What do you think? BD interaction.. malibu. 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 6298 posts
30th Oct '12

BD and I started our "civil journey" together about 2 months ago. Before that, things were hell, but the past 2 months have been going very smoothly.. Lines of communication have gotten better, no arguments, and he's even been paying child support.

We've been doing family outing stuff.. Pumpkin patch, Childers museum, things of that nature... All in which has gone well thus far.

Well, BD remembered that I was complaining about not having anyone willing to go with me to a haunted house this year & suggested that him and I go tomorrow after we take our daughter trick or treating.

We are both in committed relationships.. But I cant help to feel a little weird about going somewhere alone with him. What do you think, would you go?

(edit: SO is not bothered by the idea)

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
30th Oct '12

I wouldn't..... but just because the idea of being anywhere with BD for more than a few minutes isn't particularly appealing to me.

AngelGabriel'sMama 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 2103 posts
30th Oct '12

I wouldn't because that would go past being civil for your LO's sake. LO doesn't need you both to go places alone together, so I wouldn't.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
30th Oct '12

That's really disrecptful to the people you are both in relationships with. Unless it involves the child, you two don't need to go anywhere together.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
30th Oct '12

i personally wouldnt do it, thats past civil for me! its like a date lol

malibu. 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 6298 posts
30th Oct '12

You ladies are totally right, I just needed a little reassurance :) although I know it would be totally innocent (& honestly I just really want to go to a haunted house lol).. I really have to think about how it would affect my relationship with SO.