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Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I❤V&B:</b>" Hell no. Being pregnant sucks and caring ... [snip!] ... baby and it's great blah blah blah, well good for you. Grab a sticker. "</blockquote> "Grab a sticker" Hell yeah."


Cars, Toy Story, or Spongebob?

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting I❤V&B:</b>" Cars, Toy Story, or Spongebob? "</blockquote>




Ummmmm..... Spongebob.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 17892 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting I❤V&B:" Hell no. Being pregnant sucks and caring for a newborn sucks 80% of the time. You're a human being with ... [snip!] ... All those holier than thou people saying they kept the baby and it's great blah blah blah, well good for you. Grab a sticker. "


Bwahahahahaha love it :lol:

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I❤V&B:</b>" Cars, Toy Story, or Spongebob? "</blockquote> Ummmmm..... Spongebob."


Good deal. *Passes sticker.* Hand or shirt only, please, not on the furniture. :)

Mom of Tristan/Rayah/Keat 3 kids; Alberta 2068 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:</b>" That's because she made it work. My last pregnancy I was put on strict bedrest at 21 weeks until I ... [snip!] ... I don't want to take the chance that the baby would be a "god send". I would rather work on me and the family I already have. "</blockquote>




Well sorry that you went through all that.



Everyone deals with things differently but she never had those complications and neither do I. So not sure what I would do given different circumstances. But I still don't think abortion would be a consideration.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
1st Nov '12

A lot of my Christian friends think I'm selfish because I would absolutely abort in a case of downs, or spina bifida, or ectopic ... or pretty much any medical condition that would mean my child would have to go through pain and suffering on a daily basis.
I don't care ... be proud of you 'selfishness'.

Mrs cree Due November 23; 33 kids; Ontario 1907 posts
1st Nov '12

This is why there are women's rights you should be able to choose what you want to do with your body. No one can say how they would feel unless they are in your shoes

Milk Monster 2 kids; Arizona 9089 posts
1st Nov '12

If I were to get pregnant right now or be pregnant right now I would abort. I just simply don't want another baby.

Kaleighshaleigh 3 kids; USA 5702 posts
1st Nov '12

I think the term selfish means placing concern for yourself and your own interests above the well being or interest of others, so I say yes that would have been a selfish decision, because the well being and interest of others wouldn't have been a concern for you if you made that decision for those reasons.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
1st Nov '12

Every reason for having, aborting, or adopting out a baby is selfish. I don't try to rank them.

Life is a Highway ♫ 18 kids; Australia 9381 posts
1st Nov '12

It shouldn't effect anyone but you and your SO. Because it's non of their damn bushiness.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyingWithGrace:</b>" I think so. My 3rd child was 6 months old when I got pregnant with my 4th. My back has been bad since ... [snip!] ... it grew on me. I kept her and she sure is precious. Pregnancy is only temporary. Everything else in life will sort itself out."</blockquote>



Man, wish life had "sorted itself out" when I was pregnant with a 4 year old and homeless.



Also, pregnancy may be temporary, but being a parent sure as f**k isn't.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyingWithGrace:</b>" I understand that, but that is not the kind of stumbling I am referring to. Example: Catelynn and ... [snip!] ... and hit rock bottom. She got pregnant and aborted the child. I get that. You guys are misunderstanding what I am saying."</blockquote>



Or, you know...homeless for 8 months.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Layla-and-Faith:</b>" I have to agre with you. It is sad the amout of people who think that money is so important. Money ... [snip!] ... with that. People sweat the small stuff and A LOT of people really don't understand what is most important until it's too late."</blockquote>




I wonder if you've ever actually been broke.



Like, literally having one small meal every three days or so because your child needs to eat more than you do and you're already two months behind on rent and three months on electricity BROKE.



money is pretty f**king important.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. ... [snip!] ... abortion is tagged as being so selfish, but when someone who can't conceive insists on a perfect newborn- that isn't selfish."</blockquote>



Adopting is still selfish. Because YOU want to do it because it'd make YOUR life happy and better.