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Painful sex... I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
5th Nov '12

After I had my son whenever DH and I get intimate most positions kill me. Like he is hitting something up there. IT hurts to the point where i get completely turned off, have to make him stop and reposition ourselves and even sometimes just stop altogether. I need to see my Doc. I've been putting it off for way too long now. On top of all this the nuvaring i've been using for two month now won't stay up there at all. It keeps coming out and at one point this evening I couldn't even get it up there at all. I just have no idea what could be causing all this. Could my cervix be falling down? is that even possible?!



Have any of you ladies had this problem?
If so did you ever find what was causing this? I'm so frustrated its unreal. I'm only 20 and I can't stand to have anyone including myself around my vag... :oops:

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy 3 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30165 posts
5th Nov '12

I had this exact same problem after i had my son. When DH and i would have sex in certain positions it hurt like i felt an insane amount of pressure, idk what caused it i just started doing other positions and now after i had DD it doesn't hurt as bad.

user banned 2 kids; Copiague, New York 1881 posts
5th Nov '12

I've never had a problem w/ inserting my NuvaRing.

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
5th Nov '12
Quoting Bob Wehadababyitsaboy:" I had this exact same problem after i had my son. When DH and i would have sex in certain positions it ... [snip!] ... amount of pressure, idk what caused it i just started doing other positions and now after i had DD it doesn't hurt as bad."



The problem is pretty much EVERY position hurts at this point. It makes me want to cry because of the pain and because i feel useless to my hubby..

Leannah Carrasco 3 kids; Yuba City, California 346 posts
5th Nov '12

I started having this problem after my first and im pregnant with my 3rd and cry like a big baby just trying to sit down have since 8 weeks with my 2nd i just had pain durning sex that i needed to try another position ..... But i think its just sensitive down there for some women after kids not sure tho

Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7600 posts
5th Nov '12

For several months after having DS, sex was generally uncomfortable. It went away eventually. No idea about the NuvaRing, though.

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
5th Nov '12
Quoting Leannah Carrasco:" I started having this problem after my first and im pregnant with my 3rd and cry like a big baby just ... [snip!] ... that i needed to try another position ..... But i think its just sensitive down there for some women after kids not sure tho"


its been like 10 months though :( how long is this shit gonna last. It seems to be getting worse not better! :(

Leannah Carrasco 3 kids; Yuba City, California 346 posts
5th Nov '12

My oldest is 2 1/2 and i havent gotten better since just worse

Leannah Carrasco 3 kids; Yuba City, California 346 posts
5th Nov '12

My oldest is 2 1/2 and i havent gotten better since just worse

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
5th Nov '12
Quoting Leannah Carrasco:" My oldest is 2 1/2 and i havent gotten better since just worse"


have you ever gotten checked out for like a prolapsed vagina?
I was thinking maybe thats my problem. I had a really REALLY rough labor with my son. I think i just may have done some serious damage. I havent been checked out down there since i had him. And it wasnt even my midwife who delivered so.. Yeah i need to get to the bottom of this and so should you!

Leannah Carrasco 3 kids; Yuba City, California 346 posts
6th Nov '12

No I havent .... I need to though my mom had the same issues and thats what they told her but I been scared to tell my dr the extent of my problems.....