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miss.Amandalyn ; 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1279 posts
9th Jun '13
Quoting Captain Save- A-Hoe:" But what is it to her ... She not fucking him you are ... sorry to be so blunt but that what I tell my friends when they have a hater friend ... I ssay do what ever makes you happy"

her issue with him he he has been my friend and hers and will twist things or lie i guess and he used to want to date her in like feb he was trying hard to date her, she didnt like him back and said no to dating and cut his friendship off because he couldnt just be friends and right after that he and i started to hang out again.. but prior to that he and i hung out until xmas than when she wanted to be his friend he dropped me as a friend to have all his time for her..
he says to me it was a big mistake and we've been hanging out since march and now we have decided (as of last night) to be together..

Natalee's Mommy 1 child; Colorado 386 posts
10th Jun '13

I decided to join in here :) My name is Amanda and I have 1 baby girl that will be 2 in September. I just broke up with BD two months ago...long story I hadn't been happy in a long time, and DD is growing so fast that I knew it was "now or never" type thing and I wanted to do the best thing for her. I was going to be completely ok with being single for the rest of my life if that was how it would be but.....I NEVER expected that I would have already started talking to someone else....he is AMAZING, and I seriously couldn't ask for a more perfect person! I'm really not a crazy like this sounds but life really couldn't get any better right now!! ;)



Edit: How soon did you mamas start dating is this weird?? lol

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
11th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" her issue with him he he has been my friend and hers and will twist things or lie i guess and he used ... [snip!] ... to me it was a big mistake and we've been hanging out since march and now we have decided (as of last night) to be together.."



well im glad u are happy with ur choice. no one else knows what he is like to you but you and if u are happy with your choice, FUCK EVERYONE ELSE~!!!!!!!!!!! just dont let him treat u like crap honey

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
11th Jun '13
Quoting Natalee's Mommy:" I decided to join in here :) My name is Amanda and I have 1 baby girl that will be 2 in September. I ... [snip!] ... sounds but life really couldn't get any better right now!! ;) Edit: How soon did you mamas start dating is this weird?? lol"



i started dating while i was pregnant lol. i know i sound like a sleeze but i met this guy before i knew i was pregnant and he was great. after he and i broke up (after 3 years) i took maybe 5 or 6 months of from seriously dating... and it was liberating. its all about when u are ready not when anyone else thinks you are!

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
11th Jun '13
Quoting Natalee's Mommy:" I decided to join in here :) My name is Amanda and I have 1 baby girl that will be 2 in September. I ... [snip!] ... sounds but life really couldn't get any better right now!! ;) Edit: How soon did you mamas start dating is this weird?? lol"


everyone is different.... I don't think there is a too soon unless you think you aren't ready.



and welcome!



update.... I'm living with my boyfriend now. There have been some bumps... but it's good overall. He's my best friend.. and lover.

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
11th Jun '13
Quoting snglemama:" everyone is different.... I don't think there is a too soon unless you think you aren't ready. ... [snip!] ... I'm living with my boyfriend now. There have been some bumps... but it's good overall. He's my best friend.. and lover."


aw congrats. im happy if u are happy and it seems like u are thrilled!

Jessica Marie* 1 child; Illinois 201 posts
11th Jun '13

Hello ladies! I am somewhat new to being single. Finally moved out of the house my ex and I were living in. We haven't really "been together" since January when he cheated on me, but I stayed to try and fix things or see if he would change...never did. Plus, i wasnt in love with him....i just wanted my sons parents to be together but it wasnt working. So I finally moved out.



Any who, I have been talking to my ex a lot for the past couple of months and we are in the process of possibly getting back together. There is a LONG story as to why we broke up. But it was never anything with our relationship. So were going to see where life takes us. Not rush into things.



I'm a little concerned with my son though and the fact that my interest just moved to england for 3 years....he is in the military. And if things do get serious between us again.



Hmm, idk. Looking for a little insight I guess

Jessica Marie* 1 child; Illinois 201 posts
11th Jun '13

Forgot to specify. When I say talking to my ex...I mean a guy I was in a serious relationship with 3 years ago.lol

miss.Amandalyn ; 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1279 posts
12th Jun '13

So you guys MUST get sick of my yo you relationship with my kids father but.
Ive come to realize im confused and sincerly do not know what i want!, one day i want to be with him the next i don't.. i dont get butterflys when i think about him,
or that lovey dovey feeling and i cave to him to much..
told him this last night and he basically shut it all out than tried to push himself on me, im going through councling to sort my feelings, and if he respected me he would respect my need to sort this out..

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
12th Jun '13

ugh... debating with a couple idiots on FB about bringing a child with when you meet someone you found ONLINE. and they're actually arguing that I'm the cunt because I said it's shitty parenting.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
12th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" ugh... debating with a couple idiots on FB about bringing a child with when you meet someone you found ONLINE. and they're actually arguing that I'm the cunt because I said it's shitty parenting."</blockquote>



OMG people are nuts. I haven't done a lot of dating since my divorce, but I still have NEVER introduced my daughter to any of the men.
Is this your Facebook friends or a page you are a part of?

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting Busy mommy*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" ugh... debating with a couple idiots on FB about ... [snip!] ... but I still have NEVER introduced my daughter to any of the men. Is this your Facebook friends or a page you are a part of?"


just a page that I post on sometimes

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
12th Jun '13

me and SO are working towards getting our own place... im about to get on with this new job and its a GREAT paying job, almost double what i get now actually. and as of the last time i had a "period" (which was really an early MC) he just decided to stop pulling out. and.... i spoke to him about it multiple times but i just dont care. i want a baby =( i know i shouldnt but every bone in my body desperatly wants to be pregnant. ive had so many MCs since my LO was born 5 yrs ago that i would LOVE to know that i am still a woman and i can still have babies. and on top of that... i love this man so much... i feel like even tho im not being smart about it i dont care i just wanna have his child.....




i know. im stupid. please dont judge lol

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" me and SO are working towards getting our own place... im about to get on with this new job and its a ... [snip!] ... even tho im not being smart about it i dont care i just wanna have his child..... i know. im stupid. please dont judge lol"


sweetie... why not wait and see where it goes first? see if you can live together? see how he parents etc...?




then... plan a baby

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting snglemama:" sweetie... why not wait and see where it goes first? see if you can live together? see how he parents etc...? then... plan a baby"



i watch him closely with my son, and we have had talks about parenting ALOT lately. its like.. i knoe that i should be the strong one and say NO because clearly... im the master of my own destiny but...




at this point, im like fuck it.