I dont co-sleep or agree with it, or attachment parenting all together and never would do it EVER. lol
And I teach my kids how to be responsible by giving them chores and paying them 50.00 a week to do those chores to learn money management and saving money skills etc....
I don't spank and I hate to see parents threaten/bully their kids. I always feel so bad for those children.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Binky ♡:</b>" I think the only thing I promise to stick to as a parent is not to judge my child. I think its so hard ... [snip!] ... their whole lives fighting society to "fit in", I just want them to have at least one person that loves them for who they are."</blockquote>
I agree with this 100%.
Quoting Mayhem ♥:" I think every woman should try to breastfeed. For the benefits it gives both mom and baby. I don't ... [snip!] ... their child. I've seen people ridicule their own children and call them stupid, etc and I think it's fucking horrible."
I'll agree with all that :D
<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gheordynn [CNL]:</b>" I hate when parents judge others for their parenting decisions."</blockquote> Honestly I do too but lets have some fun."</blockquote>
Then insults and punishing little ones that don't know better. I know a couple that consistently call their 11 year old a dumbass and a friend of mine used to get mad and yell at his son not to hit when he was only 8 months old.
Quoting Binky ♡:" I think the only thing I promise to stick to as a parent is not to judge my child. I think its so hard ... [snip!] ... their whole lives fighting society to "fit in", I just want them to have at least one person that loves them for who they are."
I think every woman should try to breastfeed, and if they have the option(financial stability from their partner's job)then they should stay home for at least the first 6 months to a year of their baby's life so that they can bond and enjoy all the first's that happen in that time.
I despise women who have ELECTIVE c-sections before their due date just so they can have their baby/ not "ruin" their vag/ what ever other reason they have to want a major surgery with no medical reason.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" Haha, well I appreciate the size of your balls :D I happen to love abortions. "</blockquote>
Lol I added more. Take a look!
I have no fucking idea why a woman WOULDN'T breastfeed.
I think welfare should not offer free formula to women who just decide "ew no breastfeeding"
I think every mom should breastfeed if they can, and stop giving pacifiers once they reach a certain age, like 1.. before they get addicted! :) Also, I think parents should play with their kids & foster their children's learning habits & abilities. A mom I know doesn't seem to do this at all and as a result her kids are always bored, destroying the house, and really aren't very knowledgeable on many subjects, although they are nearing pre-school age..
I hate when parents judge or talk down to people who choose a different parenting style than them. I dont spank, but as long as someone doesnt abuse their child, I dont care if other people choose to spank. My DS is still intact, but I dont care about people who choose to circumsize, ect. I think everyone has a right to be a parent in their own way. To each their own IMO.
I don't think anybody should spank. To me....it's just stupid to spank. You're just teaching your child that hitting someone is okay. Oh they did something they shouldn't? Hit them and tell them not to do it again.
I know people do it. I know some of my friends do it. And I hate it.
And not using the correct names for the body parts. INFURIATES me. I will say vagina and penis and all that other good stuff. Don't tell me that using those is "vulgar" or shouldn't be used by little kids. Calling them "privates" "peepees" "cookies" or whatever you've come up with is incredibly stupid. :x:x
I think women should always ATTEMPT breastfeeding. (If they can't, fine, but if they CAN, why not?) I also hate parents who are constantly beating the crap out of their kids or screaming/cussing at them. I also hate parents who will smoke around their kids. Like, for fuck's sake, WHY. WHY can't you go into the other room?
Oh and parents who'll take kids to parties where the parents get wasted. :roll:
I can't stand it when people let their kids run the show. Parents have to have a backbone, you have to teach kids how to behave and treat others properly. I'm not saying beat, or even spank, your kids, but discipline is NOT going to kill them or their self esteem. Parents should raise children to be productive members of the human race, not whiny little brats that always get their way and think authority is a joke.
Quoting ag iompar clainne (15w):" I really don't understand how anyone could want to go back to work. Not saying they shouldn't or they're ... [snip!] ... or they're bad moms, I just can't fathom not wanting to spend just about every second of the first three years together."
I would fucking hang myself if I had to be a SAHM.