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Men find pregnancy to be sexy? Snuggzie Due February 14 (girl); Virginia 46 posts
26th Oct '12

In no way shape or form am I complaining about my SO finding my pregnancy to be sexy, when some men can actually be disgusted by the changes of a woman's body during pregnancy. I'm just wondering why some men find pregnancy to be sexy/ a turn on. I'm 5 months and I'm starting to get rounder, only in my tummy, nowhere else, and once I took notice of my weight gain I became a little self concious. I asked my fiance if he was still attracted to me and he said that he likes the way I look and the way my stomach feels, he's still sexually attracted to me if not more that before I was pregnant. Also he loves being reminded that I'm carrying his child. Pretty good answer to put a smile on my face :) but I'm just curious if there are different reasons

Alissa McKeighan 3 kids; Vermont 368 posts
26th Oct '12

Perhaps you could ask your SO what he finds sexy about it? I'm sure it differs from man to man.

J+B=Z&L ♡ 2 kids; Pensacola, Florida 5889 posts
26th Oct '12

My husband loved it because he said he loved seeing me carry our child.



My pervert friend said men like it because "she's already pregnant, can't knock her up again." (He didn't say this while I was pregnant, it was a conversation we had a long time ago)

*frisky2times* Due August 27 (girl); 3 kids; El Paso, TX, United States 2832 posts
26th Oct '12

I wish my DH felt thus way lol he deff is not turned on by it or turned off he just finds it odd. He actually really sucks at being supportive when I'm pregnant lol. He is a great daddy just a shitty companion for a pregnant wife lol. But hey everyone is different your very lucky :)

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
26th Oct '12

Biologically they are programmed to find us attractive when we're pregnant. It's a reminder of their virility and prowess as men. I know some men don find pregnant women attractive and some are actually grossed out by it, that, I don't understand.
My husband can't keep his hands off of me when I'm pregnant. Sadly, this is our last one.

Snuggzie Due February 14 (girl); Virginia 46 posts
26th Oct '12

Thanks all. I was just wondering if this was something that differed from man to man. I've never really heard of any man finding pregnancy to be sexy or a turn on so when he said it it through me for a loop and I was just wondering why some men find it sexy when I don't feel all that sexy sometimes lol.

!!Katie!! 1 child; Tennessee 2794 posts
26th Oct '12

Funny you wrote this. When I was pregnant I noticed a lot of men "checking me out" in public (especially older men). At first I thought they were just staring because I was so big...but you can usually "tell" a way a person is looking at you. Then I thought there were a bunch of really pervy men out there. I never thought about it as a biological instinct thing.

Amanda Bayless 1 child; Meridian, Idaho 179 posts
27th Oct '12

happened to me too and it grossed me out!



Quoting !!Katie!!:" Funny you wrote this. When I was pregnant I noticed a lot of men "checking me out" in public (especially ... [snip!] ... you. Then I thought there were a bunch of really pervy men out there. I never thought about it as a biological instinct thing. "
EnnaBennaBanana Due February 2; 2 kids; Maryland 6195 posts
27th Oct '12
Quoting Snuggzie:" In no way shape or form am I complaining about my SO finding my pregnancy to be sexy, when some men can ... [snip!] ... I'm carrying his child. Pretty good answer to put a smile on my face :) but I'm just curious if there are different reasons"


I'm 5 months preggo with my second and in the same boat. Husband says he's very attracted to me...and he's very "touchy" alot of the time with me..so I do believe him. lol with my last pregnancy he was the same way...I was more insecure that pregnancy with my body then I am now. This pregnancy I am learning to find pregnancy "beautiful" :) It's funny my husband found it beautiful before I did...



Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
27th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" Biologically they are programmed to find us attractive when we're pregnant. It's a reminder of their ... [snip!] ... out by it, that, I don't understand. My husband can't keep his hands off of me when I'm pregnant. Sadly, this is our last one."</blockquote>



:!:



I can't wait for big pregnancy sex. S/O already admitted before we found out I was pregnant that he thinks pregnant women are sexy.

thisunrest India 10364 posts
28th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Snuggzie:</b>" In no way shape or form am I complaining about my SO finding my pregnancy to be sexy, when some men can ... [snip!] ... I'm carrying his child. Pretty good answer to put a smile on my face :) but I'm just curious if there are different reasons"</blockquote>




It's because he gets off on seeing how much his sperm can change your body. It's a power thing.



Plus, your carrying HIS baby, HE knocked you up. I don't know of many men who find all pregnant women sexy, just the ones hey made pregnant.



Or, he might just find you gorgeous and like you a little thicker. Who knows?