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pregnant by a craigslist stranger Sophia1990 Due July 14; Japan 7 posts
5th Nov '12

I am a usual babygaga member but I'm too embarrassed to post this on my other profile. I have come to realize that I'm a sex addict and I need help. I took a pregnancy test this morning, 2 days before I am due for my period, and it was positive. On the 20th, I hooked up with a man from the "casual encounters" section on craigslist. We didn't use a condom, I guess I just assumed he would pull out. If I could go back in time I would discuss birth control with him before hand. I went back to try and find his ad so I could email him, but he deleted it. I'm debating whether I should just show up at his apartment, where we had sex, and tell him. I can't believe I was so stupid and let this happen.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
5th Nov '12

You also need to get tested. There is an account for this, bg secrets

Switzerpuss 17 kids; Nebraska 2281 posts
5th Nov '12

you also need to get tested for HIV, hepatitis, and other common STD's.



He never gave you his number?

misanthrope 2 kids; Ramona, California 15431 posts
5th Nov '12

Well if you are planning to keep the pregnancy I think you should tell hm. I'm sure he reads the post in casual encounters. Maybe post something saying you guys need to talk.

~Mommy2NuNu~ 17 kids; 福井市, Japan 1511 posts
5th Nov '12

Oh no I would definately show up at his apartment it takes two to tango so he needs to know

Wife and Mommy of 4 4 kids; California 804 posts
5th Nov '12

I would go to his apartment, he needs to know that you may be pregnant

Sophia1990 Due July 14; Japan 7 posts
5th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" You also need to get tested. There is an account for this, bg secrets"</blockquote>




I got tested 3 days after it happened. I was just feeling dirty and disgusted with myself so I went in. I took plan b, but I guess not soon enough. I had BV and a yeast infection. They told me to come back in a month and get retested. I didn't know about the secret account

P Pickle Pants 98 kids; California 20522 posts
5th Nov '12

Get tested!!! You could have a disease!



And if you know where he live you should tell him, but he may want a DNA test (I would---if you hook up with one guy with no condoms and such I'd assume you might do it repeatedly)



If you plan to keep the pregnancy you should also get his medical history info too.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23030 posts
5th Nov '12

Get tested also. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think you could get in trouble for having a second account. And I don't want that to happen

Jackie Burkhart ♡ 1 child; Wisconsin 7270 posts
5th Nov '12

Oh wow.




Definitely get tested. How did you contact him through CL? E-mail? If so, can't you go to your email and get it?



If not, I suppose I'd go there.

Sophia1990 Due July 14; Japan 7 posts
5th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Switzerpuss:</b>" you also need to get tested for HIV, hepatitis, and other common STD's. He never gave you his number?"</blockquote>




No I didn't ask for his number. It was terrible sex so a one time thing.

Niki-Mae Due January 6; 1 child; New York 25 posts
5th Nov '12

You DEF need to be tested for HIV and other STD's! It sounds like your not the only sex addict in that situation and if he was comfortable NOT using a condom as well then hes most likely done that with a lot of other women as well. You should really try to get a hold of him any way you know how but dont be surprised if he wants nothing to do with the situation. Also, you should be extremely careful with craigslist, have u ever seen the movie The Craigslist Killer??? Good luck and stay SAFE!

misanthrope 2 kids; Ramona, California 15431 posts
5th Nov '12

Are you planning to keep the baby?

Sophia1990 Due July 14; Japan 7 posts
5th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting P Pickle Pants:</b>" Get tested!!! You could have a disease! And if you know where he live you should tell him, but he may ... [snip!] ... I'd assume you might do it repeatedly) If you plan to keep the pregnancy you should also get his medical history info too."</blockquote>




I know he would assume that but honestly, it's the first and only time I have ever used the internet to find sex.

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
5th Nov '12

You don't have his email? I would try contacting him by email, tell him you'd like to meet up. If not, I guess I'd go to his place.