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:): 18 kids; California 80 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" So something has happened in my life.. my kids asked me flat out if we could try again and see if it ... [snip!] ... awful because she has off and on with her BD as well and she took all the advice i gave her so i feel obligated to do the same"


I get what your saying sort of like you don't want to be a hypocrite.... but that's not a true friend ... sounds childish .... Its your life do what you think is right for you if you think its worth another shot to a happy family then shoot.... Id chose happy family over jealous friend any day

Brookelynn's Mommy 1 child; California 1388 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Veronica Gonzales 2B.:" Im a single mom of two my oldest is going to be 3 and my baby about to be 1.... same dad.... any ways ... [snip!] ... and I'm not looking to be in a relationship so why go on a date ... what do you think ?? am I missing out on anything?"


I am so with you right there! I have 100% too and whenever I go out, I get drunk and go dancing!

Brookelynn's Mommy 1 child; California 1388 posts
4th Jun '13

So, just got off the phone with my daughters' dad. He hasnt seen her in over 2 years...and he will be here Wednesday. I don't even know what to think.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brookelynn's Mommy:</b>" So, just got off the phone with my daughters' dad. He hasnt seen her in over 2 years...and he will be here Wednesday. I don't even know what to think."</blockquote>




Don't stress about it really..if u can help it

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Veronica Gonzales 2B.:" Im a single mom of two my oldest is going to be 3 and my baby about to be 1.... same dad.... any ways ... [snip!] ... and I'm not looking to be in a relationship so why go on a date ... what do you think ?? am I missing out on anything?"

I feel like this most of the time.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Veronica Gonzales 2B.:" Im a single mom of two my oldest is going to be 3 and my baby about to be 1.... same dad.... any ways ... [snip!] ... and I'm not looking to be in a relationship so why go on a date ... what do you think ?? am I missing out on anything?"



of course not! if you don't want to date... definitely don't!



snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Brookelynn's Mommy:" So, just got off the phone with my daughters' dad. He hasnt seen her in over 2 years...and he will be here Wednesday. I don't even know what to think."



as much as we like to think no contact is better than sporadic.... honestly it's better for the kids to see they at least try once ina while.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
4th Jun '13

My kid doesn't know his father, n has stayed calling my so Dad. I'm scared lol.... And strangely excited. I posted a thread and everyone basically told NE I'm irresponsible and need to tell my LO that my boyfriend is not his daddy..... I tried but my son told me "but he acts like "

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" My kid doesn't know his father, n has stayed calling my so Dad. I'm scared lol.... And strangely excited. ... [snip!] ... I'm irresponsible and need to tell my LO that my boyfriend is not his daddy..... I tried but my son told me "but he acts like ""


so... that's how you'll respond everytime he refuses something you tell him? or you're using it as an excuse?



keep telling him. He's not his father

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting snglemama:" so... that's how you'll respond everytime he refuses something you tell him? or you're using it as an excuse? keep telling him. He's not his father"


i dont know if its an excuse or not is the thing. part of me really doesnt care, because im still in my happy place and hoping we will last. but its not fair to put him thru this if we dont

:): 18 kids; California 80 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" i dont know if its an excuse or not is the thing. part of me really doesnt care, because im still in my happy place and hoping we will last. but its not fair to put him thru this if we dont"


My mom was a single mother and I met quite a few of her boy friends I would get attached and then they would break up and i would never see them again .... it messed with me emotionally ... but my mom wouldn't talk to me about why there not coming around any more ... I think as long as you communicate with your child in a proper manner you'll be fine but until you know for sure that its going to last I would try to avoid family like outings ya know

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting Captain Save- A-Hoe:" I get what your saying sort of like you don't want to be a hypocrite.... but that's not a true friend ... [snip!] ... for you if you think its worth another shot to a happy family then shoot.... Id chose happy family over jealous friend any day"

like he and i have amazing sex and we both have our fault but im comfortable and content when hes around love having him around .. she gets mad bc i dont care if hes here every night and she says its not normal

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Captain Save- A-Hoe:" Im a single mom of two my oldest is going to be 3 and my baby about to be 1.... same dad.... any ways ... [snip!] ... and I'm not looking to be in a relationship so why go on a date ... what do you think ?? am I missing out on anything?"


I'm in the same boat as you... the ONLY time I romance the idea of being in a realtionship is when I think of growing my family, having someone to have fun with (like making dinner and having wine) or when I want someone to help me with the burdens in my life. But then I remind myself, I never had that with any relationship regardless lol

:): 18 kids; California 80 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Is that still my name?:" I'm in the same boat as you... the ONLY time I romance the idea of being in a realtionship is when ... [snip!] ... someone to help me with the burdens in my life. But then I remind myself, I never had that with any relationship regardless lol"


I know right... I'd rather be alone then in bad company..

:): 18 kids; California 80 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" like he and i have amazing sex and we both have our fault but im comfortable and content when hes around ... [snip!] ... when hes around love having him around .. she gets mad bc i dont care if hes here every night and she says its not normal"


But what is it to her ... She not f**king him you are ... sorry to be so blunt but that what I tell my friends when they have a hater friend ... I ssay do what ever makes you happy