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Lovemommylife Due June 2 (girl); 1 child; 3 angel babies; New Mexico 1421 posts
2nd Nov '12
Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:" It's definitely interesting. whenever my sons father passed, the first few months, i used to hope and ... [snip!] ... often at the beginning. it's been almost two years now and i dont have them but maybe once a month or even every few months."

Wow that is awesome. I am so sorry for your loss. That had to of been hard.

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3467 posts
2nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kate Walsh ♥:</b>" Yes, I believe what you Mum said because my Mum says the same thing. You are very lucky he came to visit ... [snip!] ... remember the last time. Makes me sad and I worry i've done something he isn't proud of because he doesn't come as much now :("</blockquote>




It's most likely not that at all but the fact the more they hang around sometimes the harder it is for the living to move on. Or it's bc they're not as needed by you as you think. Like OPs gpa knew she would blame herself for not seeing him. My gma did this too- I thought I'd see her that weekend. The day I kinda blew her off she died. She visited me before the phone rang. Sat at my bedside n said she knew she loved me n hated my bf lol



My FILs 2nd deathversary is coming up in a few days so I feel him around more n my girls tell me they talk to him more lately.



Kinda off topic but My oldest (4) can see him she says. My mom too has premonition dreams good n bad. She has ppl passing thru talking in her ear every night among other malevolent spirits. It's apparently genetic on moms side thru females. I have OBEs, premonitions, n dreams, hear/see things way more frequently when I'm preggo though. Both girls are sensitive as well even my 2yr old. Mom n I have a connection we know when the other is thinking bout us or is gonna call. - you have to be open to receiving visits n stuff or u could miss it. Like I'm more receptive during a pregnancy (my earliest symptom) n when I'm not I turn it off n ignore it.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
2nd Nov '12
Quoting !*34 Weeks*!:" Wow that is awesome. I am so sorry for your loss. That had to of been hard."


It is.
& thank you, I for yours as well.



I definitely believe that once people close to us pass they continue trying to "reach" us in other ways (as your mom said with the windchimes). It's really interesting to me.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
2nd Nov '12
Quoting DifferentDay:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kate Walsh ♥:</b>" Yes, I believe what you Mum said because ... [snip!] ... or u could miss it. Like I'm more receptive during a pregnancy (my earliest symptom) n when I'm not I turn it off n ignore it."


My son is like this. He sees and talks to spirits and he is always telling me things are going to happen that almost always end up happening. He saved me from a bad wreck one day. & he told my brothers girlfriend, my sister, and my cousin ALL what they were having when they were pregnant well before they found out. He also told another girl we know "don't worry, she's alive. your babys alive" when she was pregnant, she'd been freaking out about miscarriages because she'd had FOUR in the two years since she had her son before becoming pregnant this time and now she's over half way done with her pregnancy. It's amazing to me.

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3467 posts
2nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:</b>" It is. & thank you, I for yours as well. I definitely believe that once people close to us pass ... [snip!] ... us pass they continue trying to "reach" us in other ways (as your mom said with the windchimes). It's really interesting to me."</blockquote>




Ur loss makes me sad. You sound like u were on good terms too maybe even in love :( sorry for ur loss n ur son's.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
2nd Nov '12
Quoting DifferentDay:" <blockquote><b>Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:</b>" It is. & thank you, I for yours ... [snip!] ... Ur loss makes me sad. You sound like u were on good terms too maybe even in love :( sorry for ur loss n ur son's."


He was my fiance', but at the time we weren't on good terms at all. We'd been broken up for about a month. It's definitely a hard thing to endure but I know without a doubt it's made me a better person. Thank you.

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3467 posts
2nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:</b>" My son is like this. He sees and talks to spirits and he is always telling me things are going to happen ... [snip!] ... she had her son before becoming pregnant this time and now she's over half way done with her pregnancy. It's amazing to me."</blockquote>




Since its not just seeing spirits I'd say he's more psychic then.



Wow I can't imagine losing someone intimate like that. I'm sure it has made u stronger.



My oldest has predicted her sister as well as the twins I m/c with. She tells us this one is her baby brother so we'll see. I had dreams of holding each baby n their gender n w the m/c I had dreams it was twins. This one has been dreams of a boy. I only tune into the psychic stuff when I'm preggo. It gets scary rather quickly. I've got an "old hag" that followed me since my 1st pregnancy. I hate her she's super evil n scary. My daughters were freaking last yr bout a monster w red eyes that watches them. I've felt it but not seen it. Lots of other stuff,etc. I've been writing it all down for me n the girls. Something to show them later on. Let them know mama n Mimi went through same stuff.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
2nd Nov '12
Quoting DifferentDay:" <blockquote><b>Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:</b>" My son is like this. He sees and ... [snip!] ... writing it all down for me n the girls. Something to show them later on. Let them know mama n Mimi went through same stuff."


that's crazy! I had a "crazy lady" that followed me too! she was solid black, no face, and red eyes. i saw her like once. My sister saw her, my brother saw her... and she used to growl at me. She would follow me everywhere. She hasn't been around in a LONG time though, probably about a year now.

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3467 posts
2nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:</b>" that's crazy! I had a "crazy lady" that followed me too! she was solid black, no face, and red eyes. ... [snip!] ... used to growl at me. She would follow me everywhere. She hasn't been around in a LONG time though, probably about a year now."</blockquote>




Growling is never a good sign....



Mine first appears as I get into a deeper state of relaxation. Not necessarily dreaming or asleep. She tries to come off as a sweet frail little old lady who just fits by my bed n tries to hold my hand. But the minute I let my guard down to take a good look at her, almost like put her into real good focus, she changes into this w itchy old hag looking thing w long claws instead of fingernails n she gets right in my face an inch from my nose n screams but its more of a cackle. It sounds so evil n disturbing. Chills you to the bone. I hate her. I usually open my eyes asap to break the connection n see her in front of my face. Which freaks me out more. I have to sleep w lights on those nights bc she comes back soon as I close my eyes. I had a "dream" recently that I asked for help on (my topics) n didn't get any response, but that little girl was just like the old hag thing. Not one in the same but same kind of "evil". That's the stuff I worry bout for my girls-the bad. My moms house has so much activity I can't go there. There's a mirror she had n I think it was a portal n the negative kind is so strong I'm afraid what will turn up.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
4th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting DifferentDay:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting White Trash Sluttt*:</b>" that's crazy! I had a "crazy lady" ... [snip!] ... go there. There's a mirror she had n I think it was a portal n the negative kind is so strong I'm afraid what will turn up."</blockquote>




It's horrible. I've been choked in my sleep and everything. So freaking creepy.

EnnaBennaBanana 2 kids; Maryland 6168 posts
4th Nov '12
Quoting !*34 Weeks*!:" My grandpa passed away on Halloween evening. I'm still trying to cope with it but with me being in CA ... [snip!] ... Do you think this sounds like that? She said he's been ringing wind chimes in the house when shes crying or talking to him."


My grandma died and I swear she came to me in my dream a few years ago. She told me to tell my mom she missed her in my dream too. I told my mom and she cried. <3 I like to think God allows spirits to leave messages with us sometimes. So yes I would say your mom is right.

Mrs Mia Wallace 33 kids; Georgia 2858 posts
4th Nov '12

I'm so sorry for your loss...but wow! Your mom is right; he's letting you know he's okay.
The first time this happened to me, it scared me to death! I was only a child, maybe 8-10 years old, and ever since I have dreams of my loved ones who've passed and have learned to refine my other abilities as well.
It's good you're open to such an encounter.

*Tyson's Momma :)* Due December 11; Texas 6 posts
5th Nov '12

I definitely believe he was there with you! So sorry for your loss. :c I had a very similar experience just a week ago, my grandma passed away in September. I bet He was indeed visiting you to give you closure :)