zero sex drive. XJS♡6.14 1 child; Panama City, Florida 379 posts2nd Nov '12
Soo, I had my son 5 months ago and ever since then I really haven't had a sex drive and it's complicating things with my marriage. We've had sex maybe a handful of times since then. It's not that I don't want it, I'm just exhausted by the end of the day and so is he. But DH has been really getting on my nerves about it lately. We've gotten into multiple fights and it's just irritating because he doesn't understand that it's not HIM, it's just my hormones all out of whack. It's gotten so bad that he thinks I don't find him attractive and that I'm turning into a l*****n :shock: wtf dude. He makes jokes about it all the time, and I just laugh it off but it's getting to the point where I just wanna smack him one! I understand his frustration because I'm frustrated as well. We went from having sex multiple times a day, to maybe once a week. I guess maybe the problem is he's just trying too hard and it's pushing me away? I don't know. I love the man to death but when he's flopping his d**k in my face 24/7, I just can't deal. He has the sex drive of a 16 year old boy... And I feel like an old fart who would rather just sleep.. Meh.. just a vent.
Melissa Mattingly 2 kids; Missouri 38 posts2nd Nov '12
It's completely normal to be exhausted and not want to have sex. To men sex is more important than sleep. To women not so much. Me and my husband went through this after having our 1st baby. It gets better especially when your LO starts sleeping through the night. Try to make time in the middle of the day when your baby's down for a nap. And I definately hear you about it's annoying when they're flopping their junkin your face every chance they get. I'm not sure why they think that this is sexy :)
2nd Nov '12
ha i lv this post am nearly 8 months pregnant and just neva in the mood for sex with the hubby and it doesnt help when hes prestering or trying to put it in my face just makes me wanna kick his head in i love him to bit but i just do not have any intrest in it at the moment and didnt when was pregnant with my other 2 and more times hed am i gay cuse i dint want him wtf yeh hubby i am thats why am have 3 children and married to u lol Men if only they were the ones carrying xx
XJS♡6.14 1 child; Panama City, Florida 379 posts2nd Nov '12
lol, i don't think it's sexy at all! at least when I'm not in the mood for it. LO has been sleeping through the night since he was 3 months, so getting alone time in isn't really the issue, it's just me wanting to jump his bones, or eh, not wanting to jump his bones :?
2nd Nov '12
aww bless nope defo doesnt help but men just seem to need and want it all the time lol x
Mama Stacks 1 child; Sherman, Texas 354 posts4th Nov '12
Mine is driving me nuts too. I don't even THINK about sex! Even when I do decide it's time to give him pity sex, I fall asleep before we get to it! It's been a few weeks :/