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nervous wreck hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
status 21st Oct '12

BD has our 4 month old DD overnight for the first time since the breakup. we co-sleep so I know what every move of hers is. He doesn't co-sleep. He also never woke up to her when he was living here. Needless to say I'm a nervous nelly.



I haven't been sleeping good since the breakup, tonight I probably won't at all



I miss my snuggle bug



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Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14276 posts
21st Oct '12

Aw I'm sorry i don't know if i could let a baby 4 months go overnight :( tough mama you are



it'll be over soon!

Loretta West TTC#2 TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 4670 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting hi puddin:" BD has our 4 month old DD overnight for the first time since the breakup. we co-sleep so I know what ... [snip!] ... I'm a nervous nelly. I haven't been sleeping good since the breakup, tonight I probably won't at all I miss my snuggle bug "


That picture is adorable!! I hope mines that cute!



I wouldn't be able to handle letting my LO out of my sight if SO and I separated.. I'm too paranoid. I hope everything goes well and you feel okay about it soon!

Wolfy 18 kids; Oklahoma 2920 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Jenna&Charlotte:" Aw I'm sorry i don't know if i could let a baby 4 months go overnight :( tough mama you are it'll be over soon!"


:!:
I would be a wreck too! But try and talk to him and make sure he understands what you need for him to do with her.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting Wolfy:" :!: I would be a wreck too! But try and talk to him and make sure he understands what you need for him to do with her."


:!: He is probably just as nervous!

~Brittany Lee~ 2 kids; Bedford, Pennsylvania 4838 posts
21st Oct '12

My husband and I are seperated but he was the same way he never woke up to her that's why I'm glad he don't take them ever he sees them 30mins once a week plus I put it in our custody agreement he can't keep them
Over night he agreed to it so.

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
status 21st Oct '12
Quoting Jenna&Charlotte:" Aw I'm sorry i don't know if i could let a baby 4 months go overnight :( tough mama you are it'll be over soon!"


He needs to spend time with her...all she knows is he's the guy with the crazy hair that makes mommy cry =(

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
21st Oct '12
Quoting hi puddin:" He needs to spend time with her...all she knows is he's the guy with the crazy hair that makes mommy cry =("


She shouldn't know that

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
status 21st Oct '12
Quoting SulleyNZ:" That picture is adorable!! I hope mines that cute! I wouldn't be able to handle letting my LO out ... [snip!] ... my LO out of my sight if SO and I separated.. I'm too paranoid. I hope everything goes well and you feel okay about it soon!"


Thank you...That's her bunny pose:-p

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
status 21st Oct '12
Quoting Not tellin:" She shouldn't know that"


well...I don't say that to her...but seems like that's all she knows...I try not to cry in front of her...breakup is still getting to me...



but he doesn't really spend that much time with her or our son...him more than her

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
status 21st Oct '12
Quoting Wolfy:" :!: I would be a wreck too! But try and talk to him and make sure he understands what you need for him to do with her."


I tried...hopefully he listened

Betty Draper 1 child; Illinois 753 posts
24th Oct '12

Don't be nervous. I co-sleep with my LO and when he is with BD. I sometimes spend the night if not just make sure your baby is in the same room.near BD when shes sleeping. I don't think they would adjust from co-sleeping with momma to a crib with daddy well but IDK. My son co-sleeps with his dad too. And my son also sees me cry all the time even though I try to hide it-- he can hear me.cry in the car after seeing BD.