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January Crystal Anne♥ 34 kids; Waynesville, Missouri 689 posts
5th Nov '12

I lost my second pregnancy at almost 19 weeks. I delivered my son on January 22, 2011. I'm 29 weeks pregnant right now with another little boy and I'm due January 18th. The closer and closer it gets to my due date I set here and freak myself out. I get all worried when I don't feel my baby boy move and think no I'm going to loose him too. I'm so ready for this baby to get here so I can hold him and watch him. My oldest is so excited to be a big brother! I'm a little worried that I will have him on the 22nd, just not sure how I'd really feel about it.

user banned Iowa 1784 posts
5th Nov '12

I am sorry hun. I am a week away from my miscarriage too. I don't want this one born on the same date. It is a hard day, I lost a baby and my best friend in the same day. :(

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7869 posts
5th Nov '12

Take comfort in knowing that if for some reason your baby was born now, he would probably live with help from the NICU.



Try to relax, though. Stressing or freaking out isn't good for the baby boy! I'm due January 2nd, and I'm veeeeeeeery excited, too. It's my first child, so my husband and I are definitely ready to meet him.



Also..If he's born on the 22nd, then he and his brother share a birthday! It could be something really special.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22958 posts
5th Nov '12

I'm sorry for your loss

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
5th Nov '12

it's very normal after losing a child and getting pregnant again to be nervous and scared.
I'm so sorry for your loss <3
I always thought of my daughter was looking out for my son when I was pregnant with him.
his big sister was watching out for him from above <3

M&M12/13 Due October 15; 2 kids; noidea, TX, United States 7582 posts
5th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Anne♥:</b>" I lost my second pregnancy at almost 19 weeks. I delivered my son on January 22, 2011. I'm 29 weeks pregnant ... [snip!] ... to be a big brother! I'm a little worried that I will have him on the 22nd, just not sure how I'd really feel about it. "</blockquote>




Ik it's not really the same I lost my baby at 6 week's EDD was 04/01/11. And got pregnant and had dd 4/3/12. The entire pregnancy I just thought I was supposed to be like this last year. :(



Good luck

Crystal Anne♥ 34 kids; Waynesville, Missouri 689 posts
5th Nov '12

thank you ladies! I know when I start to freak out I think of what I could be doing to my little boy. I know his brother is watching over me and so is his Grandma. I try not to worry to much since I was told I have hypertension so I've been super careful lately. I have a weird feeling I'll have him early but at least my doctor is keeping an extra eye on me. I start going to the doctor 2 times a week every week until I deliver starting when I turn 32 weeks. It's going to be a long go but I'll do anything for this little boy!