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    • Be supportive of him stepping up -- Votes: 116
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user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
4th Nov '12
Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Coupon Lady:</b>" Cause consensual sex is not rape, I agree ... [snip!] ... but it was not any form of being taken advantage of."</blockquote> Lol ok whatever you say, because you were there."



I should have worded it better, not in the beginning it was not, it was consensual right? Then he turned out to be a pervert. But those feelings you had pre-pervert was not being taken advantage of. You consented and had a child with him, then yes he turned out to be a pervert, I am not saying he is not, or that never happened. I am only going on pre-knowing that he was like that. And nothing after, to me that is a whole new topic, then what this topic was about.



The way I look at it is, that if a "grown man" of 21 is dating a 16 yr old, and he intends to take advantage of and harm and abuse that girl, as soon as she is "older" he would split and find a "new" 16 yr old girl.



user banned California 36390 posts
4th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" Everything after that girl told her story I found hard to read ppl where being pretty rude and then ... [snip!] ... why everyone is giving me such a hard time. I feel like ive been pretty kind and understand of all the ladies feelings here. "</blockquote>




Why comtinue to read if you were oh so traumatized?

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5422 posts
4th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" Everything after that girl told her story ... [snip!] ... and understand of all the ladies feelings here. "</blockquote> Why comtinue to read if you were oh so traumatized?"


im not rly sure.. i was hoping it was done.. I was hoping ppl wud show some compassion.. its also like watching a car wreck, its hard to turn away.
and whats up with everyone questioning eachother. i said i felt trigger, and make makes you think you can question that???

user banned California 36390 posts
4th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" im not rly sure.. i was hoping it was done.. I was hoping ppl wud show some compassion.. its also like ... [snip!] ... and whats up with everyone questioning eachother. i said i felt trigger, and make makes you think you can question that???"</blockquote>




Because quite honestly, it's bullshit and you sound childish. You had multiple opportunities to stop reading and you chose not to so suck it up and deal.

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5422 posts
4th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" im not rly sure.. i was hoping it was done.. ... [snip!] ... bullshit and you sound childish. You had multiple opportunities to stop reading and you chose not to so suck it up and deal."


childish because I was trying to support someone and trying to shed some light to the idea that we dont need to judge or invalidate someones past?

The Time Police 2 kids; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33400 posts
4th Nov '12

I would be okay with. Not sure what I COULD do, it's completely legal. And... I was pregnant at 17 by a 20 year old... :lol:

user banned California 36390 posts
4th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" childish because I was trying to support someone and trying to shed some light to the idea that we ... [snip!] ... that havent been threw abuse that it doesnt count...... Im sry we cant agree on this, but im bullshit and im not childish.. "</blockquote>




Childish because you and her started it and now you won't let it die. Just move on.

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5422 posts
4th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" childish because I was trying to support ... [snip!] ... im not childish.. "</blockquote> Childish because you and her started it and now you won't let it die. Just move on."


it was dead! she ended it i said i was sry for making anyone upset no one commented on that part for some time until you came along and had to question someones feelings!!!

C.K.I Due September 10; 2 kids; Texas 13314 posts
4th Nov '12

I know a couple that had a baby when the girl was 16 and the guy was 20. They are a very happy, stable couple and he is a great dad and husband. He REALLY loves her. So yes, I would be supportive.

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
4th Nov '12

Let him step up..I would never press rape charges against him ever! My daughter would be old enough to know better..and if he walked away then see ya..I do not believe in forcing men to be fathers

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26138 posts
4th Nov '12
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" you just sound bitter"


Agreed.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
5th Nov '12
Quoting ceci'smommy:" childish because I was trying to support someone and trying to shed some light to the idea that we dont need to judge or invalidate someones past? "


You could have PMed her. Both you and her are full of shit.

user banned California 36390 posts
5th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" it was dead! she ended it i said i was sry for making anyone upset no one commented on that part for some time until you came along and had to question someones feelings!!! "</blockquote>



You claimed to be triggered by "this post" which was a lie. In actuality, it was the posts of.your new BFF that were triggering.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 4502 posts
status 5th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ceci'smommy:</b>" it was dead! she ended it i said i was sry for making anyone upset no one commented on that part for some time until you came along and had to question someones feelings!!! "</blockquote>




Just after catching up on all this after coming in from work and the majority of what you are saying makes no sense. You originally came in the thread stating that you would take your daughter and forcibly have her fitted with contraception, not any contraception but specifically an IUD which is a completely inappropriate form of contraception for a teenager and is a very intrusive procedure, it would also be illegal to have it done against her will. When this was pointed out you started accusing all the other parents of not being good parents and wanting their daughter going out running wild and getting up to all sorts because they disagreed with your illegal and essentially abusive method of parenting. Then you started going on about everyone else being insensitive because they were triggering, then stated you didn't want to stop reading this allegedly triggering material, I mean it can't have been that triggering if you couldn't drag yourself away from reading it. So you find reading actual victims of rapes statements triggering but yet you're perfectly at ease with talking about putting your own daughter through an intrusive procedure of having a device not medically fit for her forcibly inserted into her body against her will illegally and confining her to your house? Make up your mind will you??

N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
5th Nov '12

100% I would be supportive. :)