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If your SO watches porn Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
30th Oct '12

Does it bother you?



If so, why?



I watch porn all the time. And so does DH. We rarely watch it together. We have totally different styles of what we like.



Not so much debate as it is discuss. I'm curious.

Fairy [God] Mother Due February 23 (girl); 17 kids; Stratham, New Hampshire 7085 posts
30th Oct '12

We both watch it- together and separately & no it doesn't bother me

AngelGabriel'sMama 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 2103 posts
30th Oct '12

He does at times. Sometimes it's with me, sometimes not. I don't care either way, really.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
30th Oct '12

My ex hid it from me and kind of ruind it for me because he ended up being a sick pig. Ugh but it probably wouldn't otherwise

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15440 posts
30th Oct '12

He does watch porn and it doesn't bother me at all. I always get sex when I want it. He comes to me often for sex or oral. I know he loves me, I know he wants me. He usually does it at 2am when he gets up for work and you know what? I'm happy there is porn. I'd be getting seriously pissy if he kept waking me up at 2am every morning for sex.

Charlee ♥ Jensen 3 kids; Iowa 56325 posts
30th Oct '12

He watches it all the time..mostly because I am never in the mood lol But when I watch it he gets all uppity about it :P

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
30th Oct '12

We don't watch it. I think it gives unrealistic views on sexuality. My husband and I committed to just each other and are open to anything sexually together not using porn. I don't think every realishionship needs it and I don't think it's "normal" for everyone.

GrumpsMama 1 child; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 16074 posts
30th Oct '12

It doesn't bother me, but on the weekneds I make him watch the porn I want to watch. :twisted:

Layla's Momma ♥ 17 kids; California 4457 posts
30th Oct '12

We both do at different times also sometimes together. It doesn't bother me I'm not insecure.

Naturally Alternative 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Lafayette, Louisiana 6029 posts
30th Oct '12
Quoting Fairy [God] Mother
Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2401 posts
30th Oct '12
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" We don't watch it. I think it gives unrealistic views on sexuality. My husband and I committed to just ... [snip!] ... sexually together not using porn. I don't think every realishionship needs it and I don't think it's "normal" for everyone."


Same! We don't really need it. Plus he thinks my mouth > his hand.

Tippie 3 kids; Salem, Oregon 12579 posts
30th Oct '12

We will watch it together occasionally, but never separately

Roe23 2 kids; Ottawa, Ontario 4199 posts
30th Oct '12

It doesn't bother me, most of the time. If I'm feeling insecure or upset about myself, occasionally I'll feel annoyed (maybe twice a year).



We've tried watching it together, but I'm not really into it. I don't watch it on my own either.

Karra Byrd Due December 23 (girl); Blanchard, Oklahoma 100 posts
30th Oct '12

we watch together and rarely we watch separately i more than him so no it doesn't bother either one of us

One*day*at*a*time 3 kids; Clackamas, Oregon 256 posts
30th Oct '12

I am ok with hubby watching it just to look by himself. I am not ok with him masturbating while watching at. Although part of why i may feel this way is because he has hidden it from me and lied about it for a very long time. At times he has made me feel very unwanted and that he would rather do that than be with me. We watch it together sometimes and we both enjoy it. As long as he makes me a part of it and included I have no problem with it as long as its an occasional thing. When we got married I agreed to give him 100% of me in all ways. I expect the same from him. This a ongoing issue that we are currently working on.