Just need to vent None ya ;) 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10809 posts22nd Oct '12
I feel like I do nothing but yell from the time I get my boys from daycare until they go to bed and the same on the weekends. I'm working two jobs, in school (online), the ex is taking me to court over the divorce papers, living in a damn 1 bedroom apartment and sleeping on a couch is getting really old really quick! It's only been 5 months and 7 more to go before I can even think about moving. On top of that I was ALMOST getting a savings built up but now I need 4 new tires, oil change, and new tag. I hate to say it but I honestly want to be a "typical" single mom and get every other weekend free of kids. I have zero help basically, and if I do ask for it from my mom I get her "If I have to watch them" attitude so I don't even bother anymore. Sorry for the pitty party ugh it's really not like me but I feel so alone through this and there is no end in sight. I'm seriously supposed to be able to do this forever?!!?!
user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts22nd Oct '12
Been there... just keep focusing on the future and working towards it! That's how I made it through :)
None ya ;) 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10809 posts22nd Oct '12
Quoting Rd.:" Been there... just keep focusing on the future and working towards it! That's how I made it through :)"I'd much rather focus on your avi right now lol. But I am possibly getting a much better job (salary) next month so that's something to look forward to.
Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts22nd Oct '12
Hell, I am a SAHM of 3 with a husband who is out of town more than home and I feel that way. It is easy to get overwhelmed with kids. Just keep your "eye on the prize". It will all come together and the stress will mellow.