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advice? ahhclueless Due June 9; Michigan 36 posts
30th Oct '12

I'm 15 & I think I'm pregnant. I'm looking for another teen 15 or near it to talk to & go through this with. I'm in the beginning omy pregnancy. I would also like an experienced mother to give me some advice too.. Please message or comment, anythings appreciated!(:

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
30th Oct '12

think you're pregnant?



step 1, take a test.

Robbie's Incubator 17 kids; Pearl City, Hawaii 7031 posts
30th Oct '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" think you're pregnant? step 1, take a test."


:!:
This.

Trace1886 66 kids; Dayton, Ohio 552 posts
30th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" think you're pregnant? step 1, take a test."</blockquote>




This......:)

Robbie's Incubator 17 kids; Pearl City, Hawaii 7031 posts
30th Oct '12

And if it turns out you are not pregnant, I suggest looking into birth control if you choose to be sexually active. :)

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
30th Oct '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" think you're pregnant? step 1, take a test."


:!: Right?

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
30th Oct '12

Take a test. Then, if you ARE in fact pregnant, decide what you want to do. Abortion. Adoption. Parent. Those are your options. Please don't martyr yourself by refusing to consider adoption and abortion.



As a 15-year-old child does not have the resources to raise a child unless they have a lot of support from A LOT of people. Children need more than love. And you are so young. Your life is just beginning. You havent even finished your education. Please weigh your options before making a decision.
If I were in your shoes I would be leaning toward abortion or adoption.
I hate situations like this.

ahhclueless Due June 9; Michigan 36 posts
30th Oct '12

Well here's the story, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and six months. I'm on birth control and I have been for about two months. But I'm really bad at remembering to take it. I missed it about 5 times, but I took it the next day.. He came inside of me on October 17 for the first time because i'm on birth control. It's only been two weeks, so its too soon for a test to come out positive. I've had bloody discharge but only for a day. I've been eatting and sleeping like crazy. Since I missed my birth control the nighy before he came inside me, I figured I was fucked. Please no rude comments.

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
30th Oct '12
Quoting ahhclueless:" Well here's the story, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and six months. I'm on birth control and ... [snip!] ... crazy. Since I missed my birth control the nighy before he came inside me, I figured I was fucked. Please no rude comments."


If it's been two weeks, it's definitely not too early to test. Just test. Especially if you think you're having symptoms.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
30th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie's Incubator:</b>" And if it turns out you are not pregnant, I suggest looking into birth control if you choose to be sexually active. :)"</blockquote>



Abso-f**king-lutely! If you are not pregnant now, Get on birth control!

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
30th Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ahhclueless:</b>" Well here's the story, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and six months. I'm on birth control and ... [snip!] ... crazy. Since I missed my birth control the nighy before he came inside me, I figured I was fucked. Please no rude comments."</blockquote>



When is your period due? Don't freak out until you know for sure.

ahhclueless Due June 9; Michigan 36 posts
30th Oct '12

Usually in the beginning of the month.

Brantley+Savannah 2 kids; Mills River, NC, United States 3119 posts
30th Oct '12
Quoting ahhclueless:" Well here's the story, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and six months. I'm on birth control and ... [snip!] ... crazy. Since I missed my birth control the nighy before he came inside me, I figured I was fucked. Please no rude comments."


from personal experience, i have missed my pill before and had unprotected sex and not gotten pregnant. But its too soon to tell, like you said, anything could happen, if you arent pregnant then i would suggest being more responsible about taking your pill, set a reminder on your phone.



If you are pregnant, you do have options, but regardless of what you plan to do, FINISH HIGH SCHOOL! I know a girl who just graduated last year and she has a 4 year old little girl, who she is an amazing mom to, she had gotten pregnant when she was in 8th grade and had her daughter her freshman year.



if you need someone to talk to feel free to PT or/and PM me.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
30th Oct '12

if you miss a pill, a lot of times you will get some blood. you didn't miss your period yet, which is good. you can test now, but i'd wait until you're due for your period and then test. i would just trust the results more.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
30th Oct '12

& what about trying NuvaRing? i loooved it. i was on it about 2 years. you only have to remember to take it out, then put a new one in once a month. so it will be a lot easier than the pill.