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miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
14th Apr '13
Quoting snglemama:" idk, hard to say. Yes it was rude, but I wouldn't take it as he doesn't really love you unless you guys were back together. dating I hard"

Dating sucks!..
Had my guy friend over last night we had drinks last night at my place, I had talked him up and got him going for a week in advance... i have my period so didnt think we would be having sex.. so didn't even tell him well one thing led to another and we were kissing and stuff and he tried to put his hands down my pants had to tell him to stop and exsplain why.. he kinda laughed it off but after he said "you made it sound like we were ganna do all this stuff, you could of told me we werent going to do anything and told me you can still come if you want" I was disspointed as well, so i said back "sorry i didn't tell you but didn't think I need to tell you everthing were not dating"., things kinda got little cranky for bit and i snapped said "you can go home if you want than go didn't think we always gatta have sex!". He stayed and we talked and talked than drunk me told him i liked him and than awhile later i went pee came down and he was gone,... he just left.. apprently a friend needed him.. was pissedhe didnt say bye though.. we fine now but was like wow wtf dude

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11958 posts
14th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Dating sucks!.. Had my guy friend over last night we had drinks last night at my place, I had talked ... [snip!] ... he just left.. apprently a friend needed him.. was pissedhe didnt say bye though.. we fine now but was like wow wtf dude"


wtf is right.. all over the place though. If you guys are friends, and not together.. I'd have warned him you were on your period. Hell, honestly, I even warn my boyfriend and I know hands down he still wants to hang out. no one wants to expect it and get let down. Especially if you'd talked sexy for a week.



but... shitty for him to just leave too.

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
14th Apr '13
Quoting snglemama:" wtf is right.. all over the place though. If you guys are friends, and not together.. I'd have warned ... [snip!] ... one wants to expect it and get let down. Especially if you'd talked sexy for a week. but... shitty for him to just leave too."

Yah i said i know you didnt leave because of that but it seems like you did..

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11958 posts
14th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Yah i said i know you didnt leave because of that but it seems like you did.. "


idk.. I'm a girl... but if my guy talked sexy like we were going to have sex all week.. and waited until I reached for his pants to tell me it woudlnmt' happen, I'd have gotten pissed.

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting snglemama:" idk.. I'm a girl... but if my guy talked sexy like we were going to have sex all week.. and waited until I reached for his pants to tell me it woudlnmt' happen, I'd have gotten pissed."

Yeah point taken.. kinda was a tease thing to do lol.. pretty sure i can just make it up to him sometime this week :)

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
15th Apr '13

heyyy girls~! i know ive been gone for a while.. but having a boyfriend and workin full time is ROUGH!



how do you juggle work kids and dating? i get so frustrated and overwhelmed i feel like i never have time for myself!

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11958 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" heyyy girls~! i know ive been gone for a while.. but having a boyfriend and workin full time is ROUGH! ... [snip!] ... ROUGH! how do you juggle work kids and dating? i get so frustrated and overwhelmed i feel like i never have time for myself!"


not easy. but... the way I see it, if I'm missing me time and in a new relationship.. it's probably not the right relationship.



plus... read why men fall in love with b***hes. there's nothing wrong with YOU time.. and a man isn't going to walk away because you have a life. Not if hes worth having anyway.



I work overnights, and only have my kids half time so I have a different situation. If anything... there were times I dated because I had too much time.. I needed something to keep me busy instead of being home and depressed that I didn't have my kids

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting snglemama:" not easy. but... the way I see it, if I'm missing me time and in a new relationship.. it's probably ... [snip!] ... because I had too much time.. I needed something to keep me busy instead of being home and depressed that I didn't have my kids"


i read that book!!!! i love it! i have been trying to implement some of those things into my life.... especially with the me time. its not that i dont love spending time with him, but since i just moved here i dont have any friends to hang out with besides him... his house is my kidfree time, but i wish i had some friends so i can have some girl time lol. i guess thats what my mommy and sister are for!

.legendTAYry. 1 child; Hawaii 41570 posts
19th Apr '13

Hola. Hope everyone is well.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting .legendTAYry.:" Hola. Hope everyone is well."


im doing good how are u?

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
19th Apr '13

I'm okay just annoyed my period will not go away!... Should of ended we'd and it spots than gets heavy than goes away comes back in the am heavy

Starliner Due January 8; Watkins, Minnesota 9 posts
21st Apr '13

Still living on BD couch while I look for a place, wondering how long is to long or more like to soon to start dating once I get my new place? I am actively looking but we live in dinky town and well I don't have much money how do you ladies do it alone afford it all? anyways real question I already like a guy but won't date till on my own but when does it become ok to date?

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting Starliner:" Still living on BD couch while I look for a place, wondering how long is to long or more like to soon ... [snip!] ... afford it all? anyways real question I already like a guy but won't date till on my own but when does it become ok to date?"


I would like suggest not dating while living with your BD, might cause stress and un needed drama and awkwardness

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I would like suggest not dating while living with your BD, might cause stress and un needed drama and awkwardness "

I agree that would be hard to do

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
2nd May '13

How is everyone where is everyone?? lol