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Rant! Rabbit. Due October 29; 1 child; Wpg, Mb, Canada 413 posts
5th Nov '12

So I'm getting irritated. I love my LO too the moon and back and ADORE spending my time with him. But I feel his daddy isn't being so fair. He's on holidays until the 19th (took all his time off to be home with me and LO after his birth) and I find I'm the only one getting up in the middle of the night, early am for the day so he can sleep in, and watching him all day cause he's playing video games. And when he does watch him it's not for time to myself it's doing laundry cleaning up washing bottles pumping or cooking dinner. It's not fair. He won't help with housework which is what got me after him. Told him if he can make so much time for his damn games he should get shit done around the house all I asked him to do was the one load of LOs laundry. Did he do it!?! No he thought I just meant out it in the wash and I'd finish it. Ugh!!! Or he sees me sweeping and cleaning floors and will RIGHT after wipe his spikes formula mess onto the floor. WTF. Or can't out anything back. How hard is t to put it back in the cupboard. So anyways this made me the a*****e and he left. Drove 2 hours out of the city to his parents. When he was leaving I just told him to stay there, I'm doing a great job with my LO without him already and is have less to worry about with him not here. Probably very childish of me but its how I feel currently.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 20544 posts
5th Nov '12

I probably would have told him the same thing. Hopefully his mom will talk some sense in to him. I know my MIL helped my DH with some issues after we had our baby.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
5th Nov '12

Welcome to motherhood. No, really, he's an a*****e!

Rabbit. Due October 29; 1 child; Wpg, Mb, Canada 413 posts
5th Nov '12

His parents wouldn't say anything. They are the nicest people but its like the happy go lucky not talk about it type. Unless he brings it up. Lol funny thing
To top this all off is we're getting married on the 16th. Ha guess I should really re evaluate that desicion today. Yea sounds like I'm jumping the gun but hey I'm just blowin off steam

Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
5th Nov '12

Yeah welcome to motherhood. Men think we should do it all

Rabbit. Due October 29; 1 child; Wpg, Mb, Canada 413 posts
5th Nov '12

Well men are retarded.

Mrs.Dani Due July 3; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Oxnard, California 10272 posts
5th Nov '12

Sounds like my DH..

E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
5th Nov '12

Sounds just like my SO. I just want to kick him up the ass. I feel like a single parent even though supposedly I'm not...

Rabbit. Due October 29; 1 child; Wpg, Mb, Canada 413 posts
5th Nov '12

Well it's sad to hear others are having this same problem. It's so frustrating and draining. Right now all I can say is I hope he packed enough clothes for a while I don't want him home atm