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*Vani* Due May 16; 2 kids; Denver, Colorado 29467 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I think they're called "feeders" They got off on woman eating, the bigger the better. "


that is disgusting...*puke*:shock:



im by no means a skinny girl......I have chub thats for sure.....but omg, i could never let myself look like that or be like that...or even feel confident looking like that..........

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I'm all for woman loving themselves, but I don't think people should be encouraged to be fat, I think they should be encouraged to be their best. "


:!:
I'm not trying to say you all should hate yourselves for being overweight.
But, you are not encouraging them to be fit and healthy. You are telling them it's okay to be obese and settle for it.
You have to be able to criticize yourself if you want to make changes.




And "fat chat" is stupid. What about those of us who get shit for being "too skinny?"



And I know you'll argue this saying you're not telling them it's okay to settle, but you are. Which is why you got upset in the first "Fit-and-Healthy" thread, which is actually a thread for ALL women to love and accept themselves WHILE encouraging them to become healthier, not settle.

Fat-and-Happy TTC since Mar 2008; 1 child; Texas 13915 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" I really have no idea where you are seeing a numerous amount of fat hating."


Well, it was almost two years ago.... and you don't see as much of it now.

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
Oct 23rd '12

Honestly, I catch them like once every two weeks. If i found them annoying, i just wouldn't click on it. fat or skinny, the quotes are usually for everyone. I don't see why people have to make such a big deal out of little things. Who cares? Seriously, it's about loving yourself. Not about being unhealthy. And even if a person wants to continue an unhealthy lifestyle, it's theirs to do that with. not mine so it wouldn't bother me any more or less, unless it was someone i was personally close with.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31144 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting she nan igans:" Well, I like the quotes. If people don't, they can ignore them. Things are done daily like this to gain ... [snip!] ... them gain 100lbs, and somehow taints them from it's very presence on the sidebar. Don't like them? Don't read them. *shrugs*"

I agree.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Just Ames:" OP Your profile is disturbing. I think if anything this is a very unhealthy obsession for you :("


:!:
"They're happy because they eat lard" is really concerning to me. That's gross.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting .Colleen.:" Damn right"


f**k. XX chromosomes. Damn no wonder I'm not a doctor lol

Fat-and-Happy TTC since Mar 2008; 1 child; Texas 13915 posts
Oct 23rd '12

I hate when anyone hates on anyone... like body size. People come in a grand and diverse range of shapes and sizes.



And the real women have curves thing pisses me off and I am not blind to the hate that skinny people receive. I've had many conversations about it, even with pro-ana bloggers who agreed to have an open and candid discussion with me.



My favorite quote (and I've posted it) regarding this is:




Excuse me while I throw this down, I

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" That's so disgusting."


Seriously.
How could anyone even think that's like, okay to post.
She's flaunting a VERY unhealthy lifestyle. If she was healthy, I doubt she'd ever post that picture.

OmegaDucks! Japan 615 posts
Oct 23rd '12

This thread is like a Rorschach test. Everyone has their own perception of how her threads hit people. No one is actually wrong because her threads could be perceived any number of ways.

Fat-and-Happy TTC since Mar 2008; 1 child; Texas 13915 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" I was here 2 years ago, I still don't know what you're talking about."


This was one of them... http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about1345241.html



There were more but I don't remember what they were called.

You're not my demographic 1 child; Wisconsin 26883 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Fat-and-Happy:" This was one of them... http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about1345241.html There were more but I don't remember what they were called."


Which obviously looks like it was a troll.

user banned 3 kids; Minnesota 7974 posts
Oct 23rd '12

it is just like anything on here that is "in your face" or redundant.
I wouldn't be a fan of daily breastfeeding posts, either.

Fat-and-Happy TTC since Mar 2008; 1 child; Texas 13915 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" :!: "They're happy because they eat lard" is really concerning to me. That's gross."


LOL



I found those posters humorous. Not an encouragement to go eat spoonfuls of lard. I also like the irony of it. Because people find it so repulsive today, but in actuality lard is less detrimental than transfats and simple sugars... At least that is what my Dr. told me. When I introduced saturated fats (in moderation) to my diet, and drastically reduced my simple sugar and wheat consumption, my cholesterol went down.

Fat-and-Happy TTC since Mar 2008; 1 child; Texas 13915 posts
Oct 23rd '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Right, so what's the deal? Why did she post this? WHY does it matter what people think? They have the choice to comment or move on. Simple."


I posted it so that eventually, people would have a place to feel free to put their negative feedback, instead of in the protected forum. It really bothers some people who read it and can trigger disordered eating. I'm going to post the link in the quote so people can come here and dump their opinion and other people don't have to worry about seeing it. That's why. I understood that when I first posted it, there would be a flood of people commenting. I expect that it will eventually die down and I can use it for its intended purpose. In the meantime, I can talk about the issue.