be viewed as 1 household and be investigated as such.

Not here to please you 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 2214 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting DifferentDay:" well good luck with that sounds like you're gonna need it. his case won't be closed just bc he gets his ... [snip!] ... they find out you're preggo and living with him and the kids or w/e... you'll be added to the case file I'd be willing to bet."


^ Yup. I would be moving my butt out not be harsh but CPS doesnt take you kids for no reason. Plenty people get CPS called and dont get there kids taken away , so there more to it. Whether or not you know or if he aint telling you. But just because he getting his kids back doesnt mean they will go away they visit and everything so if your living in house your going be on paper work. Because they want know everybody that living in house hold. If you want risk getting your child taken away by all mean dont listen and do what you want. It's your life and you have live with your descions. But by reading all other post I'm pretty sure most of us agree you should put baby first. Wish you best luck with whatever you decide to do.

Babiee Miller Due April 29; 2 kids; Calgary, Alberta 69 posts
23rd Oct '12

Honestly I love him and his kids and he loves me and my mom says to tell the worker so that way its easier!, he is not into drugs or anything he is an amazing dad to his kid we get nights with them now and I know what cps is all about