Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3314 posts
21st Oct '12

Oh for f**k's sake...
Step 1 - Look up a child support calculator for your state. Run the numbers. And "charge" him that... tell him as long as he keeps up, you'll keep it unofficial, but if he misses a payment, you'll have to go through the courts. That way, you're getting child support (which I'm not sure you deserve, but I want your child to be taken care of by his father, not the gov't) but it doesn't seem like you're selling your child. How sad.
Step 2 - stay out of bed with married men. (and if you "didn't know" he was married, then get to know a man before you get pregnant by him... just in case you were going to throw out the "innocent and clueless" excuse)

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Tani.:" Did you know they were married when you guys were messing around?"


Yeah, she "thought they were an open marriage."
And I guess now it's out he's just a cheating bastard. :lol:




And OP, you're a p***e o* s**t if you have a price on your morality. You should be telling her, not being paid to hide it. How would you feel if you were her, seriously?

Monsieur Tastybutt TTC since Jul 2011; 2 kids; Oklahoma 426 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Amber Waves:" one million dollars to keep me from exploiting his unfaithful ass to his poor wife. really. that million ... [snip!] ... youre all by yourself with a fatherless baby. soooo, if youre NOT joking, ONE MILLION DOLLARS..*in dr. evil's voice of course*"


I totally heard this in my head in Dr. Evil's voice.

user banned California 36390 posts
21st Oct '12

10k

Love of His Life Due March 27; Japan 45 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Wait I thought your boyfriends wife knew that he had a relationship with you. But anyhow... BAHAHAHAHAHAHAH... "


If you could read correctly he doesn't want her to know about the baby

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Love of His Life:" If you could read correctly he doesn't want her to know about the baby"



Still... You have a open relationship with someone there is a chance of pregnnacy... DUH. You are dumbass.

Monsieur Tastybutt TTC since Jul 2011; 2 kids; Oklahoma 426 posts
21st Oct '12

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☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Amber Waves:" one million dollars to keep me from exploiting his unfaithful ass to his poor wife. really. that million ... [snip!] ... youre all by yourself with a fatherless baby. soooo, if youre NOT joking, ONE MILLION DOLLARS..*in dr. evil's voice of course*"


:lol:

Amber Waves 1 child; Charleston, South Carolina 596 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Monsieur Tastybutt:" "


:!: :!: :!: yep :!: :!: :!:

LOL

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
21st Oct '12

f**k.. maybe I'm shitty.. I'd do it..



I agree with the calculator thing... but I'd charge a little more honestly. why not?

MommyingWithGrace Beverly Hills, California 2427 posts
21st Oct '12

I wouldnt care if his wife knew. I would just get child support and go about my business. I wouldnt try breaking them up. As in I wouldnt go telling HER. I would file child support papers and if she finds out that way then so be it.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
21st Oct '12

Aw I recall she knew all about you. Why would you break up with a man who pays your rent and tuition? b***hes be trippin

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
21st Oct '12

I don't think some can give you dignity class and morals. So you're just screwed.

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5836 posts
21st Oct '12

What happened to the 'open relationship'?



He played you like a damn fiddle.
I don't think you should hide it, his wife has a right to know.
I'd tell her myself.
Sorry, I'm just honest like that.

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
21st Oct '12

#1 from mickey d's and a couple of apple pies.