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Cast Your Vote:

    • selfish -- Votes: 1
    • kick him out -- Votes: 0
    • just leave it be -- Votes: 4
    • cancel wedding in December -- Votes: 5
    • tell him to back his idea's up or im leaving with the kids. -- Votes: 6
Dam right selfish!!!!!!! Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
31st Oct '12

what should I do?

Pistol Annie☆ 2 kids; Houston, TX, United States 12634 posts
31st Oct '12

I would look into counseling. I think this is something that could be addressed... I wouldn't throw the relationship out the window over it. But when you're married it should definitely all be merged.

Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
31st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting T-Swizzle+2:</b>" I would look into counseling. I think this is something that could be addressed... I wouldn't throw the ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't throw the relationship out the window over it. But when you're married it should definitely all be merged. "</blockquote>




thanks :)

*Turtles* Due July 27 (girl); 1 child; Someplace, UT, United States 6090 posts
31st Oct '12
Quoting T-Swizzle+2:" I would look into counseling. I think this is something that could be addressed... I wouldn't throw the ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't throw the relationship out the window over it. But when you're married it should definitely all be merged. "


:!:

i ♥ nora 1 child; New Jersey 1622 posts
31st Oct '12

If you are going to marry him in a month, dont you think you should be comfortable enough to discuss this with him? Money is the #1 cause for divorce. You should talk to him about it. Once you're married, everything should become "ours" and "we", not continue to be "mine" or "his".

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3473 posts
31st Oct '12
Quoting T-Swizzle+2:" I would look into counseling. I think this is something that could be addressed... I wouldn't throw the ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't throw the relationship out the window over it. But when you're married it should definitely all be merged. "

agreed.

Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
31st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting i ♥ nora:</b>" If you are going to marry him in a month, dont you think you should be comfortable enough to discuss ... [snip!] ... should talk to him about it. Once you're married, everything should become "ours" and "we", not continue to be "mine" or "his"."</blockquote>




yes true I've tried talking him doesn't work and Yh maybe the wedding is off.

Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
31st Oct '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tyannemom2kids:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting i ♥ nora:</b>" If you are going to marry him in a month, ... [snip!] ... to be "mine" or "his"."</blockquote> yes true I've tried talking him doesn't work and Yh maybe the wedding is off."</blockquote>




to him*

Remembered My Old Login TTC since Oct 2012; 18 kids; Wisconsin 58 posts
31st Oct '12
Quoting i ♥ nora:" If you are going to marry him in a month, dont you think you should be comfortable enough to discuss ... [snip!] ... should talk to him about it. Once you're married, everything should become "ours" and "we", not continue to be "mine" or "his"."


:!::!::!:

I had a BabyBumpBelly 17 kids; American Fork, Utah 34384 posts
1st Nov '12

I am late to the party, but once you marry someone there should be no "yours and mine" bills. You marry them and their debt. Good luck!

Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting We made a BabyBumpBelly:</b>" I am late to the party, but once you marry someone there should be no "yours and mine" bills. You marry them and their debt. Good luck!"</blockquote>



thanks :)